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Date: October 14, 2022
Poem story. It would sound so poetic in another context.
My advice is to bail
I have an ex that could suck the joy out of a room in seconds
Once we split I put it down to her extreme anxiety manifesting as negative attention seeking and needing to feel a victim of her surroundings
That could be utter bollocks but I do know nothing ever changed with her and I never felt joy again, until she was no longer around to steal it
The only question you need to ask here is if you see her not only able to see the problem she is creating, it's also if she is likely to be able to change it
If that's a no you're just wasting your life here dude
I said this too after she edited the post to say the police are not helpful. I would get an attorney and twitter involved
Your bf is insecure and whilst you haven’t done anything wrong I think that it’s important to recognise that some actions in life are incompatible with other things and have unintended consequences. People might call your bf names but having an emotional reaction to it isn’t wrong on his part either (though how he is handling it is).
Reddit likes to pretend peoples past doesn’t matter but in real life it does. We don’t usually want to share our closest partners sexually with our friends and being with the same person (even with a gap) is doing that. He probably doesn’t want his friend to know what sleeping with you feels like, or vice versa. He might also be worried that even if you weren’t interested in a dating relationship, you liked each other enough to sleep together once, would it happen again?
Sex does cause issues or at least, complications, even when nobody has actually done anything wrong.
OMG! That's not love. He wants to control you. He's gonna try to get you pregnant and force you into being a SAHM. You need to run. A man that loves his gf wouldn't hide her birth control pills and wouldn't try to force her to be a SAHM when she doesn't want to be. The more I read the worse this gets. Again he does not love you.
Of course. Speaking as a afab myself, I'd only be interested in a partner who likes and is attracted to what I have. If my SO wished I had a penis instead and didn't like what I was naturally given, I'd be heartbroken but I would move on.
I mean do you comment on how muscular your coworker has gotten and how tight their shirts fit now and how big their arms are if you arent hitting on them? I know i dont
I just wish she'd man up and actually talk to me. Look me in the eye and say were done instead of sending her dad or her new guy to talk to me or doing it over the phone. I deserve that much at least
I am not proud of it
well you should be! You were being supportive and empathetic and that's mostly seen as a good thing. Sometimes, even if the friend thinks they need your support, the support you offer is just enough to make continuing the toxic relationship possible. Like, it didn't matter if he hurt her, because she could cry on your shoulder. You removed your poor aching shoulder and she promptly broke up with him for good. Well done you!
That's not the point.
I just want to say you shouldn’t be ashamed of anything you’ve done. Your reaction and your decisions are yours, and if it took you a few extra days to leave, that’s nothing to be ashamed of. At all. The freeze response is so beyond normal! What happened to you is NOT normal. You’re literally just doing your best, and the fact that you had the courage to get help and get out makes me feel so proud of you. I know you’re a strong person. You are going to heal and move on in ways you can’t comprehend just yet!
When you’re talking about your feelings why don’t you try asking him what he thinks. Like if you’re going through something rough then ask him if he’s even experienced anything similar and what he did to get over it. I think asking him subtly and when it relates to what you’re talking about could help him open up. Let him know that you aren’t judging him and that it’s safe to talk about his feelings
Yeah, I can see that being the case for like a teenager, maybe, but she's 37! If that is the case, I'd be more concerned about her lack of a backbone.
Like a crude version of David Attenborough observing the local wildlife. Guy spends a stupid amount of time and effort pouring over her socials too. He should dump her and get into birdwatching or something.
With 50 years under his belt, he should be a pro by now and dodging those landmines. That said, I don't understand why you would pick that moment to seek your validation from him (or at all).
you betrayed her trust? Are you kidding me? Trust is something you build by being trustworthy. There was no trust. She broke that trust the first time she cheated on you. Discovering her cheating isn’t a wrong you’ve done her.
If you let this go or try to work through it, it won’t end. She’s going to do it again because she’ll see she can get away with it. Someone who was remorseful and made an out of character mistake wouldn’t have done it a second time. You’re setting the stage for the kind of treatment you’ll accept.
Underrated comment. Should be top.
That's true but one of his family members an aunt I think sends him letters for holidays and it was a special day
you need help, friend.
there’s a bunch of us that can see why your gf would say those things about you and the thing is whether she’s right or not, it’s very easy for some of us to see where she gets to her conclusions.
additionally, assuming you are being truthful with us, she isn’t listening to your situation and you aren’t listening to hers. that’s a recipe for disaster.
find someone to talk to. and be ready in case you need to say fare thee well, part ways, and cry a little over the situation with this woman.
If you can, do something even nicer for yourself. Book a course of massage. Get a male spa day. Keep your haircut awesome. Do small acts of selfcare. Even if it is only eating well. Self care is huge when things are tough.
Now days you basically have to assume everyone is cheating and just deal with what’s in front of you. Welcome to hookup culture.
I would get proof. And prepare like you would for divorce. Go to an attorney drop divorce papers. I don’t know how you come back from this. Pack him a bag have somebody there with you present the evidence tell him he hast to leave and have them sign divorce papers. Or any variation but yes, I would confront him. I would do it with somebody else or in a safe place and I would present him with proof that’s the first thing and tell him he hast to leave immediately.
I don’t think you understand what you’re in not only with the public shame be almost more than you can bear, but he will be in prison if he’s ever caught.
Cared about him so much that you were screwing other dudes ??♂️
Agreed. I was thinking she tried to slap him first, then he grabbed her.