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Date: January 7, 2023
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Exactly. I am coming up on 50 and I and my partner were both previously married to normies and had zero interest in doing that again. Life's too short to pretend to care about the Top 40 and superhero movies.
You give her an ultimatum, and no before someone comes screeching they are not always a bad thing. “You need to tell me absolutely everything that you have lied or stretched the truth about in our entire relationship. If you don't I will walk out that door and ever speak to me again outside of coordinating separating. If I find out later that you have withheld anything from me that will be the last second you have me as a partner and friend for the rest of your life. I will leave and leave you with as little as I legally can. Balls in your court”
thank you! i am this hoe… but i know what im getting into and aren't doing it to get sympathy when it explodes. this is a girl whose self esteem is hung up on attention. wrong reason to have sex. then she compounds it by wanting more – no one is offering more
get a clue or a self esteem
I used to work in the same office with my (now) fiance, and I have some first-hand experience navigating those kinds of fine lines between our work and personal relationship. We used to swap (harmless) office gossip all the time, vent to each other and commiserate, etc. And sometimes, information is shared that shouldn't necessarily be- particularly working from home, it's inevitable that sometimes he hears me on a phone call that he shouldn't, or that he knows a thing or two about my clients that he otherwise wouldn't have access to. But we absolutely never intentionally shared information that was confidential to the company, or confidential to another employee. No matter how juicy the gossip or how much either of us were bursting at the seams to vent and let out any frustrations with that person.
You had information that you never should have been told in the first place. And then you told it to your BF, who never needed to know, and you had no real reason to tell him other than that you wanted to. And then he told it to others because he didn't respect your trust in him or the apparent damage your reputation will take from this whole incident. He absolutely disrespected you and you're right to be upset about that. It would absolutely shatter my trust as well. But you made the first mistake by telling him news that wasn't yours to share and it was highly unprofessional.
You stated before in another comment “maybe I don't have a proper distinction between personal and professional relationships”- this is the time to learn. I don't want to sound so harsh but this is something that is going to fall back on you at work, not your BF, and you're likely to be the one to suffer the consequences for it. And as for him- tell him how angry you are that he broke your trust, what the consequences could be for you, and that it's up to him to prove himself trustworthy. And if this is a repeated pattern of behavior that he also does not learn from, then I would question the value of that relationship. And it's ultimately up to you whether you want to rebuild that trust, but hopefully you've learned a significant lesson here. Do not share secrets that are not yours to share, and most especially, do not share information from your work that was told to you in confidence, to anyone.