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petite-devil-18 Public Chat Channel
Date: November 1, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
petite-devil-18 Public Chat Channel
Ok, not judging here, but why did you lie to her with the “some people” comment rather than be truthful that it was one woman? I mean, if you felt like it was a white lie to not upset her, then why switch to the truth when she asked again?
Either way, it's not your job to walk on eggshells cause of her ex. But some of your “it was because we left as a convoy” comments seem like a weird truth by technicality.
Even though it’s been normalized to be stoned all the time due to pens and vapes and everything else, I think it’s highly unusual and a sign of dependency/addiction especially to be high every day at work.
Ditto. I've worked in food service. The idea that most of them are constantly high or drunk is bullshit in my experience. There's a persistent minority who are, but the majority are sober. And as someone who had a cannabis dependency, this isn't healthy use. Even at my worst that was a line for me. It may be “normal” for her. I don't know. But it isn't healthy or responsible.
However, as with any other substance, she’s not going to quit or cut back unless she wants to. You trying to convince her to stop what she’s doing isn’t going to work. So decide if you want to be in a relationship with a stoner or not. They don’t change.
But this is also true. Whether it's healthy, responsible, or problematic is beside the point. She's going to do what she wants to do, and OP just needs to decide whether he's okay with being in a relationship with that.
Whatever “love” this is, it’s toxic. Spitting and intimidating each other and hating each others children.. this will never work. Yes. Divorce her. This is not something you can come back from like some problems.
If someone is already shouting at you in 3 months , it shows a huge lack of respect, this person is fundamentally flawed . He has very serious mental health issues. If he is not seeking help with this , you should not be trying to do a home job of fixing it .
Time to go ..
Is this only about external factors or are there relationship issues you’re avoiding?
Better to be born into a hot life than to never be born at all.
And tons of people, especially children who grew up in toxic households, will disagree with you on that.
Hopefully she’ll eventually leave him and the three of us can be a family someday
Then continue hoping. You are extremely naive if you think that this woman will leave her husband, or if she does, that she'll start a relationship with you.
tbh, I really hope that this isn't your child either…. this child simply can't win no matter how this story goes. It would be best if this woman left her husband, and then simply was single for a few years.
If you wanted to work things out, you should have talked to him about why he was acting cold towards you. Instead you cut off communications. Whatever the reason he was acting the way he was, he probably decided that you weren't interested in him anyway and let it go. It takes two to work out a problem, you just quit.
Yes and he’s planning on flying me over at the end of the month to meet family. Is that too fast ?
So, stay calm and just ask him how would he feel, if you went on one of the social media platforms and he found out you were saying that some of those guys are your e-boyfriends and you are calling them daddy and talking about sexually explicit stuff. How would he feel? The thing to do is not get emotional, but hit him with the logic. Remind him that what is good for one is good for the other. If he tries to say these aren't the same thing tell him that yes they are the same thing.