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Date: October 16, 2022
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Yo, that's a not boyfriend, you got yourself an insecure dude who is super old and still hasn't worked on his issues yet
It is weird but don’t think it’s instant breakup worthy. I mean if he actually thought you were awake, then he wouldn’t have been hiding the fact that he was recording. You didn’t mention him doing/saying anything specifically creepy in this video. I’d just calmly ask him to explain and tell him your thoughts afterwards.
Nah this man sucks
Sexual incompatibility is common. Some people want more, some less.
You both have to decide if it’s a deal breaker or not.
I want more than my partner, buried it and ended up fucking things up.
Be honest with yourself first and them second. Talk.
Wtf kinda guy turns down HoTT sex with a woman daily? Yea I'm at a loss for words on this one
I’m one of those people who would rather spend time in the house than go out.
Whether are are red flags or not depends on who you ask
Talk about slimey…
How about firstly, seek out some therapy for that problem you have where lying is your first response.
Then understand you made this bed, and now you gotta sleep in it.
You can't stop her from retaliating, and your wife is likely not stupid and probably already has a feeling she knows what your doing behind her back.
Time to be honest, and take the shit that comes from it.
You should tell. How he responds is on him. If he goes NC, remember it’s their fault and not yours.
I have not read your post history, and I’m not going to. I get the feeling there are a lot of red flags there.
As for fighting in a parking lot solely because some guy said words to y’all….. tell the guy to fuck off and move on. Jeez. I wouldn’t have thought your boyfriend was a loser for losing the fight, but I would definitely have thought he was a dumbass for letting the other guy goad him into the fight in the first place.
Take those crazy pills and think it over again
At what age don't you need a chaperone?
Not sure why you need to meet her friends. Inviting you along will change the dynamic. Especially if they know you’re trying to assess whether or not she’s “allowed” to hang out with them.
Unless your wife has given you reason in the past not to trust her, I think you need to back off of this. She can’t tell the friend group that Ben can’t join because her husband says so.
This sounds very controlling.
It’s a red flag .. kept us updated
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I read the title and age and know enough already.
Dude move on.
He seems to be looking for a way out of the current situation. Could be suffering from stress or something alike from outside sources, or plans you two had which seems more distant than ever. When I started to act like this, there were already some cracks in the relationship. Then when she caused (unknowingly) a traumatic experience for me, I completely withdrew in gaming and my phone. I just didn’t know how to bring it up and she never asked.
Does your girlfriend know you have substance use disorder?
If so , then tell her wtf is going in. You were in active addiction, if someone understands that then committing a crime while high is completely understandable
What is your question?
You've decided this is OK.
I don't agree but what's the point in telling you?
So…that's the thing. His doctor is a f***ing idiot. My husband actually gave his doctor authority to speak with me regarding any medical issues (and I did the same for him as well) (we're both also the power of attorney if anything is ever needed that's super critical or serious). So, I was able to speak with his doctor about it. She claims that ADHD medications do not cause change in personality and will not affect moods, emotions, etc. I know this to be a lie from my brother trying out medications until he found the right one. She's like talking to a brick wall and just enables this to go on. Meanwhile he feels validated that he doesn't need to change his medicine or his doctor.
It needs more ridiculous terms like “man scepter” and “love wallet”
I saw your reply to the other comment. It's not right that he sees you one or two times a week and wastes time scrolling. My GF and I have about the same amount of time and we are NEVER looking at screens
Yes you could and you should have. Would you accept this excuse from your wife if she ended up cuddling your best friend on his couch while watching a movie. It's far too intimate and grossly inappropriate and you know it. Come clean and end this now.
Then what are you waiting for? Don’t love bomb him, but tell him how you feel.
Do y'all even actually LIKE each other? Blocking you because he doesn't like what you have to say is toxic. “Teaching him a lesson” instead of, idk, just talking to him and telling him how you feel is toxic. He's not entitled to share any aspect of his bank accounts with you. If you don't trust him to not do whippets, trying to control him instead of, again, just TALKING to him or actually ending the relationship is not the answer. Neither of y'all sound mature enough to be in a relationship.
I wouldn't allow him to continue being my boyfriend.
It sucks but atleast you know he isn't interested in long term with you unless he can't find someone else.
So you're his last option to make sure he doesn't end up alone. Personally, I'd prefer to be alone than someone's last resort.
How do you feel?
You've only been diagnosed as not-weird, which is not the same as normal.
Don't try the reverse cupcake hoax. Just let this issue go by. Maybe something comes of this relationship, maybe not. Wait and see what develops.
All of our friends are shared friends. I don’t know what to say or what to even tell them. I don’t know if this is a police matter. I don’t know how he didn’t even think to tell me that he wanted this. I haven’t even though of how faked up my body might be. I should probably call my dr. Honestly.
I just don’t get it, I feel like I’m going crazy.
correct, probably wanted to sleep with her at the time. or like the attention while single.
This sub is too used to people jumping into open relationships with no proper prep and then regretting and hating it for you to get much sensible advice here. You might want to try a sub who focuses on poly/open relationships.
oh, that sounds like a really brilliant tip.
especially as there is no reasonable way to just wipe him from your consciousness, as they share kids.
op – the guy is a slime ball. hope little julia knows what a treasure she has found???
DUMP. HER. how callous and heartless do you have to be for sexualizing proper Healthcare??
Don't worry! I came here exactly for those harsh reality checks. I don't think she wants to end things though, not at the moment at least. But still, i probably have that thought of breaking up with her to speed things up and avoiding a future break up from her part. Also none of her close friends have kids at the moment, but some distant friends do, of course, but still she is quite unsure about having kids at the moment, as I am (I am unsure because of my poor mental health). Her family is definetly hoping for a child from her, though. Thanks again for you reply
Oh ok thank you, I’ll mess with that this evening and try to figure it out. Haha some of these posts I really want some closure on. Sorry OP you may not on this particular one. Just a captivating story. Haha sorry I shouldn’t laugh but what a crazy thing to write in public
So how does it work having a partner who doesn’t respect you, and isn’t your partner but everyone else’s?
The age difference is a total non-issue. It’s the best friend connection that’s a problem.
I would have to leave because I can’t afford this apartment by myself. I have no friends I could on-line with and my family is abusive. And yes I do love him. He’s not violent toward me and he takes care of me when my mental health is bad. Maybe I do have low self esteem but I already knew that. I was looking for advice on how to get more independence. Not be told that I don’t love myself. Wth is your problem? If this is your version of helping , I’m not interested.
Tell her this is non-negotiable period and considering what she did with it that it shouldn't even be a question. If she wants it that bad she can buy another one but that specific one is poisoned and if she takes R seriously then she can prove it by throwing it away in front of you. Also, tell her you can't believe she is even resisting and that compared to how she broke your heart and ruined your trust she better do it or it won't be possible to continue, and that it's beyond dumb for her to throw away a relationship for a fucking toy.
I don't even know if I want kids. I have fertility issues so I know it would be a struggle. I wouldn't have kids in this situation anyways, though
he’s basically already asking for one. there’s a difference between open and threesome but not here.
this dude literally cheated multiple times, then instead of actually proving his trust he just asks her permission to cheat. and she’s sitting here questioning her next move. ridiculous.
OP, please pick your self respect up from the floor and leave.
I'd be upset too, it's a terrible movie. Atrocious acting, lame story line, and no real ending.
But honestly, it's not the same. It's a movie.
I mean even best case scenario he decides this other girl isn't so amazing after all, it's clear you are just a back-up / security plan whilst he looks for someone “better”. Worst case scenario is he's cheating or you with this girl or will do shortly.
Obviously it's a terrible situation and I feel for you but at least he has shown his hand now rather than keeping you in the dark about the nature of the relationship.
That's what rapists do. Read any number of rape stories told by women and there's countless instances of “I tried to turn my mind off and disassociate, so I didn't fight back after I first said no, so I feel complicit”.
It sounds as if you two were trying to make something work, which was clearly not working. Doesn't sound like you two are compatible enough to on-line together, so I'd be prepared for this being the end of the relationship. Your habits aren't too unheard of. You tried to keep the conversation calm, but he stormed out.
There won't be a combination of words to make him change. This is intentional. He has everything exactly where he wants it…including you. I'm sure there will be cameras next, if there aren't already. Please note that it is not advised to go to counseling with an abusive partner, and that the most dangerous time for you will be if you try to leave (which is why it is also not advised to tell him you're going). You will need to make a plan that you can hide from him until the very last minute. You should not tell him you are leaving. He will use the child to manipulate you and keep control over you even after you break up.
First off, was it bacon, was it crisp or lightly seared?
He seems to be a dick. I don’t get it. I hope he’s good to you in other ways.
You’ve gotta have the conversation. Keep the genders out of it, though. Tell her her friend is spending more time with her than you are and you’d really enjoy if they weren’t over all the time. Explain that your child calling someone else dada is disrespectful and you don’t like it. It sounds to me like she wants you to work long hours so she can sit home with her friends without working. Don’t let her take advantage of you
It seems to me (56M) that he's been extremely manipulative. The part about asking for a 3way after you moved out of state for him just feels…really manipulative. That's something that I would argue needs to be addressed before major life changes are made.
I could be very wrong but it seems like you're sacrificing your values for him – perhaps I'm reading between those lines incorrectly – and we should all feel comfortable sticking with core boundaries. If you're not wired for that kind of relationship it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you!
And, the suggesting the 3way be with his ex and her being continuously present in a new(er) relationship is just flat out shitty. Like, REALLY shitty. Again, to me.
This sounds very difficult and painful – my heart is with you and I wish you the best.
I think you should discuss it with your SO first. Don't go texting your exes behind his back, as that could make him think you want to cheat on him if he finds out. But if he feels as secure in this relationship as you do, I doubt he'll have a problem with having you reach out in friendship. IMO there's nothing immoral about wanting to stay in contact with good people who once played an important role in your life, as long as you are completely over them romantically.
Your exes, and the current SOs of your exes, may feel differently. Don't be surprised if you reach out and never get an answer, or if they answer by asking you to never contact them again. Many people have no desire to be friends with an ex, and if talking to you makes their partners feel insecure, that will outweigh any desire they might have to be texting buddies.
I have been able to re-establish friendships with two out of three exes, following a long period of no contact after each breakup. We're not super-close, but we talk to each other once or twice a year so we can keep up with each other's lives – the same reason you would want to do it. My husband has met both of them, and he is not at all threatened when I chat with them. He has no reason to be.
Tell Mark that in spite of his dim view, your little lady brain can handle exposure to things without demanding to do them, too, and he needs to calm the fuck down.
Seriously. The way he’s treating you is fucking insulting and infantilizing.
I mean, you don't have to give him an ultimatum, you should definitely discuss what you both want or see for the future of your relationship because it doesn't sound like you're on the same page.
I'll just say it – I get that you view ring shopping as just the next step, but the way you talk about it makes it sound more like you're obsessed with a material object. It wouldn't surprise me if your boyfriend finds that off-putting (warning bells going off about what he would be getting into) because you're not actually asking about marriage + your future together, just nagging over something materialistic repeatedly.
She’s being ridiculous. He was in no way bullying; and the sole reason she’s not ‘number one fan’ any more is she started watching less. She doesn’t deserve the title if she’s not the person who watches the most.
Your truth. Not THE truth. It's either arrogant or narrowly focused to not realize that.
I've been a step-parent, had relationships with step-parents and have been a mom. I never expected them to do what your husband did. You don't seem to realize that just because HE did that, it doesn't mean that is how step-parenting will be, or even should be. Go hug him and tell him what a remarkable man and parent he is because he didn't have to be that way.
This is a man ready to drop you flat and forget every vow he made. It is going to increase your anxiety as you age and reduce how secure you feel as a participant in your own life as a mother and wife.
Yes I think you should see to your health better because it will benefit you and might have an improvement on your overall health especially as you age. But there is no exercise regiment that will prevent you from ever facing health issues or do anything to change the fact that your husband has no heart at all – no matter how much smaller yours may or may not have become.
Damian presented me with his autographed book as a Christmas gift.
hahahahahahahahah
Anyway, obviously *something* happened. Either his wife found out, the university found out, or he just realized what a dirty old creep he was being, and he stepped back.
No, do not confront him or be frank. Just give your head a shake, realize this was not love, move on, and finish your degree.
Beautiful post. Hope op reads this!
She's just not as sexually attracted to you. Work on yourself and she will naturally want to fuck you more
You’re 20 and have been with him for less than a year. You’re not in too deep.
Sometimes you have to do uncomfortable things to live a good life. This is one of those things.
We eventually agreed on being monogamous, asking if I'd be interested in swinging goes against it.
The thing I gather about polyamory and open relationships is while they do have allowances for others they still have boundaries and expectations. They only work when everyone involved accepts and follows those boundaries.
So, yes I would think this is cheating so you two established your rules for kissing others outside of the relationship and those where broken.
He is a chicken , and didn’t have the intestinal fortitude to have an adult conversation with you before he left. You don’t need to waste a second waiting for someone like that.
Consider it a gift. He showed you his true colors now. Move on and find someone who appreciates you