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Room for live! sex video chat RemsyRancy
Model from: ro
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1999-03-31
Body Type: bodyTypeAthletic
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
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Date: October 21, 2022
she's gone 95% of the time.
she continued to pursue a friendship.
She lied and hid
they take any opportunity to spend time together outside of work.
she loves me enough to never hurt me.
her wanting to spend time with him at his place
she's been trying to remain transparent
doesn't really hide to talk to him
she keeps trying to convince me that she cares about us
showing complete disinterest in spending time with me
I can't leave without a reason and she refuses to let me go
My man, please read what you wrote here. I am so sorry that she is treating you this way. You deserve so much better. I hope that you lay out some boundaries and stick to your consequences when she tramples them.
Also, any person can leave any relationship for any reason at any time. Break ups are not a negotiation. If she's refusing to respect you as her spouse, you either demand respect and leave or on-line with the disrespect ??♀️❤️?
Which is strange since I’ve been with girls all this time and had girlfriends and he doesn’t bat an eye with me sleeping over at my friends houses who are girls but acts like this when I want alone time with him
Uh, is everyone going to ignore the fact that her 13 year old CHILD sister is talking about the size of his penis??
You are the other woman
You could only take half from that joint account into your own. But you would need to talk to a lawyer.
it sounds like you're constantly pulling him in directions he doesn't necessarily want to go, and at some point it's gonna snap back like a rubber band. I really think you would be better off cutting bait with this and finding somebody that is less… work.
Do you really think so? If these changes are sudden, doesn’t that mean that there’s a way back?
Like I said, you're not saying anything I haven't heard before.
I think my grandpa might have liked them like that. Dunno can't ask anyone who might know is dead
Ah, ok.
I am in with you there.
Many conditions don't disappear for being “treated”.
They mostly tend to get more acceptable for others.
First off, good for you for reflecting on it rather than doubling down. It's completely understandable that you were feeling a bit raw when you wrote that, and I'm glad it's not an accurate representation of how you view people in the sex work industry. For your wife stripping might be a whimsical choice, but for most people it's just about surviving and making a living any way you can and it always bothers me when someone is seen as “less than” just because of what they do for a living. We all need money to survive and not everyone has the background and education and experience necessary to get what society considers a socially acceptable job.
Having said that, I realise that what I actually am severely against is being in a relationship with someone who does sex work currently. Past sex work is potentially okay with me depending on the context.
That's fair, and it's not exactly a controversial boundary to have. Have you told her this as directly as you just told me? I understand there's a tendency to soften our language when we're talking to our partners (and if your language were still like your first post it would definitely need a LOT of softening) but I think “I am not ok with being in a relationship with someone who currently does sex work” is firm and direct without being needlessly antagonistic. You may have indicated disapproval of this to her in the past, but have you made it clear that it's an absolute dealbreaker for you?
I think what I mostly feel is hurt that she would be willing to share herself with others. I think I feel that this would make what we have together feel a bit less genuine.
That's fair as well. Nothing wrong with wanting your partner to only be that level of intimate with you, it's pretty much the standard.
The best advice I can give you is to try to walk the fine line between a boundary and an ultimatum very carefully. Ultimatums are rarely wise in a relationship and have a tendency to get the other person to do the opposite out of anger at someone trying to control them. From your post I get the impression your wife might have that kind of personality, where if you said “I forbid this” she'd be 100x more likely to do it. Instead maybe try something more along these lines:
“I do not want to tell you what you are or are not allowed to do for a living or with your own body; I do not want to be controlling and I'm not interested in a relationship where being controlling is how we solve problems. But I need to tell you very clearly and very seriously that my wife going in to sex work is absolutely a relationship dealbreaker to me. I am not trying to tell you what to do, I am just trying to be as honest as possible with you about how I feel about this. I don't want you to be blindsided by my reaction if you go through with it. This is your choice, but by the same token it's my choice what I am ok with in a relationship and stripping is not on that list.”
Ive got to ask, why do you care about having a relationship with people (YOUR PARENTS) that don't care to have one with you?
I would continue to deal with it for “her sake” because she doesn't want to see her children's relationship severed.
You only have to answer this one way in future “then talk to them about it, this isnt on me”.
I had to tell my own parents that after my wedding I doubt I'll have anything to do with my sibling, I'm no longer going to put in effort when they put in none with me. They bullied me as a child and puts in no effort with me as an adult, after I, like you, have tried my best with them.
Luckily, my parents know better than to push it.
He should just divorce her.
Seems obvious to me, you talk to him about it. Ask him, if it were his choice what would he do and go from there.
She was asleep, not actively snooping. Ever considered the possibility he deliberately had the convo in a situation she was likely to hear it? I'm not accusing him of doing that but I'm also not accusing her of being nefarious either.
This understandably upset me
Sure I get it, but it's totally not on them or their fault. they shouldn't have to be restricted just because you say so, because of your feelings.
Losing my virginity is a fairly important deal to me : the nature of A and I’s agreement that he will get with other people
Yet you randomly did it with him you're not in an exlcusive relationship with and understand that fact.
You have a hot lesson here, you can't control stop or change other peoples free emotions and free will to do what they want.
Maybe they'll respect its causing you issue if you brought it upto them, but they don't have to.
Would she be willing to switch?
Since everything less organized anyway, is it a big issue if she works in the outer area? You could easily give her privacy because you want the empty space.
I think there’s a lot more information needed to make that call. What needs do you have in a relationship? Are there needs you aren’t going to get if you date him, and more importantly, will you be okay with those needs not being met?
Grow a spine and just ask if she had anyone over while you were gone. Don’t specify gender, or anything. Give her the opportunity to tell you what happened and maybe it’s fine. If she says she didn’t bring anyone over then mention what your neighbor said. Watch her reaction. If she panics then you know what you need to know.
There’s a possibility she went out with friends and had some friends get freaky on your furniture a few times. Maybe she went out of town and let someone else crash there. She probably is cheating on you, but you never know. You’ll also never know unless you ask.
If it turns out she’s been boning other people, do you really want to see it? Do you really need evidence? This is already killing you with stress. Just break the fucking seal.
Period, love
he was never like this before
If I had to guess, that’s because he was never asked to de-prioritize his comfort and convenience before.
It has been always an in an out thing on their part. At times, they seem to be the perfect person but there are many instances where I'm on the backseat. It's always like, when it is something important, I'm always put out of it. And I have a feeling that they look down on me. I have communicated about the same and have told them that they are not the person anymore whom I fell in love with. To which, they answer with – ” This is the real me “