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This isn't going to get easier with time. I know it sucks but it's going to be much harder the longer you stay. Do you have a good friend who you can stay with and give you some emotional support?
I feel in control of my substance use sorry, more clarification was needed then lol.
Yeah that’s what I’m struggling with! Wow, right on the point that I couldn’t figure out. I’m not sure if I want to leave them or just be more firm with what I want to do. I don’t know if they’ll like all the things I want to do though that’s why I’m thinking it might be better to break up, but our lives are so intertwined and the rental market is so competitive and expensive right now. I’m not sure how I’d navigate that.
I do need to be open with all of this though ahah it might even be okay in the end. I also know this doesn’t help the situation, but I don’t mind using substances a lot. I feel less on edge when I can choose what I can do. Ugh I need to say this all better but it’s the best I can do right now.
Dysphoria aside, while that must be so incredibly difficult for her, this isn’t ok. Your baby doesn’t understand why milk doesn’t happen like it should and it could possibly totally interrupt the breastfeeding routine you have. It’s also just.. not you or your baby’s responsibility to affirm your partner’s identity, especially in this way. Therapy for everyone! Yayyyy
Sorry for not clarifying. He's heartbroken too and fighting his heart out. He was 100% custody and is taking it to court, but mediation is 4k and court itself is 20k and without the time to find free legal aid before then there's only so much we can do. We keep getting told that there's no likelihood of getting 50/50 back because biological mothers usually win full custody/get what they want custody wise. Not sure how true it is nowadays but the quantitative data is depressing.
You're showing an exception. Unfortunately, rules cannot be based off the premise of their exceptions. Women, as a general rule, did not remove body hair in Victorian England.
Sidenote: We are talking about American culture.
So while there may be scattered examples here and there of different times and cultures where they did remove hair (It wasn't every woman who did it…that sort of thing would've been more popular amongst the wealthier women.)
Also, a point I don't think you meant to make…so men have been telling women for quite some time that their body hair is gross?
While there were exceptions in different spaces in time and culture…80-90% of the female population were not removing body hair–where as, today…that's how it is. The advent of the razor for women, started that trend. Blogs, are not scientific/academic sources.
“Women being beauty conscious is inherent to human psychology and it goes back thousands of years and is part of every human society.”
I can't imagine where women got the idea to be beauty conscious. Can you?
This isn't going to get easier with time. I know it sucks but it's going to be much harder the longer you stay. Do you have a good friend who you can stay with and give you some emotional support?
I feel in control of my substance use sorry, more clarification was needed then lol.
Yeah that’s what I’m struggling with! Wow, right on the point that I couldn’t figure out. I’m not sure if I want to leave them or just be more firm with what I want to do. I don’t know if they’ll like all the things I want to do though that’s why I’m thinking it might be better to break up, but our lives are so intertwined and the rental market is so competitive and expensive right now. I’m not sure how I’d navigate that.
I do need to be open with all of this though ahah it might even be okay in the end. I also know this doesn’t help the situation, but I don’t mind using substances a lot. I feel less on edge when I can choose what I can do. Ugh I need to say this all better but it’s the best I can do right now.
Thank you for your comment! Helps me process ❤️?
Dysphoria aside, while that must be so incredibly difficult for her, this isn’t ok. Your baby doesn’t understand why milk doesn’t happen like it should and it could possibly totally interrupt the breastfeeding routine you have. It’s also just.. not you or your baby’s responsibility to affirm your partner’s identity, especially in this way. Therapy for everyone! Yayyyy
Sorry for not clarifying. He's heartbroken too and fighting his heart out. He was 100% custody and is taking it to court, but mediation is 4k and court itself is 20k and without the time to find free legal aid before then there's only so much we can do. We keep getting told that there's no likelihood of getting 50/50 back because biological mothers usually win full custody/get what they want custody wise. Not sure how true it is nowadays but the quantitative data is depressing.
You're showing an exception. Unfortunately, rules cannot be based off the premise of their exceptions. Women, as a general rule, did not remove body hair in Victorian England.
Sidenote: We are talking about American culture.
So while there may be scattered examples here and there of different times and cultures where they did remove hair (It wasn't every woman who did it…that sort of thing would've been more popular amongst the wealthier women.)
Also, a point I don't think you meant to make…so men have been telling women for quite some time that their body hair is gross?
While there were exceptions in different spaces in time and culture…80-90% of the female population were not removing body hair–where as, today…that's how it is. The advent of the razor for women, started that trend. Blogs, are not scientific/academic sources.
“Women being beauty conscious is inherent to human psychology and it goes back thousands of years and is part of every human society.”
I can't imagine where women got the idea to be beauty conscious. Can you?
There are plenty of fish in the sea. He can find a girl who is happy to take on the side effects