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Date: November 11, 2022
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I was not prepared for that.
This sounds like it went from just a bit too affectionate to a toxic situation. Throwing so much stuff back in your face is so wrong and I find the 50/50 reciprocation a little odd. It's like taking the “put as much effort into the relationships as the other person” to a very strict and crazy level.
If he's legitimately that upset about it, to the point he sits at home alone bawling, then yeah, there's something going on mentally.
I'm going to be an armchair psych (I know) and hazard a guess and say he has childhood trauma of some kind. It seems to me as though he's trying to get the things he didn't get from his parents/childhood from you, or is trying to make you overcompensate. Perhaps his parents/guardians made a lot of false promises and now that's something that just sits in his mind and he can't accept whatsoever. Or he has some deep attachment issues. Could be anything.
Regardless, it's not on you, and it shouldn't be put on you in a capacity further than supporting him as his wife.
You can say something like “I love you, but I can't give you everything you're asking for. I'm unhappy with the trajectory our marriage is going. I'm willing to go to marriage counselling, but also individual therapy, so we can navigate this and have healthier and happier lives with good communication and both of our needs can be met. I need you to meet me in the middle here so we can resolve this and move past it.” It's 50/50. You both go to therapy. Not just him. It would be a start.
This, of course, is providing you do love him and do want to continue your marriage with him. It does sound quite exhausting, but I'm willing to bet my big toe that he has some far deeper issues at play.
Lay out your needs and wants for the future and what's hindering those. Also reaffirm your feelings for him. He might freak out or go off the deep end if you make it sound like you're leaving him.
This is something that worries me for you if he's not regulating his emotions properly. Perhaps someone a little more versed in the subject will be able to offer some insight into whether he's manipulating you, abusing you, or is purely mentally unwell. Though, what makes me wonder is the fact that you might feel you have to give in, in fear of having to deal with another breakdown. Especially when it concerns sexual favours. Is he manipulating you with tears?
No matter what the issue is, please stay safe, OP.
It’s far more bizarre that you accept this behaviour and haven’t left.
You can’t have a relationship without trust and reliability. You have none.
My issue is that she is making no compromises. You are making a huge compromise. She is so wrong to me. I hope there is a way to compromise but I don't see it.