Yeah, you can’t just buy your friend a car. When purchasing new you need the car insured. That’s not an optional thing that you can figure out after the fact. You also need to file proper documentation to have the car registered in your name and get the title.
OP would also be forcing his friend to start paying excise taxes etc on the car. Unless he’s planning to pay all of her tax and car insurance, he just signed her up for monthly payments for a car that she might not have wanted.
This story is BS and not even a good story if true lol
You approached this from the wrong direction. Instead of talking to her about the photos and asking why she likes posting them, you automatically assumed that it was to gain attention. All social media posts are for attention — attention is not much of an answer to why she posts what she posts. If it makes you uncomfortable, you should've told her this and asked her to stop / remove the pictures without making it seem like she's an attention-seeker. Stating your own boundaries and asking her to respect them doesn't need to involve attacks on her person.
If it's a dealbreaker and she refuses to respect that boundary, then the two of you are just incompatible, and you should find someone who has more similar values. Try to reduce your own controlling / insecure behavior and work on healthy communication skills as well so that your relationship with her (or someone else) can be more healthy.
Yeah, you can’t just buy your friend a car. When purchasing new you need the car insured. That’s not an optional thing that you can figure out after the fact. You also need to file proper documentation to have the car registered in your name and get the title.
OP would also be forcing his friend to start paying excise taxes etc on the car. Unless he’s planning to pay all of her tax and car insurance, he just signed her up for monthly payments for a car that she might not have wanted.
This story is BS and not even a good story if true lol
If you can’t advocate for yourself, you shouldn’t be in a relationship. Speak to a therapist, ASAP. Your lack of self esteem is painful.
“The next part is a little blurry” “I guess I kinda blacked out”
Shut the fuck up
You beat the shit out of someone who was just trying to leave your house.
No shit your girlfriend is scared of you now.
You approached this from the wrong direction. Instead of talking to her about the photos and asking why she likes posting them, you automatically assumed that it was to gain attention. All social media posts are for attention — attention is not much of an answer to why she posts what she posts. If it makes you uncomfortable, you should've told her this and asked her to stop / remove the pictures without making it seem like she's an attention-seeker. Stating your own boundaries and asking her to respect them doesn't need to involve attacks on her person.
If it's a dealbreaker and she refuses to respect that boundary, then the two of you are just incompatible, and you should find someone who has more similar values. Try to reduce your own controlling / insecure behavior and work on healthy communication skills as well so that your relationship with her (or someone else) can be more healthy.
ur completely right, thanks