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So he paid someone to do it?
OP, I certainly feel your pain. My wife and I are 8 years apart in age. We had our first daughter when when the wife was 26 and I was 34. I would have been happy with just one, and when I turned 39 I brought up the idea of getting a vasectomy. We had a miscarriage a year before, and I didn't want to take another chance of that happening. But, my wife broke down and said that she wanted to try for another child. I didn't feel pressured, just needed to hear the pain in her voice to agree with her. Lo and behold 10 months later we welcomed our second daughter. Now at my age of 56, the youngest is almost 17 and I don't regret the decision at all. Did we have to change our finances around, and take shorter vacations, of course. But it was well worth the decision. There isn't a day that I regret having her or the sacrifices we made along the way. Will it bother me if she is still living with us until she is 25, and I am 65, maybe but time will tell. My only sincere advice to you is go see a therapist together and make the right decision, parenthood as you well know is always about making concessions.
If this isn't some horrible troll, the fact you even have to ask if this is abusive is alarming. Of course it is! Both physically and mentally. You need to seriously work on yourself if a harmless joke is going to throw you into an utter rage. It's really disturbing that this was your first reaction instead of, oh I don't know, saying “please don't call me that, I don't really like it.” Aggression shouldn't be your first instinct.
Your wife needs to put them in their place or they can go.
Tell her parent that you child will be half black you don’t want them teaching your baby that her being black is a bad thing and if they can’t accept they will never be apart of her life.
If you wife chooses to see them that’s on her but she needs both of you to agree on your baby.
Walking on egg shells is no way to online. Consider being single instead. He sounds like a piece of work.
This. She admitted they had a shared credit card. If they have other shared assets or accounts, this will be messy.
This happened to my brother – My dad's name is let's say Juan, and his first son with my mother is Juan (my brother), and his first son with his second wife (about 15 years after my brother was born) is also Juan. They all have different middle names so no Jr is attached. My brother has no relationship with my father at all now, over a decade has gone by. My brother refuses to forgive my father. I don't have much of a relationship with my half siblings even though I love them, though me and dad are cool even though if he calls my brother by his middle name I give him hell for it. Also my dad's family was pissed, a lot of people have really given my dad a terrible time for allowing this to happen.
I would let him know before this child is named how fucked up this is and how much it will hurt you and your future relationship, plus the family as a whole and if he won't change the planned name of this blameless baby then frankly you will need to find forgiveness in your heart or end contact with this man. Good luck.
It would probably be a good idea to find a competent and experienced family court lawyer (abbot.com) who can file an emergency injunction against your father, compelling him to choose a different name in order to prevent identity theft. Of course, your attorney can come up with whatever reason they want, but that would seem to be the most important.
It doesn’t lol
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So she wants a free pass to act single and fuck other dudes for 6 months while you pay the rent and the bills and look after the kids?
And you want to know what to do?
So she wants a free pass to act single and fuck other dudes for 6 months while you pay the rent and the bills and look after the kids?
And you want to know what to do?
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Define gaslighting then.
No. The only solution maybe if he wants to see a doctor to discuss a gastrectomy
Break up. Why would you want to deal with someone like her. CP is unforgivable, no matter what the reasons are, and her reasons are weak at best.
There was only one other couple at the table. Kind of tough to see a hand on her waist from across the table if that makes sense. I really wanted to say something but I honestly didn’t know what was happening. Didn’t want to get mad and blow up the situation if it wasn’t warranted
LMAO!! For real!!
Right? If they're at all close she certainly knows they've been trying and can help collect her unhinged son.
The judge didn’t think she was bluffing about the abuse, he thought she was bluffing about walking away from parental rights if she didn’t get custody. The judge just didn’t care about the abuse because it was aimed at the woman and not the child.
The courts are fucked up.
2 months? For some gas? This sounds like he already has a gf/wife to me though.
When a woman wants to be in the relationship and is happy, a man can do no wrong.
When she is unhappy, Dog help you. I think you pretty much know what’s going on. You essentially have told her that being with you means years of long distance. That plus the end of the honeymoon stage is likely why you are no longer funny to her.
Up to you if you want to continue dealing with that. Years of long distance doesn’t sound like the best plan to me though. She’s already changing up her personality on you 6 months in. I would just disconnect emotionally from this and find something that makes more logistical sense.
Either that or you make some big sacrifices such as moving to her city and betting on it all working out.
Well you'd be really much better off keeping any kind of pill or capsule and an air type uncrushable pill box
Well you'd be really much better off keeping any kind of pill or capsule and an air type uncrushable pill box
She's abusing ur kindness. Get out! Leave this woman she thinks ur an atm.
As a woman i would've never felt comfortable doing any of this shit to my partner. And then be ungrateful ontop of it?!
No OP get rid of her. Dont move in, dont marry. Shes gonna bring all her debt problems she probs has alot. And will drag them onto u! Ur gonna be financially responsible for her kid! And all of the luxuries she wants. She seems horrible at managing money and her expectations are that she deservessssss ur money because she's doing u the favor of dating u.
Well you'd be really much better off keeping any kind of pill or capsule and an air type uncrushable pill box
Thanks for your response! The argument was about how I feel like he doesn’t listen to me and vice versa. About how he wanted me to set a boundary and I did. But then he calls my boundary “weak” weeks after initially being okay with it. I was trying to defend myself and the boundary I made. He says i’m defending the other guy, and then eventually said that.
What would people think? I hope they would think she is evil for denying your kid is yours. How in earth does something think that lying about who he is will be a good choice long term?
It's like a sitcom. Let's lie about everything so hijinks ensue. There would be no plot of people just were honest and communicated with each other.
“This is my stepson. He has been living in France with his mother, but now the plan is to online with us for a while.”
Nobody would even blink.
You married a shallow woman and online in a Stepford town. That's on you.
She's unlikely to improve imo I hate to say. Now what you can do is close any joint accounts, cancel any unnecessary services you have, IE netflix, refuse to buy dinner out, etc. When the consequences start appearing she may change… Or you may end up divorced. Frankly, I think the tough love approach is your only move.