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Room for on-line sex video chat Rebecca2023
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Date: November 8, 2022
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I don’t think having sex with a fully transitioned transgender woman counts as rape by deception just because she didn’t tell him that she was trans.
Should she have told him? Yes.
Has she been raping him this whole time? No.
I honestly don’t see how you made that leap.
No, actually the UK has less rules which make it so people have to support their ex-spouse. How much child maintenance is paid is usually determined by a calculator and not by individuals who work within the system unlike the US.
I think this is a chance for you to practice self soothing and realize you’ve got some opportunities for growth. You are not alone in having these kinds of thoughts and fears. I grew up in a volatile home with a mentally ill mother and it was a crapshoot to figure out how she’d behave or react on any given day. It’s a DAILY struggle for me to not personalize every single interaction I have with people. When I say it takes work, it takes WORK to grow and feel more confident and less anxious when it comes to my internal dialogue and issues with fear of the “unknown”.
Prior to meeting my now husband, I was in a long term relationship/eventual marriage with someone who destroyed me. To my core. Broke me. There was drinking, there was emotional abuse, and at the end there was physical abuse. After years and years of the fighting, stress, gaslighting, screaming, outbursts, etc. I left that marriage feeling like I was less than a human anymore. (Not that I was a saint by any means, I certainly had my shitty coping skills to blame for my part in the epic toxic disaster that relationship was) It took probably about as long as you and your girlfriend have been dating before I was ready to even “go there” with my husband. Part of it was because I hadn’t even completely accepted the reality of what I’d been through the 10 ish years prior. I remember my husband asking me why I didn’t disclose these things until much later after we’d been dating a while. It kind of took me off guard, and I was worried he thought I was “hiding” things for some nefarious reason. Truth is, there was no nefarious reason. I wasn’t ready. I couldn’t go there yet. I needed time in peace and quiet and calm to fully come to terms with my own shit before I could utter it out loud to the person I’d fallen in love with. The trauma from that time in my life is still something that deeply affects me. I’ve grown and I’ve healed a lot. But it’s still there and it’s still hot to sit and have raw conversations about it if I’ve had a panic attack or something happens and I spiral into the headspace I was in at the end of that time.
I guess I went off on a tangent. But the point is the same. Ask yourself what you’re filling in the blanks with. Perhaps you’ll be able to grow together and you’ll learn how to reframe those anxious thoughts to look at what you’re really telling yourself she means by keeping these things close to her for now. I’d bet it’s got nothing to do with you and everything to do with her own trepidation. Picture it this way, as anxious as you are to not know what’s on her mind is the same anxious she likely feels when she thinks about sharing it. You’re simply two sides of the same coin.
Is he autistic?