Leave him baby girl. You can do better, and you don't need his drama right now. Let him block you, embrace it even, and take that excuse to never message him again. Focus on your mum and making beautiful memories while you still have some time. Do your favourite things with her, tell her all those words you might've forgotten to say when you were younger, laugh and love with her. Don't make that man a part of any of it. Don't let his drama taint the memories you can make. I am so sorry you're going through this, and as a mother I can say that it would be my worst nightmare to have my babies watch me suffer and not be able to change it. You want to be able to fix everything for your children, and when they're hurting it hurts you too. So let there be smiles, hugs and warmth, so that at least for a blissful moment nobody is hurting and your memories become beauty. Your mum is so strong, and so are you OP. I wish you nothing but the best, and you're stronger than you think you are. ❤️
The trust is gone, and forever will be. This will also always be a stain in the relationship, and something that you will often think about. It sucks having to break it off with someone you've been with for so long. But you need to split for your mental health. The quicker you end it, the quicker you can start the healing process.
It’s assumed unless there it’s contested by one or both partners. But like the commenter above said, no judge in there right mind would separate a parent and a child after 12 years (even if the dad wanted to).
Can you hire someone to help with the cleaning? If she really has a disorder like this everything is hot. If she is just lazy that's a whole different story. Do you think her disorder is really contributing to this?
Your husband should tell her to leave him alone and stop sending him nudes, not you.
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Leave him baby girl. You can do better, and you don't need his drama right now. Let him block you, embrace it even, and take that excuse to never message him again. Focus on your mum and making beautiful memories while you still have some time. Do your favourite things with her, tell her all those words you might've forgotten to say when you were younger, laugh and love with her. Don't make that man a part of any of it. Don't let his drama taint the memories you can make. I am so sorry you're going through this, and as a mother I can say that it would be my worst nightmare to have my babies watch me suffer and not be able to change it. You want to be able to fix everything for your children, and when they're hurting it hurts you too. So let there be smiles, hugs and warmth, so that at least for a blissful moment nobody is hurting and your memories become beauty. Your mum is so strong, and so are you OP. I wish you nothing but the best, and you're stronger than you think you are. ❤️
The trust is gone, and forever will be. This will also always be a stain in the relationship, and something that you will often think about. It sucks having to break it off with someone you've been with for so long. But you need to split for your mental health. The quicker you end it, the quicker you can start the healing process.
It’s assumed unless there it’s contested by one or both partners. But like the commenter above said, no judge in there right mind would separate a parent and a child after 12 years (even if the dad wanted to).
Can you hire someone to help with the cleaning? If she really has a disorder like this everything is hot. If she is just lazy that's a whole different story. Do you think her disorder is really contributing to this?
Is she getting help for it?