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Date: November 14, 2022
I’m confused, the ‘bit’ account notified your girlfriend about it? so she set you up? if she did that’s really immature of her and I wouldn’t be happy about that at all. Especially because you didn’t take the bait and weren’t being flirty or anything
When is registration or drop/add at your University? It sounds like your major is not lining up with your interests or abilities. That doesn't mean that College in general is not for you. If you can change your classes for Spring term, you should. Spend some time learning what you are interested in. Many Colleges have advising and career centers to help. I know you feel defeated right now, and the adjustment to University life can be very difficult. But you make some changes.
… Wtaf?
I know this is heart breaking. I can only imagine how horrific this was to find. But when you really think about this – do you really want to be witj someone that is willing to drop his kids and girlfriend so easily? He actulaly persued someone in the hope to drop his family for her?
What if she changes her mind?
You want to risk that?
Id get my ducks in a row, copy the letter or take a photo. Then leave his bags packed outside and let him know he now has the freedom he so desires to go persue her.
Then go live a life free of someone who was so eager to fuck not only his mrs but his two children over.
I would say to leave him, you are still young so there is an abundant amount of guys that'll treat you better than that.
Yes to this OP. Never been married, but had my gf of 5 years do the same thing to me. Definitely sucks to lose your partner and best friend in one motion. It took a long time, but I realized I was better off without her, because if she had that capacity in her, it was going to happen sometime. Better to have it happen now rather than in 10 years when it might be harder to recover/move on from. Just give it time
The negative is your being selfish, still clinging onto some false hope that you have a chance with her. But please do send a message and update us, as to share your embarrassment with the rest of the world when she politely rejects the hell out of you.
No kidding. Fabrication of the whole ‘break’ is a whole other level of f’thery. Forget the affair. It’s the orchestration of the series of events to take place that enabled the affair to the break, to her marriage with OP. Damn this chic is most definitely a 4D chess player! OP is clearly out of his league.
Run don't walk away from this guy. Huge red flag followed by another in his reaction to you calling him out on it.
UPDATE: We talked last night and she acknowledged the moods but at the beginning of the conversation she felt it was justified however was happy to see if there can be an adjustment. I explained how it made me feel and that I was having doubts. She got really upset about that then she put the ball in my court to think about if I see us together having a house, kids etc so I'm thinking it all through. When I say “yes” to those questions though, feels like I am lying to myself.
Things were left on a good note last night, I just have some soul searching to do.
Thanks for the varying advice everyone.
You really don't need to quote the whole comment, it's right above yours.
now you mention it, it is kinda weird that he said he called a local pharmacy and had to wait 30 min.
They are not as legitimate. I hate people who just go “oh they're allowed to think different” not when it's about human rights. No you don't just get to have a different opinion.
Nothing wrong with saying it and feeling it as long as you are aware that you have only seen the tip of the iceberg with this person.
IMO, yes, it's too early.
Was he the one that said it first? I worry this is early stages of love bombing of a narcissist. Impossible to diagnose without knowing more details, but please – keep your guard up, especially coming out of another abusive and manipulative relationship.
Did you know he wanted kids before you married him? Have you told him about your views on pregnancy? Did he know you before you turned an adult? When did you guys start dating? And then planned to get married? Did you want to get married this fast?
Lol it is a free cheating pass. He doesn’t condone cheating but gives a free pass to his friend
Counseling. Find a couples therapist with abuse and trauma training.
Counseling. Find a couples therapist with abuse and trauma training.
Hey honey, I know you want a kid. But the verbal abuse I took from you during the last pregnancy had me on the verge of filing for a divorce. I’m not fully comfortable with the idea of going through that again. What are ways they we can work together to make sure your not abrasive and uncouth to me if we do decide to have the second kid.
But no lie OP, you need to stand your ground and stick up for yourself. No one is a mind reader but you need to fill people in. It sounds like your kinda a push over I’d try to talk with a therapist on setting healthy boundaries with everyone even your partner/kid. Good luck.
Bruh. You’re holding onto what you think is a blank canvas but he’s already shown you his colors. He wasn’t a partner to you in sickness and he wasn’t a friend. He was a ducking mean girl. He’s been wishy washy about commitment and he said the break up feels more real because he’s wondering how to end it. You sound exhausting with your endless deep conversations. (I am the same way and exhaust myself.) But you don’t sound at fault. Just tell Him upon reflection you realize that this is for the best and wish him well. Find someone who MATCHES YOU. When it’s right you won’t have to try to like each other.
I didn't even thing of any other alternatives because I wasn't thinking anything is odd
How about stop dating criminals and expecting them to behave appropriately?
Yeah…condoms do that to some guys. I know, because it happens to me, every time I put one on. It sucks.
I have an aquaintance who is exactly the same, the only difference is than she is 28yo.
In my experience, hoes dont learn, dont waste your breath on someone that is not willing to listen.
Hoes will be hoes until they cant get men anymore.
Not going to lie, being someone’s first relationship when well into adulthood is rough. I’ve done it twice and the amount of fights on teenage-relationship-level can be super frustrating. Lack of being used to cohabitation can also be annoying.
I’d give it a try and really watch how he reacts to disagreements and what sort of power dynamic develops.
Yeah, I don't think anyone of us has ever actually questioned each others status as prior to me and Mark, the only one's sleeping together were dating so it was their business. But yeah, looking back at that conversation now… I'm glad I stuck to condoms each time.
I'm not sure if there's a way to come back from that.
Personally, I'd be done with the relationship if my partner told me I was just like my father. He was an abusive asshole. So, there'd be no coming back from that for us.
no im not a happily married woman to a man that hates abusers so i cant say the same ?♂️ stop being rude also the fact that your assuming so far ahead about kids and explaining your own situation to me for no reason tells me enough
Would you qualify as a SO to someone you just started dating?
I got the vaccine in Canada two years ago and it was fully covered with my insurance! I was 32
Why is everything about what you want?
I think this person is just suggesting that OP do this to make a point to the husband. OP is the girl's legal parent, so I doubt they're genuinely suggesting that he stop taking care of his daughter just because his husband might disagree lol
I mean, if I lived with four other people, I would just assume the person is a friend of my roommate. Like any normal person would assume. Shoving a gun in her face and screaming “WHO ARE YOU??!?!!” is not the right way to handle this situation lol.
Would highly suggest not posting in here advertising your a minor a lot of creeps in the internet.
I just wanna point out that being fully recovered from a stroke, and functioning like you once did are two entirely separate things. Most people suffer from permanent cognitive and communication issues after a stroke, and are deemed fully recovered. In the US, treatment typically involves learning to compensate, and getting quality restorative care isn’t a thing for a lot of people. Insurance generally slow rolls referrals on critical services, because 2 years post stroke new learning and restorative functioning are not shown possible through evidence.
It may be that he has subtle cognitive changes Specifically most stroke survivors have trouble with planning, communication, and emotional lability. It’s worth considering to what extent if any these difficult personality traits existed prior to the stroke. Lots of times these things get over looked.
If he was like this before, I’d really consider running.