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Get your daughter a small keychain flashlight. Your wife is right that it's super weird to teach your daughter to carry around a giant heavy flashlight that can double as a weapon, while teaching her how to be a paranoid survivalist.
I’d 100% pass on this one. She can’t just put you on “layaway” while she’s out hooking up and expect you to be cool with it and resume things when she returns.
OP, I'm an atheist and so is my partner. He comes from a Muslim country though. When our son was small, he was talking to our neighbour who is Algerian and she was telling he needed to circumcise our son, which he agreed was a good idea. I immediately decided that if I couldn't persuade him not to, I would simply have to take our son away, no way was I going to let him mutilate my boy like that.
He doesn't mind you being an atheist but he wants his children to grow up in the church. This would simply mean that you'd be left out of all sorts of stuff, from services to picnics to goodness knows what else.
And then whatever the children decide once they're old enough to decide for themselves, he'll either take it as a victory or blame you for brainwashing them, it'd be very difficult for everyone to remain calm with such huge differences in mindset.
Leftover media can happen. Keeping them intentionally is a red flag. Keeping them after you asked to remove them and also hiding them? Yeah that's a reason to break up. You say you love her, but she clearly doesn't. Also, easily aggravated? Why are you even with her to begin with? Just so you have to pay child support in the future and hope she doesn't kill your child? Just run brother, run.
Why are you still with him if he's just a pretty face? lulz
Be done with the dude you don't like or keep hanging on doing whatever it is that you think will get him to move you in and pay for everything. Good golly. You supposedly can't even make up your own mind because the dude could spoil you, but you're not worth spoiling to him.
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Get your daughter a small keychain flashlight. Your wife is right that it's super weird to teach your daughter to carry around a giant heavy flashlight that can double as a weapon, while teaching her how to be a paranoid survivalist.
I’d 100% pass on this one. She can’t just put you on “layaway” while she’s out hooking up and expect you to be cool with it and resume things when she returns.
OP, I'm an atheist and so is my partner. He comes from a Muslim country though. When our son was small, he was talking to our neighbour who is Algerian and she was telling he needed to circumcise our son, which he agreed was a good idea. I immediately decided that if I couldn't persuade him not to, I would simply have to take our son away, no way was I going to let him mutilate my boy like that.
He doesn't mind you being an atheist but he wants his children to grow up in the church. This would simply mean that you'd be left out of all sorts of stuff, from services to picnics to goodness knows what else.
And then whatever the children decide once they're old enough to decide for themselves, he'll either take it as a victory or blame you for brainwashing them, it'd be very difficult for everyone to remain calm with such huge differences in mindset.
Leftover media can happen. Keeping them intentionally is a red flag. Keeping them after you asked to remove them and also hiding them? Yeah that's a reason to break up. You say you love her, but she clearly doesn't. Also, easily aggravated? Why are you even with her to begin with? Just so you have to pay child support in the future and hope she doesn't kill your child? Just run brother, run.
Text posts don't get karma tho I thought
Does he ever make effort to visit you? Is the whole relationship one sided with you always visiting him and making effort to call and text?
Why are you still with him if he's just a pretty face? lulz
Be done with the dude you don't like or keep hanging on doing whatever it is that you think will get him to move you in and pay for everything. Good golly. You supposedly can't even make up your own mind because the dude could spoil you, but you're not worth spoiling to him.
Yeah, you’re right lol