He’s just an unsure lad. Hopefully he listens to the more level headed response from women, rather than the snappy reactive remarks from men thinking OPms partner’s an evil wench.
First of all, break up with her. If she knows that your friend has a contagious disease and tricks you into basically contracting said disease, she has no respect for you. Second of all, try to keep calm about this. Between 50-80% of Americans have oral herpes and most people have no symptoms. It's pretty likely you already have HSV-1 but have never had symptoms. Even if you do end up with symptoms, the symptoms are very manageable.
I’m autistic/adhd and it was my first thought with this post too. I’ve also always described myself as “always accepted, rarely included” but I’m really okay with that personally because I’d rather not have a full social calendar. When I was younger I took it more personally but now I really do not care lol.
He’s just an unsure lad. Hopefully he listens to the more level headed response from women, rather than the snappy reactive remarks from men thinking OPms partner’s an evil wench.
First of all, break up with her. If she knows that your friend has a contagious disease and tricks you into basically contracting said disease, she has no respect for you. Second of all, try to keep calm about this. Between 50-80% of Americans have oral herpes and most people have no symptoms. It's pretty likely you already have HSV-1 but have never had symptoms. Even if you do end up with symptoms, the symptoms are very manageable.
There's cheating and then there's whatever this is.
How can you ever trust this woman again?
Also ew she's not been using protection, which is risking your health.
I didn’t realize they weren’t married, she totally should have left
Yeah. Reddit has given me the same advice time and time again on this topic…
I’m autistic/adhd and it was my first thought with this post too. I’ve also always described myself as “always accepted, rarely included” but I’m really okay with that personally because I’d rather not have a full social calendar. When I was younger I took it more personally but now I really do not care lol.