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Is he a doomsday prepper?
There’s literally no standard you should be worrying about other than how much sex you mutually want to have. If you’re both satisfied with your sex life, that’s great, whether it’s every day or once every few months.
But once a week is also extremely normal for established couples.
So if he got his nipples pierced, would he see that as cheating?
Like he can be mad but you can also think of this as childish because it really is.
I did do an STD test as soon as I was home and thankfully i didnt get anything. I don’t actually know what went on in that bed but I dont know how i could be with him in bed without it being sexual
Yeah I got my first boyfriend, had my first make out session, etc when I was 13 and it didn't seem like a bad thing at all. If they're the same age, what's the problem?
As long as she is educated about safe sex (just in case), STIs, consent and respect in relationships, where she can go for help(her sister) and all that stuff… I think it's fine?
Talking to older guys live! is a completely separate issue, but having a monogamous boyfriend her own age is probably the best way to prevent her from doing that if conversations about ethics/danger aren't solving the problem.
I think in order for relationships like this to really thrive, very clear and deliberate boundaries with the co-parent need to be in place.
I'm the last person to give advice on boundaries, but if it were me, I would just save myself the heartbreak and cut ties while it's amicable. But that's me. You might make a different choice.
I get pregnancy hormones doing a real number on your emotional and / or mental state. But this feels a bit more extreme than crying over spilled peanut butter or dropped cream cheese.
We're missing context on what led up to this. And tbf only your (ex)gf kind of knows why she's doing this. Was she more of an emotional type in general before the pregnancy? Or a more rational type of person?
I'd back off. Nude as you may feel that is, back off. Let her reach out.
Heck, for all we know, it turns out it's not hormonal emotions, but she's pregnant with someone else's kid and getting scared about the due date approaching. Wouldn't be the first time in history. I'd get a paternity test done before you accept (financial) responsibility for the kid.
I reckon plenty of women would be horrified to know that even without porn guy's are almost always picturing someone who isn't their partner when masturbating.
IMO – its not your problem – carry on as normal
I mean I guess that’s one way to go about it. If it were me, I’d go with some GasX to talk to my doctor for suggestions, but sure a butt plug is the next obvious choice (said no one ever).
Yes it is recommended. A quick Google would have told you that
I was looking for this comment and I really hope OP sees it. OP, seek out self care and a good therapist. They’ll be able to help you heal from this abusive relationship and grieve.
If we say usually is half. And we say they have sex once every six months over 8 years just to be really conservative about it all. She still lied to him over a dozen times.
It's really nude to be secure when you think your being lied to.
It is a dumpster fire all around. I just don't think it's because of this guy.
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It depends.
Who was the guy and how did it happen?
Find a new partner that dosnt like partying.
This is way too much drama in the span of seven months. She doesn't appreciate you or what you do. You are too young to put up with this much bs. She doesn't care about you or your feelings, and you'd be better off breaking up. She is toxic for you.
So I don't think anyone who doesn't get equity (aka is on the mortgage/deed) should pay half the mortgage. And you aren't married yet, so don't put in to the equation that at some hypothetical time in the future, you will get value from the house. Because it won't be your asset as well, even if you get married unless you two agree to that or other legal factors come in to play, but you aren't even engaged yet.
I think what your boyfriend is asking for is unfair. I think couples can split income proportionate to income (in which case you would pay about 1/4 of what he does, or maybe a little more, like the third you are) or split bills 50/50. BUT, if you split bills 50/50, then all the expenses have to be within the budget of the lower earner.
And either way you split things, it doesn't matter in this case, because you already had an agreement when you moved in, and that was to pay 1/3 of the mortgage.
I think you should just simply tell your boyfriend no, that doesn't work for you. Tell him that when you moved in together, he didn't bring up that if you made more money he would expect more in rent, and you are not willing to pay half the mortgage when you have no equity in the house. Be clear that you don't expect to have equity right now, but that your understanding was you were paying less because you made less, but also because he was the only person getting value from the home.
Frame it that way because it isn't based on feelings or anger, and don't mention- at first- that you do more of the chores. See how he responds, and be clear that you are willing to revisit this arrangement when/if you get married because then you will discuss more clearly merging finances.
And if he really pushes back, I think you should then bring up that you have been helping him renovate a home you get no equity in, and do more of the chores. That if he truly wants a 50/50 situation, then a lot is going to need to change- he needs to do 50% of the household chores, you get to make decisions about what you can afford, and you won't be helping with renovations because you aren't getting any sweat equity or actual equity in the home.
Get your financial ducks in a row then talk to a lawyer. I think you already know what you really want to do.
All of it
Lmao yeah he’s the one overreacting ???
Definitely sit him down and nicely ask what is going on. Do not accuse him and just listen and care about what he has to say. I know my bf was stressed out about school for a couple weeks and we barely had sex. I realized he was stressed out and we just hung out and talked about what was stressing us out.
And cousin turned an already weird situation and turned it uglier. Hurting only the mom-to-be. Just hella weird of all of them
Tell him this.
“Properly certified therapists know that having their family member as one of their patients is a significant conflict of interest and will never take on any family members.”
I’m familiar with love bombing as I dated a narcissist a few years ago and it’s how he reeled me in, but it didn’t feel like this. He built up to this rather than overwhelming me with it and I think his love language is just acts of service. I think a part of him does probably feel guilty for his conduct prior to us being officially together. I know in my heart that he does love me deeply now and sees a life with me. I also know he hasn’t been up to any shady behavior since April and we officially started dating in may so it’s just nude to reconcile my feelings about him prior to us dating with the way I know he loves me now. Thank you for taking the time to give me some advice.
My gf and I are in a mixed race relationship. I am from the Middle East.
My gf tells jokes like “We Americans are ruining the world”. I say “we don't need your help to ruin our lives! We are doing it to ourselves successfully!”. She insults American culture, I insult eastern culture, and say get in line.
For your gf, if she is a woke person, she should also recognize how the Eastern culture is fucked up.
Btw, I am official listed as a terrorist by my government from the Middle East. Yeah, terrorist joke doesn't offend me!
never intended to cheat, only “catch up.”
This some bullshit.
Why would anyone ever think this means anything other than face value
Women have domination fantasies all the time and that is not an unusual one , the fact that she puts celebrities in it she ease your mind a bit.
Maybe look at what you have happening at the moment in the bedroom and make sure there is dominance coming from you , it's clear she will enjoy it
‘Usually I take him back’ is he a stray dog? Have some self respect. That guy loves the steadiness of a relationship and being cared for, not you as a person. Hope you’ll see it soon enough
All this blocking of friends is unhealthy, and her “nyah nyah, I unblocked him!” is seriously immature.
If she's gonna cheat, blocking him will do nothing to prevent it.
She mistrust you, you can't trust her. Call it and day and walk.
Hell no. Don't give the heifer anything! Spend that money on your family and forget her.
Do not lend that man money. Tell you husband if he wants to put away money in an account to lend his dad that is fine, but honestly 25K should be YOUR emergency fund. Do not touch that money.
He doesn't probably cook, clean or do his laundry either!
but
Ugh. They're trying to help you here man.
She has already cheated on you.
Her wanting to “keep things open” while on the trip should have been decided beforehand, not now she’s there.
So end it.
Tell her that while you want her to have fun, the fact she can’t keep her legs closed while supposedly in a relationship just because she’s on holiday shows you what type of person she is, and how much she actually cares and respects you (not at all by the way) and that you no longer want to be associated with her.
Don't step on your supervisors level. Find another job.
thank you for your honesty it’s hot comprehending that there’s not going to be another chance but I know that that’s the case. Very hard to understand but I know there’s nothing i can do. Thank you
Definitely a red flag, especially if he works around kids ?
I think you should focus your attention into him wanting to see you more. It sounds a little like your crush on him is still alive and well? Am I wrong?
It's best it happened now at the beginning of what could've been a relationship then having it happen 6 months in or later. Granted, I don't know if you talked about starting an exclusive relationship then and there, but for her to go and do something like that, it's pretty clear where she stands.
How you proceed is entirely up to you however, do you forgive/forget this and try and start something official and serious or get over her and look for love elsewhere.
You’re right I just gotta get it over with
This is logical and something I would agree with. It's just not so easy when I'm fully aware that I genuinely did neglect her.