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#bbw#milf#anal#dirty#bdsm#feet#squirt#latina#nolimits
Date: October 9, 2022
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Have you ever witnessed a professional stand-up comedy routine? Do you believe the stories they're telling actually went down like that?
People embellish stories all the time, particularly for comedy. If the stories she's telling result in no harm or consequence for an actual person, why do you feel the need to interfere? It's just a yarn told for laughs, and it sounds like no one but you is taking it seriously.
ask her why she doesn't do it
if she is to never do it, it's a valid reason to break up, by the way. never to pressure though
Don’t make any decisions until you consult a lawyer
He does say that if I don't want to move in with them then we won't, but it's always with a feeling of hesitation. Things with him and his mom are complicated. She died a few years ago and was revived and ever since then he can't seam to imagine a life without her in it. I'm not saying cut her off at all before anyone jumps there, I'm just meaning it as he adores her and loves her and can't put her at arms length now. He doesn't like how extreme she has gotten but he will humor her and let her talk however with no word of “that's a bit hurtful” or anything else. When she leaves the room him and his father jokingly say “Everything is the devil, (insert name)” and carry on as nothing happened.
Ok. Firstly. You are 28 years old. You are not going through a midlife crisis. Quarter life? Maybe. The absolutely normal panic that most people in their late 20s go through when they realise that they are almost in their 30s? Absolutely yes.
Secondly. Quit with this “My love language is physical touch which is why sex is so important to me” BS. That's NOT what physical touch means when you talk about love languages. As a woman, I find it WILDLY manipulative to try and play the “my love language is physical touch which is why I want sex all the time so when you don't give it to me it hurts my feelings”.
Don't try to manipulate your partner into putting out more often, or try to make them feel guilty for not wanting sex as often as you do under the guise of “BuT ItS mY lOvE lAnGuAgE”. It's manipulative & gross. Physical touch is about hand holding, cuddling on the lounge. Non-sexual physical contact.
Don't believe me, look it up.
Which brings me to the main point. Be honest with yourself.
You have a high libido (nothing wrong with that) and want sex (nothing wrong with that). Sounds like you are also more adventurous than your GF and possibly have some unexplored kinks. Nothing wrong with either of those. HOWEVER:
a relationship should be a way for two people to grow together
sometimes I think she doesn't really “grow” as a person as much as I'd want her to
Ever heard of “kink-shaming”? Cause it seems like you are doing the opposite of that here. You seem to be equating her lack of desire to get high and have sex, with a lack of personal growth. You seem to be judging her and shaming her for not having as high sex drive as you, or wanting to explore as much as you do. Again, it's giving manipulative & gross vibes.
Is this harsh? Yeah. I guess it is. But to me, this read as a horny guy unhappy with his sex life who is spouting some BS in an attempt to try and make him look like the victim here, or some noble dude who is contemplating personal growth, love languages, and existential crisis.
The simple reality is this. You are bored with your life, you are horny and want more adventurous sex. Your GF doesn't. You two are not compatible anymore.
So break up with her.
Take them back, then tell him the relationship is over.
This!
What makes you think that will change if he dates you both. Then you will definitely be the third wheel. Have some self respect and get out of this now.