He was gaslighting you saying you were hysterical. You were pissed,and rightfully so. If he found out the business trip was canceled, he should have said have a nice trip see you at work. So many red flags, the lies, sharing a room, then saying you were over reacting. You did the right thing by dumping him. It’s painful now, but would be much worse down the line, because this BS would have continued
Do you get no choice at all in this child that you are supposed to raise together? He has it down to a T but in 7yrs never shared those details with you?
Flags galore. Something is going on with him and he needs to open up or I wouldn't go down this road
Harsh reality: She cut you off 'cause she didn't want to talk to you anymore. People do what they want to do. She is over the relationship and doesn't want to be friends. Why do you need her to tell you that? Closure is total bullshit, it's an excuse to try and hang on when you have no other reason.
I wouldn't write a letter. You obviously have an expectation of a response that may not even happen. Why do this to yourself?
The best thing you can do is talk to someone about these feelings that can actually help you. It sounds like you are a ruminator and this can be fixed. As someone who used to have debilitating depression let me tell you, it can get better. It can get a lot better if you put in the work.
Thankyou. You’re right. I’m not the problem, he is.
He's probably embarrassed by the house and acting out. But it sounds as if you've married a stranger.
He was gaslighting you saying you were hysterical. You were pissed,and rightfully so. If he found out the business trip was canceled, he should have said have a nice trip see you at work. So many red flags, the lies, sharing a room, then saying you were over reacting. You did the right thing by dumping him. It’s painful now, but would be much worse down the line, because this BS would have continued
My bad, I was misunderstanding what OP wanted.
In that case I wouldnt bother to film (which might run into legal issues) Id just complain to the manager as a paying customer.
It's weird he specifies Asian kids.
Do you get no choice at all in this child that you are supposed to raise together? He has it down to a T but in 7yrs never shared those details with you?
Flags galore. Something is going on with him and he needs to open up or I wouldn't go down this road
Harsh reality: She cut you off 'cause she didn't want to talk to you anymore. People do what they want to do. She is over the relationship and doesn't want to be friends. Why do you need her to tell you that? Closure is total bullshit, it's an excuse to try and hang on when you have no other reason.
I wouldn't write a letter. You obviously have an expectation of a response that may not even happen. Why do this to yourself?
The best thing you can do is talk to someone about these feelings that can actually help you. It sounds like you are a ruminator and this can be fixed. As someone who used to have debilitating depression let me tell you, it can get better. It can get a lot better if you put in the work.
Being assaulted while drunk isn't a mistake. Its assault.