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I'm so HAPPY ? you use the word SIMPLE.
That is my all-time favorite word when it comes to dating, marriage, relationships, and love. Always keep it simple, never complicate matters.
God don't make this naked, we do. LOL ?
I explained already that I was basing it off of how you approached it when someone told you to tell your partner about getting in the car.
Telling her about it so she “understands the severity” is manipulative, as I said it comes out as “if you don't give me sex I will cheat on you, look how serious I am, I already almost did it”
You should be telling her because you feel ashamed that you were almost intimate with a person that's not her and because you want to be honest about what you did wrong.
It's okay to have boundaries but you can't use your boundaries to manipulate or coerce someone. As I said above if sex is a deal breaker then you need to be clear with her that you can't stay in a relationship that doesn't have it and actually leave if it doesn't. It's kind of a nude line if you're not used to the difference but that's why I recommended a therapist or someone that can help you better understand. I wasn't trying to be facetious, it really sounds like you're missing that understanding.
You might not be able to get him back. Respect his boundaries.
I mean, your guy is a coward, which is a really unattractive quality in a man. Maybe he should go take some self-defense classes? Idk, i would just bail, for real.
Yes, my wife of 3 years in my twenties told me quite explicitly that sex was no longer important to her, and that our current frequency which was 2x per month was a bit much. What? Well it was still important to me.
We did counseling no change. I desire to change. She suggested maybe I had a problem and should continue with the counseling.
6 months later I divorced her.
20 years later she tells me she remarried into a 20 year dead bedroom. I mean I really still like her as a person, and a part of me felt bad for her, but another part of me was thinking karma, and yet another part of me was really pissed off because I was so damned attracted to her and loved her. Now, apparently she is really sexual. Still gets me pissed off.
He needs to be in therapy. You do not need to enable him. Unless he is in therapy and making an effort to heal himself, then I'd be out the door.
Don’t treat her like a flesh light. You’re going to turn yourself into his biggest turn off.
lol shut the fuck up
It’s a rather blunt way to put it but he’s not wrong. Nobody goes into a relationship with the expectation of cheating. I think he’s more pushing back on the idea that only men cheat seems to me
Why are you living with a immature, cruel jerk?
Ehh the way they touch each other is pretty platonic imo.
Dont ask her not to see her, just break.up with him if its too much to handle for you.
She admitted it, so good on her. What you MUST make her understand that for her it's 6 years ago, for you it just happened.
If it were me, I'd be inclined to work through it. You two are talking about marriage, so this will be an excellent measure of how the two of you handle problems.
Again, she came forward BEFORE you bought a ring. As far as I can tell there's no chance you'd have found out otherwise. That counts for a lot in my mind. She's rather lose her love than marry you under false pretences. There's character there.
This is the statistic that got me away from my abuser. It sticks in my mind. Absolutely horrifying how close so many of us have come to being part of this statistic…
Evil, but I love it!
The more you respond… you married a bully
It's not realistic to think you're only going to have sex with virgins for the rest of your life. Pretty much everyone you date for the rest of your life will have had sex with other guys before.
People have sex for different reasons. Some times it's for love, sometimes it's for physical intimacy and connection, sometimes it's because people are horny or lonely. There's nothing wrong with any of those things.
What she's done in the past isn't really important. But if you're interested in being in a monogamous romantic relationship with her, then both of you will decide NOT to have sex with anyone else, just each other. The fact that she's had sex with other people in the past doesn't mean she doesn't care about you, and it doesn't mean she can't be monogamous with you from now on.
I get it, thanks for the advice.
You need to tell her your expectations.
If you want to try to make this to work now, you will need to have an uncomfortable conversation with her.
You need to explicitly tell her how much this has hurt you, how this has wrecked your trust in her and what you need her to do if she wants you two to stay together.
Then you need to listen to her. Where her head is what she is feeling and what she wants to do.
Be aware this may only be the first conversation and both of you may need to step away and think about what was said, regroup and then continue the conversation.
My family has been very disapproving of the relationship and unfair to my boyfriend
Nah, I think they were pretty fair. I have a vocabulary of a sailor and not once have I used it against a person, let alone a partner.
This dude is violent, aggressive and lacks basic communication skills. If I were you, I would have been packed and gone by now.
One of my coworkers told me I look young because “your chest is so underdeveloped”. At that time I was a 34A I think, just naturally small (as is all of me). Now I've had a double mastectomy but as someone who is petite and looks young it pisses me off so much to hear people call these factors “underdeveloped” “childlike” “kids body”, some people are just small!!!! Like the woman that's known for being “trapped in a kids body” WTF NO!!! SHES A GROWN WOMAN JUST SMALL.
oh man…this is on another level…therapy level. i’m so sorry?
I appreciate it. I feel better today, just very frustrated. Thank you for your input ?
God showed you his true colours now for a reason. Get out now. I'm really sorry but that's not salvageable.
Your wife is right. Your relationship is on the side of emotional cheating. Unless you want to be divorced, cut it off. No contact beyond work.