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PussyPlay, ♥ [Multi Goal]
Date: January 20, 2023
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PussyPlay, ♥ [Multi Goal]
You didn’t make a mistake. You made a bad choice. There’s a difference. A mistake is “oops I added too much flour to this recipe.”
Consider perhaps she doesn’t want to be with someone who would do that. Because, in your heard when you did this, you felt it was a reasonable thing to do. It’s okay for her to be disappointed in the fact you aren’t the person she thought you were.
The only way forward will probably be to either end it, or to do whatever it takes to change the part of you that seeks out content like this.
You didn’t make a mistake. You made a bad choice. There’s a difference. A mistake is “oops I added too much flour to this recipe.”
Consider perhaps she doesn’t want to be with someone who would do that. Because, in your heard when you did this, you felt it was a reasonable thing to do. It’s okay for her to be disappointed in the fact you aren’t the person she thought you were.
The only way forward will probably be to either end it, or to do whatever it takes to change the part of you that seeks out content like this.
I hadn’t thought about the other side of the coin of that bad the possibility of being overwhelmed or not being able to objectively process or even assist how I imagine I would be. Thank you so much for bringing that to my attention ❤️ The more I receive everyone’s responses here and particular with your mention of stressors with everyday life—I feel even more inclined toward more seriously pursuing therapy of my own.
Go to a shelter and get help. Leave your cats. Save yourself.
Time for a new gf
26M, 19F, checks right out
I just guess I’ve always had the belief that we all get different versions of people. My ex never got the version of me that my fiancé does. So if he treats her bad, that doesn’t mean he teats me bad. Maybe he doesn’t like her. Reading all of these replies I’m seeing that is wrong. I don’t condone him being cruel to her, but I guess in this moment my immediate thoughts were not her feelings.
You get over it by realizing she's with you.
There's nothing you are saying that I'm disagreeing with
Except for this one point which is that she's needing to talk about this or maybe experience it
What do we do in a relationship when we're in a fundamental stalemate.
It maybe time to split up
I'm just saying if she changes her mind And wants to come back home I don't think it's necessarily something that he should refuse
I'm not saying you should accept it either
I'm just saying that's a door we're not at yet
Well you can't just kick her out cold, but give her a reasonable time frame to get a job and get out, and for your child help her get something decent. And do some self care
The comments are getting deleted an I’m not sure why ?
Maybe take it from there and move on – without him. He's not good for you and good to you. You need to treat yourself better and deserve a better life. And you could achieve that with some help from a good therapist who will walk and talk you through it. You go to the dentist when you have a tooth-ache, talk to a therapist to get help with your mental and emotional aches. It takes a bit of time, don't expect miracles in the first sessions, but in the long run you'll find your way to a better path for yourself.
Her friends opinion of what's appropriate is irrelevant. It's how you feel that should drive your GFs behavior. It wasn't just her sitting at the other table. Its her failing to shut him down.
Basically by not shutting him down she is encouraging him.
Men have been hitting on her since she was 14yo. At 36yo she either knows this is unfair to you.
You both are two old for this BS.
Inform her she can shut this POS down immediately or break up.
I love my mom, I truly do. But she will never get in the way of my marriage or my role as a father. She’s tried to come over unannounced to see the baby or “just to spend time with my son” but I know that it’s all selfishness borne out of an inability to make regular connections with other people. Having her around has always stressed me out, my wife caught on to that almost immediately after we started dating and it stresses her out to see me stressed out. I won’t let my mother put that strain on my family.
You did the right thing. Your husband made an awful choice and put his mother ahead of his family. That just shouldn’t happen
Fuck this idiot off There's nothing wrong with you don't let this fool ruin your self esteem, get rid he needs to grow up
You should tell her future husband. He ought to know that the woman he’s about to marry already wants to cheat.
How did you deal with your bf?
and maybe that is the case. Either way, she is still willing to meet up with you so there is that. The most you could do right now is ask her if she still wants to meet up, but then you run the risk of this really being no big deal and you sounding like you're the one expecting more out of this. Just be patient, maybe it really is just a “not now” thing. if you want a relationship RIGHT now then you might just have to move on.
Lol damn
I mean, see a therapist but for you, not to save a relationship that only matters to you.
Slip him a note like we did back in the day !
Tell her to do it herself. See how long it takes for her to see your POV
Look, I have a full blood brother that I didn’t know about until I was 17 and there was a lot of effort but in to building a sibling like relationship. I am a woman, and I also have a little sister. She is my stepsister and I’ve known her since she was 6 and I was 10. She’s always been the little girl that crawls into my bed and hides under my covers when there’s a thunderstorm, the brat that would steal my clothes and makeup, the kid that would beg me to read to her because she was dyslexic and it never came as easily to her. She’s my little sister and she means the world to me, I helped raise her with crap parents after her mom abandoned her and I don’t care what kind of blood we both have, that’s my sister. I am so genuinely disgusted by you because honestly I would have dumped you and blocked you for even suggesting something like this. I am bisexual but mainly date women. My biological brother is a great dude but we met as adults and as such have always had a very adult like relationship. People place too much value on blood. My best friend in the whole world is a man and I’ve known him longer than my brother and am definitely closer to him.
The last time I dated a man they loved my best friend. He used to live far away and would crash on my couch once a month, and once that relationship got serious my boyfriend would join us! We’d all pile up in the living room and drink and play games, then we would go to bed with my bestie crashing on the couch. Do you know how we did that? With healthy levels of maturity that you should aim for. Either end the relationship or develop a friendship with his sister, for everyone’s sake.
What. Applaud the way she went about telling him?
If a guy (or either party) waited until they'd just finished decorating the master bedroom one night, had some beers, then as they were falling asleep just mentioned “oh we're selling the house and moving across the country because I've got a new job” he'd rightly be called a shit. And this situation is worse than that.
This is messy- try find new friends. No one is worth this much trouble.
Are we not allowed to set boundaries? Basic or otherwise? Is there like a checklist of what makes a boundary acceptable or…?
The real question is why she would even want to talk to the ex in the first place. She knew her boyfriend’s boundary, but like you, thought it silly, and walked all over it. I wonder if you or her would feel the same way about him if the roles were reversed and he was the one who walked all over a boundary she had…just because he thought it silly.
She was obviously up to nefarious things, by lying to him, by unfollowing and following the ex—that part is a little confusing to me—and then she dismisses her boyfriend’s clear boundary. (I think I’ve used the word boundary more times in this post then I have in my entire life.)
This relationship was never going to work—she made sure of that—but still…
That hurts
How would I plan a way out?
Dump this asshole. What are you waiting for? To get a disease?
You are not sexually compatible with your partner. It doesn't matter to you, but it will absolutely be the thing simmering in the background waiting to implode bc its never been addressed.
And opening your relationship like that is giving him the opportunity to find someone who fulfills all his needs, not just emotionally.
Just let him know by text and wait for him to process and respond.
It is difficult to maintain friendship after a breakup so best to tread cautiously and always be mindful of respecting each other and your new partner.