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Roseliine Public Chat Channel
Date: October 4, 2022
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Roseliine Public Chat Channel
OP clearly is put into a leadership role in terms of being the breadwinner in the relationship . That is why there is a lack of respect towards the husband.
The way of her treating him is her biological response of his inadequacy to provide a future and financial security. The basic fundamentals to find the best guy possible.
100% To have lost so much he went into debt to try and get it back , next level addiction.
Ew. Men like you are part of the reason I'm not having children. Imagine finding out that the person you're sharing your life with cares more about your fertility than about you as a whole ass person.
OP, you can’t stay in this relationship and I know you are saying you don’t want to divorce as being a child of divorce yourself etc.
But do you really want for your own kids to look at this relationship with you and your husband and think this is normal? You are clearly unhappy and for good reason your husband sucks and your best friend should no longer hold that title or even friend title at all. If you stay you are enabling your husbands behaviour as well as showing your own kids that this type of messed up relationship is ok.
Judging from what you wrote you are worried about you and your children’s security. Maybe talk to a lawyer see what you could get if you went ahead with a divorce, or find out what other options you have.
Both your STBX (hopefully) and XBF are narcissistic and both deserve each other. You need to do what is right for you and walk out from both of them. Be the example you want to be for your kids.
I have lots of self esteem issues due to dealing with a very traumatic past relationship and an ab*sive home life that i can working on daily to over come, but it is a slow process. He knows about my struggles and has helped me throughout the years, except for this.
Look…yes, it would be nice for your bf to regularly come to the gym with you, however, you can't just use him as a crutch. Yes, it's tough when you have self-esteem issues, yes, it's tough when you have a traumatic past….but if this still has such a big impact on your day-to-day life…..maybe you need to consider having more professional support.
Have you got friends you could go to the gym with weekly?
. I am also worried about other women approaching him while hes there, as hes a tall attractive man.
Are you also afraid your bf is being approached at work? At the bank? In the supermarket? Even if he does get approached, he will just say that he's not interested.
Found the husband. ??
They were invited together; she says in a comment that she communicated with him that she was excited for the concert and was looking forward to connecting. If he decides to go alone it sends a message that he does not want to connect/spend time with her.
I can't speak to her motivations; it is possible that she laid down the ultimatum to manipulate him. It's also possible she did it for her own mental health. There's only so many times that someone can show you they don't care before you give up.
Why is everyone saying op got sexually assaulted (a lesser act) than what actually happened? OP got raped.
Move on.