Discuss how two adults have a right to privacy too, while you're at it. And how they have a right to pursue feelings freely. To live! without old bigots criticising and persecuting them.
Everyone around them who knew supported them.
Looks like they knew exactly what they were doing MOVING AWAY TOGETHER with that support and avoiding all the ones like you lot here!
If we break up, I don't think I'm planning on going straight into another relationship. The thing is spending time with my current gf has felt more of a chore recently, and I often feel like I want some time alone even when with her, but I can't explain why this is. It's more the new girl has helped me to see that maybe this isn't normal? I'm somewhat young, naive with relationships (only this one for 3 years), and not quite sure what to expect I guess.
How has your 30 year old bf been friends with a 21 year old kid for “awhile.” That makes it sound like they've been friends for many years. If it's been more than 3 years, he's creepy AF. Even that's a bit odd tbh.
Actions have consequences. It is pretty weird to have been pretty simple friends with someone and jumping to that out of nowhere. Yeah, it's probably very creepy to her.
He understands the differences perfectly well, he's just using this as a stick to beat you with. He's got you questioning your own intelligence already, so how long until you're letting him make all the decisions?
I think it depends if you’re really rationally okay with it—if this is something you want—or if it’s something you’re trying to force yourself into because you like her so much.
Discuss everything and anything
Sure.
Discuss how two adults have a right to privacy too, while you're at it. And how they have a right to pursue feelings freely. To live! without old bigots criticising and persecuting them.
Everyone around them who knew supported them.
Looks like they knew exactly what they were doing MOVING AWAY TOGETHER with that support and avoiding all the ones like you lot here!
Then why did you threaten the relationship by having sex with someone else?
If we break up, I don't think I'm planning on going straight into another relationship. The thing is spending time with my current gf has felt more of a chore recently, and I often feel like I want some time alone even when with her, but I can't explain why this is. It's more the new girl has helped me to see that maybe this isn't normal? I'm somewhat young, naive with relationships (only this one for 3 years), and not quite sure what to expect I guess.
I would split it all 50/50 with someone you call your partner for your shared living environment
Edit: how much money are we talking about here?
How has your 30 year old bf been friends with a 21 year old kid for “awhile.” That makes it sound like they've been friends for many years. If it's been more than 3 years, he's creepy AF. Even that's a bit odd tbh.
Why are you even with him? He sounds like he hates you.
Actions have consequences. It is pretty weird to have been pretty simple friends with someone and jumping to that out of nowhere. Yeah, it's probably very creepy to her.
He understands the differences perfectly well, he's just using this as a stick to beat you with. He's got you questioning your own intelligence already, so how long until you're letting him make all the decisions?
I think it depends if you’re really rationally okay with it—if this is something you want—or if it’s something you’re trying to force yourself into because you like her so much.