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Break up if you don't like her job.
I once datet someone and than found out they worked for a company I don't like. So I broke up.
LOL I'm an asshole because you won't listen to reasonable advice? You are enabling his behaviour by allowing him to online without a job and not contribute in any way. He is not facing any consequences for his actions, so why would he change?
LMAO. I have done this with multiple family members.
The ones who wail “she's talking about meee!” are always the ones it is indeed talking about.
My stepmother apologized for not taking my husband's allergies seriously bc of a vaguebook meme I posted about it.
My mother in law assumes EVERYTHING I post is about her. She will literally call after seeing something, demanding to know what it's about or why I posted it. Not that either of us answer. But she's caught my husband unaware several times.
He laughs and says “I don't know what she posts, Mom, but if it made you feel guilty maybe you should think about that.” (He literally cannot stand his own mother. Marry the black sheep, folks!)
If I hear a peep about a family member questioning my kids' choices – like my son wearing his sister's dress at two – I'll post some mama bear meme at them.
It's pretty effective. I think the reason it works for me is I don't post a lot of personal stuff or drama, so when I do put up a meme like this everyone I know is like “oh shit, who pissed you off.”
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I’m a woman and confidently say if you choose to go out and get black out drunk you can’t get mad at the consequences. if you get black out drunk and get behind the wheel of a car and kill somebody you go to jail for vehicular fucking manslaughter nobody says well, she was black out drunk it’s not her fault.
you are indeed saying women who are assaulted whilst black out drunk are somewhat responsible because it’s the consequence of being black out drunk.
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This won't be her only wedding. Once you start earning less or go against on of her delusional rules she'll be after the nect idiot who will bow down to her greedy demands. Start telling her “no” and see how quick you are single.
Funny how she believes in all the gender norms that benefit her but, ignoring everything else. If the man is supposed to provide why is she working? Why is she questioning any of your choices as the provider and man of this relationship?. If this is who she wants things to go she needs to quit her job, stfu, know her place, obey you, and be happy with whatever you decide to do for her.
She won't because she's an entitled, gold digger who cherry picks religion and sexist views to get what she wants. You are going to have a very bad life if you continue making these stupid decesions that benefit you in no way. You can get the same amount of “love”, attention, faux godliness, out of an escort, for way less, and they won't lie to your face about their motives. Sad when escorts have more honesty then little miss bible thumper.
A couple different things:
Only you know if you’ve been too tolerant. It’s really up to you to decide whether this episode is worthy of ending the relationship. Get in touch with your own feelings about it and try to really access how it makes you feel.
You aren’t responsible for reading your girlfriend’s mind. She can’t expect you to be “in tune” with feelings of hers that she isn’t expressing. It is a dysfunctional relationship expectation to want your partner to constantly be guessing how you feel and trying to ascertain where you’re at without you saying so.
That said, if you aren’t that in touch with your own feelings, she might not feel like there’s much point to or safety for expressing her feelings. “Rational” isn’t the opposite of “having feelings.” Everyone has feelings whether they are in touch with them or not. We also reason using our feelings because we all have biases and experiences that shape what we consider “reasonable.” So I wouldn’t set yourself up as the “rational” one and her the “feeling” one. You both have feelings, you both have reasons for making the choices you do.
What she seems to be telling you after this cheating episode is that she wants a partner with whom she feels safe sharing her feelings. You seem to want to avoid your feelings, maybe because they seem overwhelming? But what she seems to be telling you is she feels lonely in the relationship and needs someone she can connect to more on the level of discussing feelings and how they play out.
I think for that to happen, you’ll have to do some work on yourself to figure out why you don’t like feeling close to your feelings and what might make it nude for you to share them with her or hear hers. But at a very minimum you can definitely make a point to invite her to talk about hers and listen to her and give her validation rather than trying to offer solutions.
But that’s if you want to continue the relationship. You should first decide that part. Good luck.
Go to the courthouse and get the papers signed tomorrow. You can do the ceremony later. What do you think of that plan?
It’s difficult because I love him very much. Even though the post questions my commitment I have tried to have that with him. He outright refuses marriage or kids with me. I guess that also is what made it very hard seeing pics of his ex tonight. He very much wanted to marry and have kids with her and made that known so it’s very difficult to understand what is wrong with me. But I also know she was an 18 yr old stripper who was heavily addicted, she moved in with him and detoxed and in those two years never got a job or GED or wouldn’t even learn to drive, then moved back home to keep stripping and he had Ptsd from that he said. I am well aware of how that sounds but I always just circle back to thinking I shouldn’t be judging anyone because of my diagnosis. No one is perfect. I don’t even know what I should be expecting, and fear if I have expectations, I may fail those same expectations I placed on someone else
It has been 20 years of that already she even said it in her post she started thinking about after her husband’s medical scare.
Oh gosh!!!
Choosing your beloved pet you’ve had longer than the relationship is like baseline compassionate behavior.
Well done on achieving financial independence.
Whatever it is that you are doing you need to look further afield when you date, I would not write off all the professionals you meet, most people like you have worked hard to build their careers. However if you are still having issues, maybe don't show your full portfolio until much later in a relationship. Just stick with I own my own home and have some investments, not I owe 6 rental properties.
First time performance anxiety. It happens, and it’s not a reflection of how attractive he finds you. It’s just unfortunate timing and too much thinking and too much drinking.
Out her coworker to his wife just in case he is lying or spinning it. Then end it and don't bother with couples therapy.
I'm pretty sure you're allowed to discriminate who you're attracted and romantically involved with without being, in this case, a transphobe. Someone's dating pool doesn't HAVE to include everyone. Why are people not allowed to have personal preferences?
It sounds like you've got more than enough red flags to decide this 'nearly perfect' relationship is, in fact, a bit of a train wreck.
You deserve better.
this seems like a really controlling relationship though. i think you are just falling into a traditional dynamic that is really hard to break out of. sit him down and just talk to him, that’s really all you can do.
Didn't the guy who did research on psychopathy and the brain, found out he was a psychopath? I'm pretty sure he was a normal dude that once he found out explained some of his behaviour and helped him become a better person. I dont remember his name but there was a ted talk I'm pretty sure.
Wasting food is among the worst things you can do apart from stuff like murder, robbery, rape, and physical violence. I think asking him to solve somehow is the very least you should do. I would personally avoid a person who does that completely – probably not just because of the food wasting, but if he does this, I'm guessing he's also doing a lot of other snob stuff.
I coudnt be with a man who doesn't love me. 100% deal breaker.