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Youd be surprised how many single mums don't want to date single dads
At this point even if he signed marriage paperwork on the spot today, him and his family have shown their true colors and you’d end up a single mom anyway while he babysits once a month
And he said “cool I don’t care” and turned around to play his game.
That's your answer. Why would you stay?
A good point too. Yeah. I will stop contacting her, but leave the decision about contact between my fiance and his parents for him, but I've got great ideas from this thread about how to manage this and information I can give my fiance and leave him to make his choice.
The character is a cartoon character. Nobody has to be identical to the actress to play Wednesday.
He is a 21 year old idiot. Yes, he was calling her overweight
see my edit asshole
tl;dr: I'm attracted to my coworker, I have no reason to believe she's attracted to me, but I really hope she does (also I am stalking her online for romantic interests). Also my girlfriend seems to suspect something is up between us even though I'm really good at hiding my attraction to this other woman so I don't know what her problem is.
she didn’t black out she GOT blacked
Yeah that’s why I just don’t know what to do I just feel horrible. It’s affecting me all the time and her name was Trinity so I see her name in public all the time cause of churches and other shit around me lol. It’s just really nude I don’t have any friends anymore either cause my childhood best friend moved in 11th grade so I’ve been really lonely after losing both of them and I’ve gone through like everything between me and her in my head a million times always feeling like I messed everything up. Idk exactly what abandonment issues are like I could guess from the name but what it did give me is extreme anxiety when trying to talk to anyone in general more specifically girls I used to be shy in the first place but now it’s so very hot to even say anything back when one talks to me trying to chat like friends cause I just get terrified never used to happen until after she rejected me and stopped acting the same way it was really traumatizing for like 15 year old me
Good point. He's 41,with a 21yo daughter coercing a 20yo. He was 20 when he had his daughter. The numbers do not add up. Coercion, Gaslighting, Love Bombing and basically treating op like a very pretty little doll. I'm scared how this “kind” predator behaviour might progress. He needs to be reported somewhere.
My boyfriend literally just did this to me. We had a conversation about it and we set the boundaries again and he has even said if he messes up again, he wants me to break up with him.
I totally loved the idea of making our own porno, and my own porn pics ect. Honestly we haven’t skipped a beat since I’ve done this for him.
OP:
Since our baby was born, I have done 90% of the diaper changes, cleaned 99% of the dishes daily, kept up house cleaning, delivered water/food/tea from the kitchen whenever she needs it, constantly offered/asked if anything else could be done, held our son while she takes personal time in the bath for multiple hours at a time, woken up in the middle of the night almost every time she wakes up to breast feed, told her she’s doing a great job, and otherwise offered every other means of support I can think of. I’m also sole financial provider.
It sounds like it was just heavy lust/desire once the honeymoon phase wore off she didnt feel the same.
Um he isn't really her dad considering the child grew up with a dad….birth certificate since birth….don't see how this will change on an assumption
from my knowledge and seeing other people go through this breaks are almost never worth it. If she wants to be single and act single then she doesnt deserve u waiting around for her while she can go out and do what she wants then expects u to be there at the end of it all. You shouldn’t be anyone’s second priority when it comes to that stuff. It’s super nude and i feel like the break will make it harder. Especially if she does end up getting with a guy she may never tell u that and then you’re in a relationship where u look kinda like the clown in it all. If you go on the break i suggest when u guys re connect u should be very mature and not overly loving and see what she has to say and then go from there based on how the experience made you feel. Stand up for yourself you deserve the best of the best and if she can’t provide that then bye bye.
Nothing you can do will change her mind.
Don't dwell on it and waste time moving on to someone that actually cares about you.
You have only been dating for 2 weeks. You being jealous of her hugging someone she grew up with is your insecurity to deal with.
Damn
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I didn't know what time she was coming over, we left it open. Heard a knock on the door. Got up to answer it. Did not know she would have a conniption fit about the tv. As soon as she voiced a problem with it, I turned it off as soon as I could – but I move slowly.
The volume of the TV was not what I would consider loud, but that's not the point.
sure
I always tell men to use your own condoms. Bring them w you or keep them in your possession because some women will poke holes in them for this reason. I’ve been called an idiot many times for saying this but it doesn’t bother me. I wasn’t the one questioning if the baby my Gf was carrying mine or not.
Also don’t let them put them on w their mouth’s because they can’t bite a hole in them. Check them frequently and change them if you aren’t sure. They aren’t that expensive in the long run.
Her comparing you dancing w your ex at a wedding and her going to her exes house alone to tell him to stop is comparing apples to mud holes. Not the same at all. You were in public w your GF there I assume whereas she was there alone w him for who knows how long.
Everything you say sounds as if she’s trapping you w his baby. Or she’s telling you she’s pregnant when she isn’t so you’ll have sex w her & will have not have to use condoms anymore guaranteeing you’ll get her pregnant.
Tell her you want to see how a pregnancy test works and ask to watch to see how they work acting dumb of course. Because if she has shown you a positive test she could have gotten one from a friend or bought a positive one on-line to use against you. If you watch her take one and it’s positive you know at least she’s truthful about being pregnant. If she refuses to take one in front of you or with you there it’s a strong possibility she isn’t pregnant at all.
If she is pregnant insist on a DNA test as soon as safely possible. Because if you wait until it’s born and she puts your name on the birth certificate it’s legally yours and your responsibility for 18 years. There are many men out there right now paying for a kid that isn’t theirs even though dna says it isn’t because his name is on the certificate.
Some women are so sneaky you have to prepare for everything. This one sounds like she’ll do anything to keep you so don’t put anything past her. I know you may care for her but be prepared for everything
I know he's not leaving his girlfriend for me and I I don't want him to. I've come to the realisation that this isn't healthy and thats's why I decided to go to therapy. Really hope it will show me where my desire for that adrenaline comes from and how I can grow from this so I can become the person I want to be. Thanks for your advice and honesty, I appreciate it.
A bit over a year.
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If you're looking for advice, then why don't you take the advice given? previous and this time?
You know the answer yet you're still with him.
you don't want the advice given, else you'd take it.
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She set a boundary to not talk about her weight or fitness to her and and you blatanty ignored it? Do you even respect your girlfriend?
Just because fitness has become a part of your life doesn't give you the right to force it upon her. Maybe y'all had the same goals and interests when y'all were younger, but people grow and sometimes grow apart. If you want a partner that is into fitness like you are, then quit wasting her time and break up with her, and go find someone that you won't continually harass about their weight or lack of physical abilities.
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He views you as incompetent. He will treat you this way in the future during milestones because he sees you as an idiot who cannot manage their own life.
What an ass.
You're right not to agree. Sounds your BF is overly controlling.
Yeah, that's a really crappy excuse for not telling you he was working out with another woman in your home. This is one of those things that shouldn't be a big deal, but potentially becomes a deal when a partner tries to hide it.
Hiding it makes it suspicious.
Thank you for your response. I think I could forgive and move forward if he apologized and took responsibility but I don’t think he wants that. I think he wants to be friends just to soothe his own guilt and conscience ?.
Funny enough he broke it off with me before I could pull the trigger. The conversation went so fast. I think he said something like “I don’t want this relationship,” and I agreed.
I was hoping that maybe it wasn’t a show. That he’s just not good at expressing himself and that him being nice to me is a way of communicating…but I think I’m foolish for thinking this…he has to apologize properly.
I’m so sad. I meant so little to him
The thing is he was literally just talking to me about my issues like Thursday. So I’m just confused and I know he was going through some stuff too. So I’m not sure if I should just stick around then? He opened my snap chat picture but not the chat part. Could still be ghosting but he sometimes take a while to reply. Like this isnt uncommon and when we talked about it it’s just his text style.
Also thought the one girl was my friend but she was being really mean and making rude comments. So I’m not sure if she’s my friend.
That's basically just normal Dependency, which is probably a better way to describe what she is currently going through. She is unable to process her emotions or strengthen herself unless it is via you, and she has become increasingly reliant on you for validation, emotional support, likely trauma dumping as well, etc.
But yes, a lot of what you said shows signs of enabling and the mindset that comes with it, like framing it as a responsibility. I know rationally you can point out she lacks a support network, but in doing so you trap yourself in a dynamic that is not helping either of you, etc.
Still, these are big ideas. Ideas that I hope give you a sense of how complicated and dangerous a situation you are in. If your hope is to grit your teeth through this just note that things like codependency get worse over time as well, especially if you start to believe not only that you are all she has but that she is all you have as well.
They are referring to this comment.
OP does clearly state they are able to pay their bills and contribute to savings.
Thanks for that. So OP is changing his story.
I’m sorry but I really don’t think so.
Also living rent free in someone’s basement. What a catch! I’d definitely want to have a kid by a guy like this!
I think you need to come to terms and accept that you may not be the right partner for him. Holding him hostage through guilt isn't right. I agree with him that a free pass is not a good idea. This is tough, and I am sorry you're going through this. But I think you need to put yourself in his shoes and try to imagine the turmoil he must be facing.
If it isn't about you still wanting to go on the trip and you do care about him, tell him without further delay.
The “friend” is definitely shitty for taking advantage of you being drunk while knowing you were in a relationship whether he was actually sober or just less drunk, and he definitely wouldn't be a best friend. He likely would not even a friend at all anymore if he wasn't also drunk off his ass but appeared to be the least drunk while we were all making horrible decisions. You being drunk likely makes this sexual assault, if the friend was in fact sober, and I'd fully support my gf going after a “friend” who sexually assaulted her. But you do say you kissed back so legal consent or not this is still cheating. If this happened as a one-off occurrence with my gf, I could forgive it as long as she came clean about it without delay instead of hurting me more by keeping it secret from me when she could have told me sooner and also promised to make sure she'd have a female designated driver lined up before she ever put herself in a situation where she could be getting that drunk again.
If he decides it is a deal breaker at least be decent enough to give him the chance to try to get his money back or make some other arrangements for the trip rather than wait until it is too late for him to do anything but waste the trip or just go by himself. Delaying telling him because of the trip is not in any way helping him, delaying to tell him for any reason is just making it worse.
Only way the situation as described would be a deal breaker for me is if I found out from someone else after my gf had a chance to have told me herself, or if it resulted in a kid since either killing the kid if not medically necessary to save her life or her having someone else's kid from cheating on me to raise would both be deal breakers.
Everyone has experienced trauma, and I know what a trigger is. This is not acceptable. Full stop. This is not “reacting in heightened ways,” it was multiple days of harassing, berating, and trying to manipulate someone who dared to not make your inability to regulate your emotions their priority. The mental gymnastics you're STILL engaging in to keep yourself the victim here is truly breathtaking.
You were given advice in my response. You don't want advice, you want to continue to justify your behavior and remain the victim. Classic narc shit.
I know my brother tends to keep them for keeping something-or-other dry for one of his hobbies, so I totally get it. I'm sure it might seem odd to an outsider that i have a little thing of thick twist ties and paper tubes, but they are useful, lol. I mean, if they were just being saved to be saved… But even then, with some stuff I have seen, if the worst complaint you can come up with from your SO, I don't think you're having it all that bad.
Is this even real? You are 20 years old, and you paid off student loans at 18 years old, and then on top of that you didn't notice that the loans weren't actually paid off and kept paying them, not realizing that money was coming out. Then on top of that you consistent payment of the loans lead to a LOWER credit score instead of what regular on time payments usually do which is increase your credit score. None of this sounds believable in the slightest. however looking at some of your older posts, if your BF is real he is toxic AF and I have no idea why you would put up this stuff.
Since you've brought it up and it hasn't changed, this could be a deliberate passive-aggressive move by your parents to encourage you to move out, but your issues aside, I am glad older people can still be loudly passionate. Let them have some quality alone time while it's still possible, they're not getting any younger.
If you pay them rent, bring it up again and talk through it like adults, maybe withhold rent.
If you don't pay rent, earplugs and white noise machines as people have suggested, and perhaps look for a place of your own. You're 19.
Yes I’m sure you have made every right relationship move since you were 13. Never once got a bit tipsy and kissed someone you probably shouldn’t have. Ok.
A kiss is not a commitment to exclusivity. She kissed another guy or maybe he kissed her and she didn’t know what to do and OP stormed out without finding out which it was? He can be upset it didn’t work out as he hoped but doesn’t make her “of the streets”. Geez.
Did she live there before? Changes like moving or new roommates can cause stress for people, and that stress can create temporary GI issues. Which is a long way of saying her gas may pass.
Or she could have a chronic health issue like IBS or IBD or something else.
But I'm really not sure what can be consciously done for sleep farting. It's involuntary. Maybe gas relief pills? I'm not sure.
More interesting to me is how you're smelling it through all her blankets. I don't ever smell my husband's gas unless he lifts the blanket.
In the meantime, I'd get a couple fans. Get a clip on one that will clip on the corner at the head of your bed furthest from her, pointing it at “you” but in reality so it will blow air away from you. Get another oscillating one to keep air moving. Reposition to see if it helps. Maybe crack the window so some fresh air comes in and double up the blankets (I'm not sure how cold “cold” means for you). Air purifier near you would be helpful. Or you could get a diffuser or something like that, making sure the scent doesn't bother her.
Worse case, do all of the above and get a bed tent and tell her you're going for the 18th century bed curtain feel.
Why did you marry someone who isnt compatible with you sexually?
She doesn't respect you my dude.
There is nothing coy or hot to get about “I don't want to have sex right now.” There is a huge, massive, throbbing and pulsating difference between a subtle, seductive brush of the collar bone with a follow up “you sure?”, and just… whipping out your engorged pork sword and slapping it on your gf's back during a massage because “she was showing signs” of wanting it. (No…no, she wasn't) That's fucking gross. Like.. how do you even draw a comparison there wtf? Just because that approach might work on you doesn't mean it works “all the time”. In fact this post is pretty hard (hehe) objective evidence that it does not in fact work all the time. It works some of the time, for some people, not for everyone, and obviously not for OP.
ALSO: This isn't the first time they've even had this conversation, so this is a repeated pattern of OP's bf ignoring her “No” answers and making his gf, whom he presumably cares about, feel uncomfortable.
He is repeatedly ignoring her needs, disrespecting her boundaries, and seemingly uncaring about how it makes her feel, just because he apparently also has the sex drive of a hormonal, idiot 19 year old boy.
Grow up.
HPV can lie dormant in your body for many years before anything presents, and by that I mean if you had prior sexual partners they could have given it to you and then during a stressful time it reactivated and starting reproducing cells. Your Pap smear only tests for abnormal cells. If it comes back abnormal then you will have an HPV test at least that’s the protocol in my state. You can also ask to be tested for the high risk strains of HPV and if they come back positive they will do a Pap smear. This is a trick around doctors and insurance companies trying to deny Pap smears. Ask for the STD panel and if it’s positive they have t do a pap, if it’s not positive for HPV chances are low that you have cervical cancer as it is the primary cause. You could have given HPV to our husband and he could have given it to her. I am sorry you are going through this, and I am so sorry about what happened, but I don’t think you can say you got HPV from your husband through the affair partner. Now I don’t know how long the were sleeping together as cancer generally takes some time to grow. But you could have also gotten it years ago and her having it is just coincidental.
That’s not the norm in a lot of countries. My parents never married and I always had my dad’s last name. That was my mother’s choice, but unmarried fathers can and do petition the courts here to make their last name be the child’s. And it works.