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Rae, y.o.
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Date: October 25, 2022
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I’ve been late a ton of times tho
You just kinda suck at showing emotions (no offense).
No offense taken given that it's true and I own up to it. But yes, I am very happy that he's in my life and I really don't want to do anything else too mess that up. I'll check out some stuff live about it, thanks for that.
You didn’t get pregnant by yourself. If he gets mad at you for being pregnant after he impregnated you, he’s a misogynist.
100% of pregnancies are caused by men.
Your feelings are valid but there is not much you can do now. I suggest to have a calm, non alcohol bachelorette party with your friends now, and plan a fun trip for when your baby is older. You should communicate with your fiance what your expectations are for his role in this pregnancy and once the baby is here. If you are going to get married, this can't be a fight. You need to talk about this and work as a team.
Imagine a line. Let's say that in the middle is X. Everything left of X is “I prefer younger women” and everything right is “I prefer physical beauty”. So, it fully depends on which direction you want to look when you are standing on X. If you are looking to the left then your mind will be set on young women and finding them more beautiful or sexier. When you turn around and look to the right, the view will change, and so the narrative you are a part of.
Your psychologist has very little control group to say that she can say that she speaks for most people. Everything ends with how you want to look into this.
By not fighting against her. Marriages aren’t easy and sometimes one partner isn’t doing what you want or need them to do for a bit. He’s making the problem him against her instead of him and her against this issue. I know for sure the answer isn’t to turn against her or hate her.
I would hope that even if their bond grows to exceed your bond with him that they are both decent people who would not exclude you. Also, my primary worry is that your fear of being left behind is going to result in behavior that makes them want to leave you behind!
I mean you broke up with her, you did the right thing.
What are you looking for advice for?
Go get tested
My money's on both if she chooses 3.
Rather than confront her, I would have a more general conversation. If you attack her friendship with this guy she’s just going to get defensive. Instead, talk about how you both should handle feelings for other people; would you want her to tell you if she has a crush on someone? Would she like to know if you do? At what point does it cross the line from harmless crush to desire to move forward with another relationship?
I have had small crushes on coworkers and my boyfriend knew about my “work husband” back when I was a server. That guy was the bartender and we got close and always helped each other out. There was nothing actually going on (kissing, hand holding, sex, etc.) we were both just flirty people who worked well together. I never in a million years would have considered leaving my boyfriend for this guy and I made that clear so my bf wasn’t jealous or anything.
But if I ever felt like I wanted to go on a date with someone else or I thought about someone seriously as a potential partner, that would be the time to sit down and talk with my bf.
All of this is personal preference. You may have just read that and gone “oh my god that is insane and I would have an aneurism if my gf did that.” So that’s why you and your gf need to have a heart to heart about this. Plus keep in mind that she’s your high school girlfriend and it may not last forever. It’s ok if you realize you want different things or have different values.
Mate, you are 22. You're so mature for your age that you've seen everything and know best eyeroll
IF you are not a troll, please listen to these folks who actually have your best interest in mind. Your mom and this dude who I'm guessing you've known for months, not weeks, are each recommending that you step away from each other and you're not listening to your mom?
You're a little old for that teenage “my parents are dumb and I do the opposite of everything they say” edgelord phase.
Thanks for the reply. Hot to give all the details over the internet but these are the only two occurrences where I did change plans. We spend every weekend together, it's not like I constantly prioritize my friends over her or change our plans. She is the first priority in my life, always. I just did not pick up on the fact that adding a friend to our dinner would be a big deal so I am naive there.
Your fiance is right. You're wrong. Apologize.
It sounds like you’re just throwing yourself a pity party. All the replies I’ve read from you is all “no, I can’t bc x”, that mind set is pretty sad.
Maybe you have a case of affluenza.
If my partner told me they were suicidal, I would call for emergency services intervention immediately. I’m almost 40 and I would feel completely incapable of doing or saying the right thing to help the situation. She’s 18. She’s not trained to handle a mental health crisis. It is totally unfair to expect her to take responsibility for caring for you when you’re at this point. I am so, so sorry that you’re struggling right now but I think it’s wrong to lay blame at your girlfriend’s feet. Maybe you should be single for a while and focus on caring for yourself.