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Date: October 15, 2022
I think the guy was grooming get to have sex with her, and she realized she was being brainwashed, and that a moment of pleasure is not worth losing a relationship. You did great in putting your foot down and not agreeing to do anything that would make you unhappy. Hope it all works out, near of luck and update us on any new developments
You will end up raising a lot of kids that aren't yours.
I don't think so. However I prefer to date people who have goals and passions in life, and work towards them. So someone who floated from low paid casual jobs probably wouldn't be someone that I'd want to be with long term.
I have already had partners who have been happy to cruise, while I carried the financial and adulting load, and I'm not willing to do it again.
A degree isn't important, but doing something that gives you purpose is. Choosing a trade, getting a degree, or following a calling like art or music are all valid.
You've described a one sidedly best situation for you .. Not her. If she leaves… She shouldn't have to “keep paying” Is she on the lease? Ask her if she wants to get signed off the lease. If she says no then you're stuck for a couple months. Big deal… Replace her after. If she's not on the lease, then start head hunting.
Step 1. Start looking for a replacement that fits your desires, COMMUNICATE that this is something you are doing.
Step 2. Keep her posted on how far you are in the process of replacing her. (This gives her ample time to figure out her new living situation… Where she goes and what new best friend she finds is none of your business)
Unpopular opinion, but It's just a stupid contract. Most things get fucked up as soon as the government is involved anyway.
I think your sister needs to grow up, and your husband sounds cold and controlling. She’s your sister, you love her, you want to help her. You also want your marriage. Your husband isn’t being fair, and neither is your sister with her behaviour. Going on benders and refusing help when she’s bipolar is terrifying. The thing is, the drugs make you feel awful. The side effects start to wear off about an hour before you’re due to take the next one. You try and stretch it out, because you’re going to feel like death again once you take it, so you leave it an extra hour, feel even better, then another hour…bipolar mania is a high that is better than any coke, any drug, and it’s addictive, but it’s always followed by the crash. Is there anywhere else you can go with your sister? You need to have a serious talk with her about her choices, about how it’s affecting your mental health, how you are scared for her all the time, how you can’t sleep for worrying, about the toll it’s taking on you all together. With your husband- only you can decide. He sounds cold, unfeeling, but only you can decide that. Alit of people are scared and uncomfortable around mental illness. If he restricts you in any way from having friends, seeing people, then that’s worrying. If it’s just your sister, then I would take it that she makes him very uncomfortable. Look for other ways to help your sister, ie going to an appointment with her and meet her therapist, asking her to keep a mood diary, finding live! support groups, just being interested. It’s horrible being so sick that you can’t trust yourself and not having support. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. You sound like a lovely person.
So he wants all the perks and none of the responsibility?
You’re in a sub where people care about relationships. No one here is going to help you destroy this one further. I hope you seek help, I mean that genuinely. None of this is good for you.
I mean if he compared dicks with his buddy she would probably also have some questions.
Calling it cheating is going overboard tho. But it can be seen as a small betrayal of trust and boundaries.
But idk what to do about this? I don’t want to be like this. Do I just trust that my partner wasn’t that person back then unless he has given me a reason to think that?
She has told you that there are no longer any romantic feelings towards you and that she wasn't happy, and now she is.
This is all you need to really know.
Thanks you are a big help!
Okay I won’t judge but what if it’s stretched out she has quite a few bodies I asked her last night and I couldn’t believe it was that much
As this is a burner account, I feel comfortable sharing that we do keep our finances separate. However, I have helped her out financially in the past (especially during the pandemic when she was a university student and I was working full-time). It wasn't anything major, but I am confused about the appeal of this type of content. She never seemed like someone who would enjoy it, but I don't want to judge. Additionally, the amount of money she has spent on donations seems excessive considering our current situation. Despite all of this, I would be willing to overlook these issues if I just had an explanation. In past relationships, problems were often not addressed and pushed aside, but that has never been the case with my current partner. All I want is honest communication, but it seems like she wants to keep this private.
Take finding out your fiance's true nature in a crisis as a last gift from your Grandma and roll out.
I'm not American we have different rules. No fault divorce and have to wait 1 year after separation.
It's emotionally healthier for kids to have parents that are split up than have parents in a bad relationship.
If you decide to stay, take the next six months or year of your life and see if you can forgive her. Maybe try couples therapy to help you get there.
If, after that time, you have not fully forgiven her, you probably never will.
Damn he’s going to need some aloe for that burn
So you are still cheating on your wife with someone who isn't in a relationship and that makes it ok? Dude really, you are just as bad as a person.
She is so right. Your relieved your not going, but jealous she's going to have fun with someone else? Bro its a concert. If your not going to have fun, why not just let her go with someone who will enjoy the show with her. You don't even want to go
Fair call.
Leave girl. This ‘change’ won’t last. He’s sexually abused you, do you think he won’t resume that or potentially shift that onto your future child? Get out if not for your sake for your child’s. It’s far better to be raised in a single parent household that may be financially strained than in a two parent household with abuse and a POS dad. Your parents and friends will hopefully help you out. If not, there are plenty of resources that can help you. Women’s shelters and halfway houses can provide you with a safe place to stay and amenities while you figure out your next steps. If you give me a general location (e.g. state if in the US) I’m happy to look into resources for you, but please don’t do so if it may lead to your abuser finding the post or linking it to you. Get out and get yourself safe before anything else. Then you can do some research on what programs your local or federal government may have to help you financially and with housing. I promise you, getting out now and maybe enduring a few years of struggle to make ends meet is far far better than continuing to endure abuse. It’s only a matter of time until it resumes.
I hope the best for you. I hope you stay safe and get out of there, OP. Best of luck ?
That's a one and done for me. You don't get to decide I can't go anywhere, even if I am trying to be stupid. I'd never be able to trust him again.
He sounds like my ex-boyfriend with the laziness in general about life and what he wants to do in the future. Also, the weed smoking and claiming he couldn't be without me.
I debated with myself for ages (probably around 18 months) over whether I should leave and 2 years later, I'm so glad I did.
If you're even considering leaving him, part of you knows he's not the one.
You're only 22 and there are tons of more guys out there for you so never stay in a relationship 'because it's better than being alone'. It's really not.
You could give him more time and hope that you see some improvements but truth is, you can't make someone be who you want them to be. They have to want to change on their own and if they don't, then you just aren't suited long term.
What kind of answer do you expect to get from someone who's told you that they don't love you anymore?
You really just sound like you're refusing at all costs to accept that the romantic relationship is over.
(Anyways, your life).
So you know what you did was wrong, didn’t prove anything beyond your paranoia and you think she is the issue? Yes break up with her and save her the trouble of doing it. You aren’t ready for an adult relationship.
i straight up said “what the fuck” out loud, you’re an angel for taking care of your sister when not many people would and she seems to be projecting some fucked up insecurities onto you and accusing you and your father of being sexual predators that’s absolutely disgusting, you deserve better OP and you will find better i promise you
Nope. Unless you’re in a state that has communal marriage rules which is only 8, you’re not responsible for any loans you don’t co-sign for. Judges in most states have to divide all debt equally unless it is deemed not to be fair. No judge is going to say that if OP does indeed divorce her husband and he is the person on the loan, that she will also be responsible. If OP DOES live! in a communal property state, they can sign an agreement BEFORE the husband takes on the debt alone that states they will treat their income and debts separately. OP should absolutely speak with a lawyer to protect herself but just because you spouse takes on debt doesn’t mean you’re responsible. In most cases you’re not.
Why are you letting this addict talk to you crazy like this?! Your dad has every reason to hate him!
OP, your bf is out there cheating on you with his manager.
Isn’t playfighting for little kids?
You need to address that with her ASAP. Her friends should not be trading around intimate photos without permission and she should have the same respect for you as you have for her. If you wouldn't be commenting on another woman's body that way, then she shouldn't be doing that to you. Also are you not even a little worried that she's shown intimate pictures of you to her friends?
Oh my god, you are 20 – go live! your life. No, you do NOT want to marry a guy who is rushing you into a lifelong commitment without really knowing or valuing you. He doesn't care about you or what you want. You shouldn't even be talking about marriage this early, much less haggling over a wedding budget. This is insane. There are plenty of other guys out there that you will find physically attractive – give yourself the chance to find a better option.
I’m so tired. What the fuck does this mean ?
Yeah. I sort of don’t want to believe this. But it’s true. Honestly, I don’t even know if I believe that porn addicts can ever fully recover.
yes, because a grown ass human being is capable of being around the opposite sex without having to get into their pants.
there's also this thing called “trust”. it may seem like an alien concept to you, but that's because you're clearly messed up in the head and need therapy.
I think this sort of boundary in their relationship is their next step as friends without taking a break from their friendship
Wow, sorry to hear. Stick to your guns. What you want matters too. She should really compromise on this and not make this all about her. I think she’s being unfair.
Your mother loves you and cares about your safety. You should consider yourself lucky, many redditors would love to have family that gives a shit and is active in their lives as adults.
Anti-social personality disorder is a scary one, there is no doubt about that. I used to be a care manager for people suffering from mental illness as well as substance abuse disorders. I managed the healthcare of a few patients with confirmed diagnosed anti-social personality disorder and let me just tell you, it is a very hot diagnosis to actually get. The patients I had all were diagnosed because they did something extreme at a very young age, and were court ordered to be examined by a psychiatrist. I had access to all of their health records, including psychotherapy notes. I’m talking about stabbing their sibling because they were “curious” about pain, murdering the neighbors dog to take it apart like an experiment, and setting fires to their parents bedroom in the middle of the night.
And this is as children
Thank you. Hopefully he would be as level headed about it as you. I'll gather my courage…
Again, thank you for your time!