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Date: December 5, 2022
You agreed he did it anyway now you leave this is not hot
Haha that's funny bc you could easily say she's burning the bridge with you and if you're out there's no friendship afterwards because of her choices. I'm a firm believer a male ex as a friend is a bad idea. Don't care if girl thinks it's just platonic. If a girl calls her ex 5 years later and says come smash the guy is going to be in route ASAP.
Your sympathy has become a leg in her dysfunctional tripod. She gets excited about Mr X! She gets tragically heartbroken! She runs to her bestie for comfort!
Stop asking her “what’s wrong”. You already know, and talking about it feeds her drama. Try “would you like to see a movie or go out for something fun to take your mind off things, or would you like some time alone today?” If she tries to steer the convo to her latest heartbreak, tell her to save that for her therapist and offer her other options again.
When she leaves you sad messages, wait a day to respond. Then tell her you hope she’s starting to feel better after her good cry, and change the subject as above. Every time she tries to drag you into being her crying shoulder, tell her it sounds like she needs to do more personal grieving, and end the conversation.
That also applies on the front end. “Nope, I don’t want to hear one word about the new dick you’re gonna get dumped by in a week. Let’s talk about [insert shared interest]? Wanna go shopping?” Etc.
When she gets upset with you for “not caring,” use those moments as openings to throw down some tough love. “Apparently I care more about you than you do. Are we really friends, or am I your emotional support animal?”
I've always thought that date = relationship. No it's never worked before but she was my only female friend so it's not like I would try that on some random girl.
It doesn’t make any sense that he considered the incident cheating yet cut off his friend group because of it. Weren’t you the one that “cheated” on him in that situation? He should have had a conversation with you and set down serious boundaries, not cut off every single person there.
There is nothing you can do, you behaved inappropriately but he made the decision to choose to stay with you and cut off everyone due to embarrassment. That’s his problem.
I didn't say the rapist was a good man, OP did so direct your STFU's there please.
Sorry you are going through this. At least you had the good sense to try to fix this and when she wouldn't meet you halfway, you ripped the band aid off, you cant fix someone who is broken, well done for being emotionally mature enough to make hot decision. Good luck
Yes. Cut contact. Problem will solve itself. You two are already broken up. He's just making the process harder.