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Date: November 29, 2022
If he's not bringing it up, it isn't bothering him. He doesn't need multiple romantic relationships to be happy; he just can enjoy having multiple romantic relationships at once.
To draw a parallel: I recall in college how often there would be a question for bisexual people that asked if they always had to have sex in threesomes. The answer, of course, is that a bisexual person may be attracted to men and women, but they don't need to have sex with one of each at the same time. It is a capability, not a requirement.
So is this something that comes up for some reason? Is it something you worry about, and you ask him to get reassurance? Or is he talking about it every now and then?
At 35 this isn't going to get better in any way, you should be mature enough to see that this level of crazy is what should be called not wife material
So you had a pretty rough and traumatising upbringing and it has result in you manifesting one of two extremes in a relationship: severe detachment, keeping them at arms length and avoiding emotional investment… or extreme attachment, cling and controlling. Both are very unhealthy, obviously. Your self esteem has also become a feedback loop, where you find it hard to focus due to anxiety, thus you get less results, thus you get anxious and find it very hot to focus.
Thing is, you acknowledge the problem. You went to 3 therapists and never utilised them. You know you need therapy, you know you are not actually ready for a relationship as you are. I suspect part of why you remain silent is precisely that fear, the fear of seeing the actual problem, like a guy with a broken ankle avoiding the doctors because he is scared that is the case and learning to limp around instead.
But I want you to be real with me here. This post, while I appreciate it is anonymous, is very heartfelt. This is vulnerability, this is opening up. This is exactly what you need to do. Maybe live therapy is the way to go, via text or voicechat so you can trick yourself into dropping your guard. Worth thinking about, because even a single session where you get this out to someone could result in the thread that is pulled that finally lets you open up.
I think he forgot gambling addiction is a thing
Yes and it would STILL be SA because they can’t consent
It's better to be alone than to be with someone with whom you feel alone.