What has she done in that time? Has she gone to a therapist? Is she on meds? What about the addictions? What is the story on that. She needs to come clean to you. If she is in therapy, you both need to be in one or more of her sessions. And frankly, the therapist needs to be told “You need to make sure she tells me everything.”
Did she do this crap to anyone else? If so, she needs to completely clean to them. She needs to be 100% open and honest.
She also needs to pay you and everyone back. Every single cent. Anything she sold, she needs to get back or give you the money for if you don't want it.
Id never wanted an actual relationship. I was happy just being single. Until now I didn't even realise I cared. I just want to forget my feeling, they shouldn't be a thing.
How many red flags do you need to see before you walk away man?
She’s older than you, more immature than you, yells over small things, gas lights you into saying you were deceitful and clearly has baggage.
How about you date an awesome girl your own age. Life too short for drama.
I don’t care that he masturbates. I care about WHAT he fantasizes about. I don’t want him thinking about other women even if it was in the past.
Would I be a complete idiot if I gave it to her?
What has she done in that time? Has she gone to a therapist? Is she on meds? What about the addictions? What is the story on that. She needs to come clean to you. If she is in therapy, you both need to be in one or more of her sessions. And frankly, the therapist needs to be told “You need to make sure she tells me everything.”
Did she do this crap to anyone else? If so, she needs to completely clean to them. She needs to be 100% open and honest.
She also needs to pay you and everyone back. Every single cent. Anything she sold, she needs to get back or give you the money for if you don't want it.
It doesn't really sound like he loves you at all tbh.
You are way overthinking this. She invited you, that means she wants you to attend. Nothing more and nothing less.
Go and have a good time.
cat sitting? wtf, personally i wouldn't trust people who are still in touch with there ex unless there is a very good reason.
Id never wanted an actual relationship. I was happy just being single. Until now I didn't even realise I cared. I just want to forget my feeling, they shouldn't be a thing.