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I would go to coffee with someone I’m not interested in dating bc coffee’s not a date.
Why is your first instinct to completely cut this person out of your life?
Unfortunately I've been pretty conditioned while growing up with a dad who was very conflict avoidant and would blow up at any conflict. So I just hate conflict and it's made me conflict avoidant in this way. Any healthy conflict resolution I do have wasn't learned from them. I have worked to at least not act on it as much but the thoughts are always there. It is lonely and it's a major part my reconsidering therapy. I don't want to keep blocking people from my life in that way.
And yes, she does deserve more respect than that but it also feels like she is the one cutting me out. An ambiguous “take a step back” keeps making me think our friendship is over. Although I could ask her for clarification on that.
That made me laugh, thank you!
Is your family good and safe to go to? Will they help you?
You are right, this was him showing you the way he will be in any difficult situation. It will not be different than this, and this is absolutely unacceptable.
Thank you for being one of the very few people to remember that the post mentions my worry about bringing this up to her involves not piling onto her negative perceptions about her body.
She and I have done mental health check ins once a week since we’ve started dating two years ago, and this the first time her self-image has gotten this bad. I like the idea of bringing up that it’s new and a change. I was really focusing on how I didn’t want it to sound like I was trying to shame her, but being curious about why it’s happening and then talking about what that change brings with it feels like a neutral territory rather than “hey, this is gross for me go change it” like so many others are saying.
Thank you! I think this is the approach that will work with our dynamic.
Skip all the suggestions that you tell her to shower. Just think of a positive and true way to tell her the truth. Just because someone is a bit insecure doesn't mean that they need to be bubble wrapped from adult conversations.
The truth may be “I'm so glad we are making love again. Are you willing to trim again? It's much more enjoyable for me and I sure want to keep pleasing you.”
I don't understand what you want from them.
If you tell your friends you feel jealous, what do you want them to do?
Not share their lives for fear of upsetting you? Not go out and have fun?
I'm confused
Tell her that you will have the divorce papers ready for her to sign…then stop all communications
Are you sure he is not gay?
Fair, but a red flag would be someone toning it down because I asked. A partner who’s willing to compromise their character traits is a red flag for me
2 weeks in and he's already pushing boundaries and making you uncomfortable? Not a good sign.
Maybe AA also.
Personally OP I would take it as a challenge, especially if I thought I’d look good (once it’s grown in).
What company would put opposite sex coworkers in the same room? Every work trip I’ve had it’s been same sexes occupying a room.
It’s funny NOW but I totally tried using the fact I’m a lesbian to get my own room. Like companies don’t was opposite sexes in a room because of perceived improprieties so I really was like maybe I could wing this.
My MGR knew I was full of shit and laughed at me. The coworker I was going with was straight with a dyke mom and my friend at the time. Also I was married. They knew NOTHING was gonna happened and that I may be a goof ball but I’m 100000% respectful and not a creeper.
My managers response “nah ima need you to share that room with X…lord knows she’ll keep you in check because I don’t wanna have to explain a cocaine and stripper party to corporate because you were left unattended”
Retail sucks but that job was amazing. I’m still friends with those coworkers.
You're 11 years younger than him. You guys should be in different life stages, and it sounds like you are. You also state “I keep telling him what I need and he doesn't do it”. So… how many more times are you ok with being ignored? I know it's easier said than done but when someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them.
I know that's the logical answer. But I don't want to lose him.
I know that's the logical answer. But I don't want to lose him.
I know that's the logical answer. But I don't want to lose him.
On a fetish/kink level: It sounds like she wants/misses a type of DDLG relationship and enjoys degradation or a certain amount of public humiliation.
On a moral level: She’s incredibly self-centered and unempathetic.
My guess would be that this was her first kink relationship/BDSM awakening. She finally found something she really liked sexually or it was the deepest form of intimacy she had experienced up until that point and let that override the immorality of the relationship.
Or possibly she enjoyed the degradation of being a dirty secret/ side piece. There’s a weird compartmentalization that BDSMers have in their lives to separate it from all other vanilla relationships.
There are healthy and more ethical ways to practice BDSM. This scenario was not it.
It’s kind of weird how you’re viewing her as a “fuck toy” for another man like she didn’t consent to being in that kind of relationship and didn’t enjoy it. She obviously had some kinks she wanted to explore at that time and maybe she isn’t as into them anymore, which is why she doesn’t participate in certain things now. Or maybe she feels that some of the stuff she did was foolish and irresponsible and as a more mature and experienced adult has decided not to partake in that kind of thing anymore. I see so many posts on here of dudes complaining after they ask their partner about their wildest sexual experience or their sexual history and then act like this. I can understand being caught off guard and upset that she was with a married man, but being so put off by her doing consensual kinky sex is weird. Might be partly due to jealousy?
He's not a changed man. He was caught and now he's acting remorseful. If you actually do have cancer, I have no doubt he will cheat on you and abandon you again. He has shown you his true colors. He will not be there for you during this. I hope I'm wrong, but please don't count on him. He's broken your heart before.
Everyone is just (rightly) outraged at this gross pedo dude and that’s why you’re getting downvoted, I think. But I absolutely agree with you about the algorithm taking creative liberties to try to tell you what you should like based on things you also like. Def not the case here, OP’s husband is cultivating this crap but I get what you were saying.
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Ok I will… Thank you
To me, that seems downright miserly and like she values money over your relationship. Itd be a big turnoff for me.
It’s like I’m not even allowed to have friends who are women now
Hmm. Do you think that might be because you use random women to “get free porn”? This guy is horrific. He needs to stay away from women full stop.
It sure sounds like it ?
I guess hindsight is 20/20 but damn, was there really ever good times?
She sounds awful ☹️
I think that is her way of saying, I love you. If you feel better with it, do your thing. But maybe try a day without it and see what’s she says. Just be yourself. I have a feeling she likes you for you.
I do wonder if there’s like a 2% chance she’s planning a surprise party for you or the guys brother is a woodworker and she’s getting something special custom made etc. Is there any room in the scenario for a secret that is good and innocent?
My sister had it easy and got married early 20s… the other… well, hopefully she doesn't find this account but I can see why no one dates her rn. But she's back in school anyways so maybe she'll be less depressed soon
Why is it a red flag to be friends with me
That seems very odd, but it sounds like he is handling it as maturely as possible.