I can perfectly understand why blackfishing bothers people but I see nothing to suggest that this is a case of blackfishing. Lana is an Asian woman that tans and has decided to cosplay as a character with dark skin. The character in question is not even black. The whole argument is frankly ridiculous and clearly rooted in Kates own insecurities and biases. It honestly sounds to me like Kate is jealous of Lana for some reason and is making shit up to get at her.
Let him go when you’re ready you will find somebody he will want only you. He’s manipulating you. Don’t do anything you don’t wanna do. Here’s another thing I’ve noticed by the time a relationship gets to this point. One person wants to cheat. And he wants to cheat and he wants you to cosign it to say you’re OK with it if he opens it up then you’ll do that don’t do it you’ll hate yourself and you won’t be happy. You will also hate him.
Be careful sometimes friends lie to get in your pants with a revenge fuk.
I can perfectly understand why blackfishing bothers people but I see nothing to suggest that this is a case of blackfishing. Lana is an Asian woman that tans and has decided to cosplay as a character with dark skin. The character in question is not even black. The whole argument is frankly ridiculous and clearly rooted in Kates own insecurities and biases. It honestly sounds to me like Kate is jealous of Lana for some reason and is making shit up to get at her.
Let him go when you’re ready you will find somebody he will want only you. He’s manipulating you. Don’t do anything you don’t wanna do. Here’s another thing I’ve noticed by the time a relationship gets to this point. One person wants to cheat. And he wants to cheat and he wants you to cosign it to say you’re OK with it if he opens it up then you’ll do that don’t do it you’ll hate yourself and you won’t be happy. You will also hate him.