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lovenseOn!!! shhhh my par:nts are at home @analshow [164 tokens remaining]
Date: December 4, 2022
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lovenseOn!!! shhhh my par:nts are at home @analshow [164 tokens remaining]
Birth control is a symptom of the problem, not the actual problem, which is that you do not feel safe and secure in your relationship.
Unfortunately, the root of that is usually some variant of feeling unloveable as a child, “they will love me if” – I don't cause problems, I don't stand up to not wanting him to ejaculate inside me without a condom, I don’t show my hisband how badly I do not want to have kids with him, etc.
Actions of unhealthy self-preservation like that are also manipulation and control. Omitting the fact that you are on birth control manipulates him into using a condom without argument. He has agreed to have sex with his wife wearing a condom on the false information that his wife is not on birth control. That's fraudulent inducement, which could easily go to the whole marriage if he believes creating a child with you is on the table in the future.
“Your body, your rights” does not justify fraudulently inducing someone to do something with their body.
No such thing as the “right” person when it comes to having sex for the first time.
Too much negative implication.
*I can’t even fully trust him alone with our daughter. He would yell at her when she was just a baby, smacked her because she wouldn’t go to sleep and still does when she doesn’t “comply”*
Op? Explain why this is acceptable? Please.
You don't trust him alone with your daughter.
Why do you allow him alone with your daughter?
He yells and SMACKS her.
You can't control what he does or doesn't do. I understand that.
Why are YOU allowing him to verbally and physically abuse your child?
Look, If YOU CHOOSE to put up with his abusive behavior to you, that's on you.
However, when YOU allow his verbal and physical on your child?
You are no better than he is, Op.