Oh I’m absolutely certain OPs girlfriend would be relieved…sure. At first.
I’m just saying that her being at home while he’s out having a deeply important, intimate need fulfilled by someone else is going to be damaging. The only reason she’s agreeing to this is because she doesn’t want the alternative, him leaving so he can be happy.
The chances of OP falling for someone else as a result of this open relationship plan are so damn high. Like, it’s a near biological certainty that he will end up with feelings for the person he decides to have sex with.
The likelihood that this situation ends with OPs girlfriend heartbroken and alone, while OP is partnered with someone new and happy, is very high. It’s not knocking anyone involved, no one is wrong here…I’m just pointing out that the plan is a naïve one.
Sorry to sound cold/clinical, but 28 years-old and struggling with erectile disfunction could seriously be a sign of a deeper underlying medical issue. When's the last time he had bloodwork/labs done at his doctor/general practitioner?
That's not true. The average age is about 26 because quite often life gets in the way and usually you get deterred along the way. Also only about half graduates have something lined up before graduating. I think saying “21 year old engineer tipped off the story as fake” is not accurate so your right there. I would say a 21 year old engineer isn't rare perse but it's certainly not common. What should have tipped this off is a 21 year old having an affair with a friend's mom and already a father all while starting their career. That just seems unlikely due to courseloads and just the grind of starting your career path.
Mistress…wife…gets so very hot to keep track.
Ty I’m leaving her
Oh I’m absolutely certain OPs girlfriend would be relieved…sure. At first.
I’m just saying that her being at home while he’s out having a deeply important, intimate need fulfilled by someone else is going to be damaging. The only reason she’s agreeing to this is because she doesn’t want the alternative, him leaving so he can be happy.
The chances of OP falling for someone else as a result of this open relationship plan are so damn high. Like, it’s a near biological certainty that he will end up with feelings for the person he decides to have sex with.
The likelihood that this situation ends with OPs girlfriend heartbroken and alone, while OP is partnered with someone new and happy, is very high. It’s not knocking anyone involved, no one is wrong here…I’m just pointing out that the plan is a naïve one.
Sorry to sound cold/clinical, but 28 years-old and struggling with erectile disfunction could seriously be a sign of a deeper underlying medical issue. When's the last time he had bloodwork/labs done at his doctor/general practitioner?
She is not about to change. She has proven that. So you either accept her as is or leave. The choice is very simple.
You think so ? It’s just the fact that the girl told that. He didn’t sleep with anyone but he used to be a player. Some say he is love bombing me
That's not true. The average age is about 26 because quite often life gets in the way and usually you get deterred along the way. Also only about half graduates have something lined up before graduating. I think saying “21 year old engineer tipped off the story as fake” is not accurate so your right there. I would say a 21 year old engineer isn't rare perse but it's certainly not common. What should have tipped this off is a 21 year old having an affair with a friend's mom and already a father all while starting their career. That just seems unlikely due to courseloads and just the grind of starting your career path.