Thank you for this! I suspected that she might have a BPD, but as you mentioned I cannot be certain nor confirm as neither of us is not a psychologist. I did speak to a therapist and she said these were signs of borderline. I am doing better and have been active in therapy since the incident. Even reaching out to friends and family who validated my feelings and made me realize that I was not crazy about what I experienced. And that it was very unhealthy and abusive on many levels. I just want her to be accountable for how she treated me, but unfortunately she never will
It's pointless for the person who is ready to get married to ask the person who's dragging their feet. The person dragging their feet needs to show some initiative and say “Let's do this”, or honestly you shouldn't get married.
If you think about it, proposing is really saying “yes” to the person who was ready first.
You feel sick because you’re girlfriend had sex before you? Grow up
Is the clogged toilet a euphemism that I don’t understand?
u/Up-Town
Thank you for this! I suspected that she might have a BPD, but as you mentioned I cannot be certain nor confirm as neither of us is not a psychologist. I did speak to a therapist and she said these were signs of borderline. I am doing better and have been active in therapy since the incident. Even reaching out to friends and family who validated my feelings and made me realize that I was not crazy about what I experienced. And that it was very unhealthy and abusive on many levels. I just want her to be accountable for how she treated me, but unfortunately she never will
Make sure to protect yourself as far as contraception. It would be cheating if you're not open to opening the relationship. Protect yourself, OP.
It's pointless for the person who is ready to get married to ask the person who's dragging their feet. The person dragging their feet needs to show some initiative and say “Let's do this”, or honestly you shouldn't get married.
If you think about it, proposing is really saying “yes” to the person who was ready first.
My role model!!
Something casual with no feelings probably wouldn’t work out with this one, considering he already has feelings & she stomped on them.
Yeah, trash this guy. You’re young, but that behavior is inexcusable an any age.