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✮raven✮, 19 y.o.
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Date: January 7, 2023
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I thought he would be waiting for another chance to be alone with her. Unfortunately had a few nightmares about that really happening
I think you have 2 reasons to move on:
He hasn't cut the umbilical cord yet. You got together when you were in your teens. You have matured. He has not. Do you really want to mother him? Or do you want to marry someone who will be an equal partner?
At the other end of that umbilical cord is a racist mommy (and daddy). Parents that baby man doesn't even have the courage to introduce to you after 7 years together? Do you think they will “let” their son get married? Or be good grandparents should you one day choose to have kids.
Cut this boy loose and find someone who already knows how to adult.
You're, by definition, the side guy my dude. She's with you when it's convenient and fun. No harm this, I was a side dude before. Problem is your way to down the rabbit hole here – your far to attached to someone who isn't attached to you.
Start off by saying, she isn't the perfect match for you. Perfect match doesn't cheat on you. Perfect match helps and is understanding of medical situations.
So your self improvement is good, keep at it! But you got to stop chasing someone who doesn't want you. There isn't a magic string of words to make someone love or respect you man.
Got to stop the emotional roller-coaster, as she isn't going to stop it for you. My guess is you want a loving and enduring relationship with a beautiful girl. Well, keep up the self improvement and you can have this. Just not with this one, think you've shed enough blood over this one already.
She is lying to you
Why are you expected to accommodate her preferences? How does she accommodate your preferences? To me it sounds like she demands and you give in. You spend all your time trying to make her happy with out really thinking about what makes you happy! I would not be accommodating! If she want to be alone she should rent an apartment by herself! You should not be displayed from your home for no valid reason!
If “keeping the peace” requires you to betray yourself, I am pretty sure that is not peace and I am pretty sure it is not worth keeping. Perhaps it is time to try: “I am okay with your disappointment in me” Rachael Mary Stafford
Should it be addressed?
Yes.
But not in a confrontational / defensive type of way.
These are the type of things that you communicate regarding sexual chemistry.
This is the crux:
had he paid attention to how I like foreplay and given it more than 10 minutes I wouldn’t take
Now, you can choose to elevate things and make this into an argument, or you can attempt to communicate this on a level headed approach and tell him what you need sexually.