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Well the problem is he is denying it so much I feel like deep inside he wants for something more to happen but is terrified of the consequences and reaction of people around him.
I honestly have no idea what I would do in this situation, and I definitely would question my own reality. It’s important to remember that you felt so strongly, you went on the internet to ask a bunch of strangers about it lol. You’re doing the best you can, and she’s lucky to have a friend like you in her support system.
I am so sorry she is doing that to you. I'm sure that hurts. That is a massive breach of your trust and definitely an accusation. Especially with her not being willing to do the same. Of course there are statistics about women more often being the victims. That doesn't mean women (f.e. she!) can't be the abusers. So she going to a “screening” makes perfect sense as well. You know…. you wouldn't want to date an abuser (after half a decade together)?!?
She can not trust you after six (!) years. I don't think she could ever trust you then (or anyone, maybe?). I wouldn't be able to come back from this, honestly.
Ok. So this is exactly the problem. You’re right – you’re not a maid. But you’re a stay at home wife with seemingly no obligations outside of your home. I’d be really annoyed if I worked full time while my partner literally stayed at home and cleaned (no kids). Why don’t you volunteer? Join a local non profit board? ANYTHING but sleep until noon and deep clean once a week. It’s insane.
so what is the problem again? he told you he would be out with friends. if you are worried about him cheating on you, the problem you have is actually trust. you do not trust him. relationship can’t survive without trust.
When they’re older? Yeah not a big deal. But she was 18. By the time I was 21 the freshmen 18 year olds coming into college looked like children to me- because they were when it comes to life experience, maturity, relationship experience, and just general shared activities.
Business partnerships always fail, get out of business with anyone you are partnered with- boyfriend or no. In the future, if you start a business – do it on your own, without a partner- it’s always a bad idea. If extracting yourself from the business partnership with him, so be it, lesson learned
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Well the problem is he is denying it so much I feel like deep inside he wants for something more to happen but is terrified of the consequences and reaction of people around him.
I honestly have no idea what I would do in this situation, and I definitely would question my own reality. It’s important to remember that you felt so strongly, you went on the internet to ask a bunch of strangers about it lol. You’re doing the best you can, and she’s lucky to have a friend like you in her support system.
I'm worried about what she might do in retaliation, that's the only thing. If she's snooped into my room without me doing anything.
Always . You’re a strong person and you’ll go through it.
You've only been together for 4 months and cheated?
It seems the two of you have incompatible expectations. You may have better options.
I am so sorry she is doing that to you. I'm sure that hurts. That is a massive breach of your trust and definitely an accusation. Especially with her not being willing to do the same. Of course there are statistics about women more often being the victims. That doesn't mean women (f.e. she!) can't be the abusers. So she going to a “screening” makes perfect sense as well. You know…. you wouldn't want to date an abuser (after half a decade together)?!?
She can not trust you after six (!) years. I don't think she could ever trust you then (or anyone, maybe?). I wouldn't be able to come back from this, honestly.
Ok. So this is exactly the problem. You’re right – you’re not a maid. But you’re a stay at home wife with seemingly no obligations outside of your home. I’d be really annoyed if I worked full time while my partner literally stayed at home and cleaned (no kids). Why don’t you volunteer? Join a local non profit board? ANYTHING but sleep until noon and deep clean once a week. It’s insane.
so what is the problem again? he told you he would be out with friends. if you are worried about him cheating on you, the problem you have is actually trust. you do not trust him. relationship can’t survive without trust.
When they’re older? Yeah not a big deal. But she was 18. By the time I was 21 the freshmen 18 year olds coming into college looked like children to me- because they were when it comes to life experience, maturity, relationship experience, and just general shared activities.
Business partnerships always fail, get out of business with anyone you are partnered with- boyfriend or no. In the future, if you start a business – do it on your own, without a partner- it’s always a bad idea. If extracting yourself from the business partnership with him, so be it, lesson learned
Yeah stop dating assholes with small limp dicks?
your friend sounds llike an ass. why listen to her?