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Date: October 10, 2022
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but age gaps aren’t that big of a deal once you’re an adult.
There is of course a lot of difference between a “newly” adult and an older one. Age gaps arent suddenly not creepy when the threshold of 18 is passed.
In this case, it is creepy. A 35 year old who gets with someone 12 years younger, needs to move in with her and lies about a lot of things…
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Yes, the law in the UK requires you to be a victim.
Ask if you can hang out with them. This is how a lot of work place affairs start. I would be clear about other boundaries. Like hanging out in public places, no more late nights alone etc.
i want to trust her but this whole has me taken back.
What does where he lives have to do with initiating?
you’re pretty fucked. You need to go to the FBI.
“bye” will do
It might be a good idea to look into local trauma resources in your area to see if they can point you to any local services that might help. I don't have any exact advice on this because I don't know your info, but near my area (a larger metroplex) there's a few agencies that provide free therapy services to people who have experienced sexual assault. It's difficult, but important in being able to move forward. Generally looking for something like EMDR, Cognitive processing therapy, or one of the other evidence based trauma therapies might be a helpful step to ensure that the work you're putting in is productive.
A side note about your libido: the number one thing that would kill it is pressure. Nothing about pressure is sexy. It might be worth considering reading Come as You Are, by Dr. Emily Nagoski, since it's got some information that you might find helpful to understand yourself and things that affect your libido.
Now those things aside, I don't know if this is as much of an issue of your sex drive, as it is an issue of his attitudes towards sex and lack of empathy towards you. There's so many reasons as to why you might not want to have sex, all of them valid, but applying pressure to you because of not wanting to have sex doesn't sound like someone who cares about you. That sounds like a recipe for sex being a chore, and engaging in sex you don't actually want to have because of coercion. In answer to your question of if you should break up, if he doesn't change and is exactly the same, could you take that for another 5 years? You've mentioned that it's been a bout a year together. He's shown you over this past year who he is, and even despite you talking about it hasn't changed. Let's just assume that he'll continue to do that for the whole time you'll be together. Is that something you want for yourself? Is that a relationship you would want for your friends? I know trauma makes it hot sometimes, but I can't imagine a lifetime of always worrying about having to convince someone to not have sex, and then hearing about it for a week afterwards.
I hate to tell you this, but it sounds like she’s using “love”, or more accurately the feeling we get when we’re newly attracted to someone, as a drug.
You’re the drug when you’re close. When you’re not, there’s another contender.
She isn’t emotionally safe. She’s reckless and living very much in the moment, and since you can’t be together anyway, I would take the good experience you’ve had and back away.