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Date: October 22, 2022
We were finally so happy.
Nah. You were finally buying into his lies and deep in his web. It takes a lot for the IRS to get to the point of emptying bank accounts. A LOT. They don't want to do that – they want their money, but they want to work with you to get it.
Yes, your life is upside down. You’re in for some very, very tough days, weeks, months, and years ahead, OP. Now is the time to seek professional help- legal, physical health, and mental health professional help, both for yourself and your sister. I say for your sister, but that’s only if you have it in you to help her right now (and I understand it may be too much to help her as well as yourself at the moment, and that’s okay) but please consider that while your sister bears some responsibility for her alcoholism, the reality is she didn’t do this to you, your husband did.
Your husband, who became a legal adult before you were even born, destroyed your marriage, whatever that looked like. He took advantage of your sister, who is an alcoholic, and had sex with her when she was absolutely, 100% incapable (legally, practically, ethically) to give her consent. Consent is required for sex to occur. If there isn’t consent, it’s rape. I know it will be hot to hear, because you love your husband, but he raped your sister. In your home. While you were present. He did that. Not her, him.
I’m worried, OP, that you are now in active danger. The type of person who would do something like this is very, very dangerous because every act he’s done shows he does not respect you. Just so you know, I’m factoring everything you mentioned in your post into the “something like this” description, and by that I mean a) he married someone who was in diapers and didn’t know how to use a toilet while he was having his first drink, dating, graduating (or not) high school, etc., while you were learning how to talk; b) he had an “affair” in his marital home, while his spouse was there, with someone in her immediate family; and c) this one is the most important, he raped someone. I put affair in quotes because in this particular instance, regardless of whether this is the only time he has had such an interaction with your sister or not, this time it was rape.
You don’t have to be the one to help your sister through her alcoholism. I understand if, in this moment, you’re not able to, and that’s okay. But what you do need to do, and do it quickly, is take steps now to ensure you and your sister are safe.
You witnessed your husband commit a violent crime that ought to land him in jail. He is about to do everything in his power to make sure you don’t see the situation that way. He will turn on you, if you support her. He will blame ALL of it on your sister, if he hasn’t already. It sounds like you’re blaming your sister when you ask how she could do this to you… where is the blame for your husband, the one who raped your nearly unconscious sister in your house!! The one who was old enough to understand consent a decade before you were conceived? He is not a good man. This is going to be bad, I won’t sugar coat it. This is why you need professionals, ASAP.
Start with your physical safety. If he’s out of the house still, the next step is gathering your documents. If not then gather them discreetly, if it’s safe, and find somewhere you can stay. If you’re able, find somewhere you can leave your sister where she will be safe and you don’t have to deal with her while you’re going through this. I would have suggested your sister get a tox report done at a hospital, but it’s been a month now.
I understand if you’re not ready to view what happened as rape, because up until a bunch of people on Reddit told you so, you didn’t view it that way. But even if you’re not there yet, even if you never get there, your marriage is over. It will not and should not survive this. Speak to a lawyer. If you can’t afford one, speak to domestic abuse services in your area. It’s time to tell your friends who you trust what has happened, even though it’s going to be hard.
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Please be safe, OP. I am genuinely worried for you.
Ask her how she goes about selecting men to date, take your cue from her response.
I think this really highlights the fact that men fear humiliation where women fear actual harm. It's perfectly reasonable for you to decide to pass.. but the worst case scenario for you is being called a womanizer/being embarrassed by gossip, and the worst case situation for her is murder. They aren't equal.
He's already manipulating you, my friend.
Make a post asking what people think about just the age gap and that'll tell you what society thinks about it.
Please don't let him take advantage of you.
This.
You said you’ve googled it, and people have said that their phones/GPS have shown them in places they’ve never been.
Of all the places that a glitch might accidentally put her location, how the hell does it wind up putting her at a coworker’s place?
I understand what you're saying, and can definitely frame it that way without upsetting her. Thank you!
So what was his response during that conversation?
Not necessarily, some people like to keep “momentos” of past relationships. She should have deleted it tho since it made her bf uncomfortable
You can't trust her. I told a dude earlier, as time goes by adjust your boundaries and keep communication first priority. You are screwed.
She likes the lick. Not the ….! Dildo? Strap on? Just saying.
Keep her or leave her. Your choice. All the best brother.
Started having second thoughts a few months ago when we got into a fight about our plans for the future He has supported me but now i think he has some issues with me developing further I know our relationship works a lot around compromise and i can adapt to change not sure if he can
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It honestly doesn't read to me like he in any way expects to break up here. This is manipulation tactics 101, good buddies. Fuck this guy.