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Date: October 17, 2022
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Probably payback for your behaviour though, 2 wrongs don’t make a right. Getting married after that is not a good idea.
It isn't rude to inform someone you're in a relationship. It's a neutral action. The fact he is upset with you and fights you and not them, when you're his girlfriend and they are breaking your boundaries is telling of his priorities, especially since he wants to define himself as nice. I wouldn't continue to date him.
So you went alone to his room drunk? Why? It hasn't been that long so I would most likely dump someone who thinks it's okay to go alone to a guy you just mets room drunk. I wouldn't date someone with such poor judgement regardless of what happened in the room.
do I say nothing and what he doesn’t know can’t hurt him but if he finds out down the line it will be a hundred times worse?
Fyi this is the logic most cheaters uses to “justify” not telling their spouse, so I don't think this is a healthy mindset to have. I'd tell him, because if it comes out later I don't there is any chance your relationship survives, I mean why he would he believe what you say then. The quicker the better
you came here for advice. & you’re being rude to commenters just because they’re not saying what you want to hear
Also the mingling with customers to get them to buy champagne. When I first heard this I was a little nauseous!
If you want to go, then go. You make good money. Pay for it. This could be a once in a lifetime experience, and you would be foolish not to go. It's not fair to require him to pay you to go. And if you don't go, it's not fair to blame him because you wouldn't pay for it.
I do not have any money (chronically I'll, but live in a country, where I still have a roof over my head and enough food, luckily). If I want to get someone a gift or celebrate a special day I most definitely will find a way to do so! You can buy (barely used) items live! – books, movies, furniture, decorative stuff, pretty much anything. Someone who knows you and cares about you and wants to make you feel appreciated will find a way to do that. If I knew what kind of stuff you liked I could get a book on the topic, or handwrite and frame a poem that I think you'd like, of I'd bake a cake or bake cookies, or surprise you with a nice home cooked meal.
No money = no gifts + no celebrations is utter bs.
He lied to you, he doesn't appreciate you, and he doesn't make you a priority in his life at all.
I would say: Find out and collect prove of his financial situation/him lying about it, without telling him anything yet. Get in touch with a lawyer and only tell him you are divorcing him, when you have everything prepared and in order.
I am sorry you are going through this. But I am glad you see clearly that he is not a good spouse.
How quickly she notices a change in behavior too, within 5 days he was playing video games way more than normal while also spending hours working on a shed? Is 5 days really enough time to say “wow he sure is playing games a lot more than he used to.”
She cheated. Get out now.
That is exactly what I am thinking about.
Like I understand if we were married and she is acting a bit like this because we obviously will have to monitor finances more closely and decisions, but not like this
She never asked him to erase his ENTIRE LIFE you’re overdramatizing what she asked
He's excited; you're not – that is enough to not do it. Give him a week to get past it and hopefully you can yourself.