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Like you just said ” she loved you and wanted to have kids with you” And when those things started happening for her you didn't want it. So she pushed u away. Then after the abortion her life completely changed. The trauma of that sometimes never goes away. If you really love her and want to be with her act like it. Tell her how you feel.
It is super inappropriate for him to speak to potential workplaces on your behalf. That makes you look incapable and less employable so he needs to stop doing that.
But the rest is confusing to me. When you say date, are in in a relationship? How long have you known him? If it’s new, then it’s unusual for him to be so invested and involved.
Good bye! If she that reactive over something minor, then you dodged a bullet! If she wanted to end it and that was her escape goat, then she's immature and unable to communicate like an adult.
It sucks that people are treating you this way. As a white man it doesn't matter to me what someone's skin colour is, it's their personality that is most important. All women are beautiful in their own ways. Don't give up you will find a special someone who will appreciate and love you for who you are.
Wow thanks for that link. That’s an extremely accurate description of what it is. He is definitely a missing stair and I’ve tried talking to my boyfriend about it but he’s like “what can I do, he’s my cousin”. Which is fair tbh I can’t tell him to stop talking to his own cousin. I also did argue that the no selfie thing was controlling and weird but he said he wasn’t doing it to be controlling he was just trying to prevent problems. I ended up just agreeing to it because my boyfriend felt so strongly about it and said it was the only thing he asks from me
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Why would you detect sarcasm? A marriage where all burdens and fortunes are shared… sounds like poor people logic. OP should run before she has to settle for a Tesla model 3
All you can do now is wait and see if it does happen again and continue to work through therapy. Trust me, you don’t want to stay in a relationship where someone continues to do things like this behind your back. I did and it progressed to me being cheated on 3 times.
Don’t listen to this person telling you you’re pathetic. You’re going through something extremely challenging right now and it can be naked to sift through feelings. As much as I agree with what the person is saying (leave her) I don’t think they needed to simultaneously be rude to you. You 100% deserve better and I’m sure deep down you know what you need to to. That voice that’s telling you to move on is right.
No no, the options are hers and they are 1) go to him 2) you leave her . She's already made her decision now for her to SAY it aloud . She's playing a game and wanting you to do a “pick me” dance.
thank you for your answer! but i can safely say i dress a lot more modestly than them since they only wear tight clothes and skirts and so on which im not very much comfortable with because my style is a bit more masculine and i prefer oversized clothes and mostly pants rather than skirts and dresses
Look into support groups for caregivers and potentially counselling for yourself if you're in the financial position for it. These might help you if you have a place to discuss your feelings. Reddit isn't the place for it, you'll be met with judgement from people who simply cannot understand your situation.
Ask if she can set aside some time to talk. It doesn’t sound like it’s a great plan to try to tell her emotionally deep or vulnerable stuff when she’s busy, so find a time that she’s willing to set out ahead of time.
Hi I do apologise no me and my kids got removed because she was being domestic violence towards me infort off our kids I have the kids at my mum and dads with me and no she is doing drugs and these guys or random off the street but she as cheaters on me befor
By law you are an adult and should be treated as such, By being rude to your girlfriend your father and grandfather are being indirectly disrespectful towards you as well
You need to stand up to them and let them know their sexist and racist behaviour will NOT be tolerated, As long as she treats you well and you make each other happy they need to get over their prejudice
I think it’s also time to get your own place and move out, You can’t live in a hostile environment and hopefully it will bring them to their senses that they risk you cutting contact
Yeah, this relationship isn't going to be fun if he carries on, this woman is majorly controlling, I'd both love and hate to see these 2 a year from now.
At 27 I was dating a 43 year old man who I met at 14 but that's another story for another thread. I couldn't imagine dating anyone my age or younger. After a bad breakup I met my little brother's friend. He was 24 and I was 30.
He pursued me, with my little brother's blessing as he was tired AF about me crying about the old dude. I wasn't going to date a guy I deemed a “child”.
Here I am 14 years later married to him. We celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary a couple of weeks ago.
Never say never because of a couple of years (unless it's your child's bff or an actual lifetime of age difference) because you might miss the best thing to ever happen to you.
She didn't go “hey hon I know we talked about kids but I'm not sure if I want them anymore”.
She changed the fantasy from “nice house with multiple kids who each have their own bathroom” to “I want to spend months traveling around Europe knowing we don't have to worry about paying rent” with no warning. That's not “I don't think I want kids anymore”, that's “I don't want kids but am softening the blow by saying maybe”.
I have some compassion for your situation, especially because your boss/boyfriend has all the power here. There is a significant power gap here. It honestly sounds manipulative or abusive. What kind of manager dates a subordinate with a significant age gap??
If you go to your dad and explain that you’ve been in an unhealthy relationship, that you were afraid to tell him, and that you need his help to escape, maybe he might be a bit more understanding?
At any rate, if you want out badly, you put your tail between your legs and you do it. It’s a mercy that you have family to fall back on at all; there are plenty of people that have nothing backing them.
Like you just said ” she loved you and wanted to have kids with you” And when those things started happening for her you didn't want it. So she pushed u away. Then after the abortion her life completely changed. The trauma of that sometimes never goes away. If you really love her and want to be with her act like it. Tell her how you feel.
It is super inappropriate for him to speak to potential workplaces on your behalf. That makes you look incapable and less employable so he needs to stop doing that.
But the rest is confusing to me. When you say date, are in in a relationship? How long have you known him? If it’s new, then it’s unusual for him to be so invested and involved.
Good bye! If she that reactive over something minor, then you dodged a bullet! If she wanted to end it and that was her escape goat, then she's immature and unable to communicate like an adult.
Don’t sign the birth certificate until you get a paternity test!
You’re garbage for peeing in the shower but so am I I
It sucks that people are treating you this way. As a white man it doesn't matter to me what someone's skin colour is, it's their personality that is most important. All women are beautiful in their own ways. Don't give up you will find a special someone who will appreciate and love you for who you are.
Wow thanks for that link. That’s an extremely accurate description of what it is. He is definitely a missing stair and I’ve tried talking to my boyfriend about it but he’s like “what can I do, he’s my cousin”. Which is fair tbh I can’t tell him to stop talking to his own cousin. I also did argue that the no selfie thing was controlling and weird but he said he wasn’t doing it to be controlling he was just trying to prevent problems. I ended up just agreeing to it because my boyfriend felt so strongly about it and said it was the only thing he asks from me
Doesn’t mean they’re broke or struggling financially.
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Why would you detect sarcasm? A marriage where all burdens and fortunes are shared… sounds like poor people logic. OP should run before she has to settle for a Tesla model 3
So he has no issue with you wearing a bikini or swimwear when you go swimming?
All you can do now is wait and see if it does happen again and continue to work through therapy. Trust me, you don’t want to stay in a relationship where someone continues to do things like this behind your back. I did and it progressed to me being cheated on 3 times.
Don’t listen to this person telling you you’re pathetic. You’re going through something extremely challenging right now and it can be naked to sift through feelings. As much as I agree with what the person is saying (leave her) I don’t think they needed to simultaneously be rude to you. You 100% deserve better and I’m sure deep down you know what you need to to. That voice that’s telling you to move on is right.
No no, the options are hers and they are 1) go to him 2) you leave her . She's already made her decision now for her to SAY it aloud . She's playing a game and wanting you to do a “pick me” dance.
thank you for your answer! but i can safely say i dress a lot more modestly than them since they only wear tight clothes and skirts and so on which im not very much comfortable with because my style is a bit more masculine and i prefer oversized clothes and mostly pants rather than skirts and dresses
Your fiance has made a game out of pushing you until you snap and then punishing you for snapping. don't heal this relationship. leave it.
Why are you sticking around for this? He sounds like a real buzz kill.
Look into support groups for caregivers and potentially counselling for yourself if you're in the financial position for it. These might help you if you have a place to discuss your feelings. Reddit isn't the place for it, you'll be met with judgement from people who simply cannot understand your situation.
They divorced with no contact. She never responded to the divorce filing.
Ask if she can set aside some time to talk. It doesn’t sound like it’s a great plan to try to tell her emotionally deep or vulnerable stuff when she’s busy, so find a time that she’s willing to set out ahead of time.
Hi I do apologise no me and my kids got removed because she was being domestic violence towards me infort off our kids I have the kids at my mum and dads with me and no she is doing drugs and these guys or random off the street but she as cheaters on me befor
By law you are an adult and should be treated as such, By being rude to your girlfriend your father and grandfather are being indirectly disrespectful towards you as well
You need to stand up to them and let them know their sexist and racist behaviour will NOT be tolerated, As long as she treats you well and you make each other happy they need to get over their prejudice
I think it’s also time to get your own place and move out, You can’t live in a hostile environment and hopefully it will bring them to their senses that they risk you cutting contact
Yeah, this relationship isn't going to be fun if he carries on, this woman is majorly controlling, I'd both love and hate to see these 2 a year from now.
Trust me, I really regret it.
She thinks I'm being controlling
I'm not defending this person
At 27 I was dating a 43 year old man who I met at 14 but that's another story for another thread. I couldn't imagine dating anyone my age or younger. After a bad breakup I met my little brother's friend. He was 24 and I was 30.
He pursued me, with my little brother's blessing as he was tired AF about me crying about the old dude. I wasn't going to date a guy I deemed a “child”.
Here I am 14 years later married to him. We celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary a couple of weeks ago.
Never say never because of a couple of years (unless it's your child's bff or an actual lifetime of age difference) because you might miss the best thing to ever happen to you.
She didn't go “hey hon I know we talked about kids but I'm not sure if I want them anymore”.
She changed the fantasy from “nice house with multiple kids who each have their own bathroom” to “I want to spend months traveling around Europe knowing we don't have to worry about paying rent” with no warning. That's not “I don't think I want kids anymore”, that's “I don't want kids but am softening the blow by saying maybe”.
Poor future kids. Imagine having those two responsible for your upbringing.
I have some compassion for your situation, especially because your boss/boyfriend has all the power here. There is a significant power gap here. It honestly sounds manipulative or abusive. What kind of manager dates a subordinate with a significant age gap??
If you go to your dad and explain that you’ve been in an unhealthy relationship, that you were afraid to tell him, and that you need his help to escape, maybe he might be a bit more understanding?
At any rate, if you want out badly, you put your tail between your legs and you do it. It’s a mercy that you have family to fall back on at all; there are plenty of people that have nothing backing them.
Bruh, this is such an easy answer why did I not just do this. Thank you lol