What I would seriously consider though is how willing you are to entertain such thoughts. We know that the army gets its recruits to play shooter games to help edge them off the realities of war and killing other humans. Your fantasies are a warning signal in that regard. If allowed to continue then you will eventually be persuaded that it's not such a bad thing to make those fantasies into reality. It won't be about your boyfriend anymore, but about this idealized version of this new guy who makes you feel more excited every time you speak to one another. And that's what tends to happen if you just indulge yourself on these fantasies.
Cheating is wrong though and he wouldn’t carry it out he just ranting and I know I did it wrong but this is ridiculous you will condone cheating. How are you trying to put your virtues higher than mine. My bf admitted his mistake and came clean but I am not taking advice from you.
Okay first off I have pretty big boobs, like f/j cup depending on my time of the month. They're often the largest people have seen on my frame. People comment on it and tell me this. So no, i don't JUST have big boob they're large to where 9/10 they're the biggest in the room and if you've never experienced thay then who are you to tell me people don't fixate?
I didn't even mention that woman came up to me in the locker room and said “wow you fill out that top I'm p flat chested.”
Lmao I don't wear frilly shit at the gym, I described normal workout clothes, short, leggings, shirts etc. Or are large breastfed women suppose to workout in a niqap and burkha or we're attention seeking?
Post it on SM and tag her, him, and her friends and family. Then I would block her and everywhere. No need for direct communication as she knows exactly why and she deserves to have her world blown up without you talking to her ever again.
It's adorable you think anyone would waste time actually arguing with you. I'm good with just mocking your asinine non-premise and moving on, but you feel free to keep hoping!
Exactly. People out here trying to make her out to be a “woe is me, single mom”. This lady is a user and is teaching her kid to be a user as well. Hope OP can disentangle himself from this mess.
People like you frustrate me. You think that life is like a game and don't take anything seriously. You are not giving life advice, you are in no way an expert with the stuff to deal with, that are on this subreddit. So please, just shut up.
What you think in your own mind is your business.
What I would seriously consider though is how willing you are to entertain such thoughts. We know that the army gets its recruits to play shooter games to help edge them off the realities of war and killing other humans. Your fantasies are a warning signal in that regard. If allowed to continue then you will eventually be persuaded that it's not such a bad thing to make those fantasies into reality. It won't be about your boyfriend anymore, but about this idealized version of this new guy who makes you feel more excited every time you speak to one another. And that's what tends to happen if you just indulge yourself on these fantasies.
Cheating is wrong though and he wouldn’t carry it out he just ranting and I know I did it wrong but this is ridiculous you will condone cheating. How are you trying to put your virtues higher than mine. My bf admitted his mistake and came clean but I am not taking advice from you.
Okay first off I have pretty big boobs, like f/j cup depending on my time of the month. They're often the largest people have seen on my frame. People comment on it and tell me this. So no, i don't JUST have big boob they're large to where 9/10 they're the biggest in the room and if you've never experienced thay then who are you to tell me people don't fixate?
I didn't even mention that woman came up to me in the locker room and said “wow you fill out that top I'm p flat chested.”
Lmao I don't wear frilly shit at the gym, I described normal workout clothes, short, leggings, shirts etc. Or are large breastfed women suppose to workout in a niqap and burkha or we're attention seeking?
Gf is attracted to him +enjoys the attention/validation
Post it on SM and tag her, him, and her friends and family. Then I would block her and everywhere. No need for direct communication as she knows exactly why and she deserves to have her world blown up without you talking to her ever again.
This plus the fact that you did it with her express disapproval is absolutely what she’s dealing with. She feels unsafe.
I live with this exact trauma and no matter how secure things are, there’s no way this doesn’t feel like a betrayal.
The thing is you don’t want to be in this relationship. Her cheating on you would only make it “easier” for you to leave. Just be done with it.
It's adorable you think anyone would waste time actually arguing with you. I'm good with just mocking your asinine non-premise and moving on, but you feel free to keep hoping!
Exactly. People out here trying to make her out to be a “woe is me, single mom”. This lady is a user and is teaching her kid to be a user as well. Hope OP can disentangle himself from this mess.
People like you frustrate me. You think that life is like a game and don't take anything seriously. You are not giving life advice, you are in no way an expert with the stuff to deal with, that are on this subreddit. So please, just shut up.