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Date: November 21, 2022
You don’t need to say anything. Nothing happened ??♂️??♂️
You have issues putting into words what is wrong in the exact moment it is happening. This is normal for many people. Some people are over the top out there with all emotions blasting in everyone’s faces at all times, and everyone around them knows exactly what is good or bad at all times.
You seem more reserved, but I’m not sure that should “irritate you both”. Your style is more subdued, less in your face than perhaps he wants it to be but he’s been with you for years probably because you’re such a timid sweetheart because of your earlier experiences. But then he chooses to not like it at other times.
I’m glad you’re in therapy, that should be helping. As a random redditor on the internet I do have advice. It is to be more in your face to everyone, all the time. If you want to work on a part of your personality you need to practice it to get brain pathways going and hardwire it. You may never be a loud, in your face emotional person and that’s ok. But you can flex the muscles you do have to develop expression when you need it.
If your fiancée pisses you off for example, you may not know it right away because you’ve been taught your emotions are invalid and pointless. You may only realize it 4 days later. Well even if it’s over something small or ridiculous, and you realize it 4 days later… tell him! If he is surprised or mocks you for it, remind him you are learning to access your feelings and he can help by acknowledging them. If he still mocks you or says you’re irritating, when you are telling him what is wrong (remember the whole point of this post is he doesn’t know what’s wrong) then he could want the current situation forever and I’m not sure you should marry. He acts like he wants to know what’s wrong but if you tell him something legitimately wrong he blames you or others or says you are overreacting that is not a healthy relationship either. Pay attention to his reactions when you express yourself!
Not just your bf either. With your parents, friends, practice saying feelings and how you view a situation. Even if it feels weird or forced. Tell strangers in the grocery store how happy you are to have found the cereal you like. Tell people waiting in line with you that you are in a hurry and are disappointed that the line isn’t moving. Tell your mom you never really liked that one holiday tradition. Even if it annoys people or serves no purpose, it is helping you get comfortable expressing yourself and being ok with whatever peoples reactions are.
Let me know when you figure it out. I've been wondering this for 20 years.
What an inferior fucking loser he is to make you shrink yourself so he can feel big.
Strong men love strong women. Please drop this weak idiot to make room for someone who matches your secure energy.
Based on your post history y'all need to break up. Also, sounds like you're a side chick.
I don’t know man, if she feels entitled to have a say in this then I’m afraid this might become a slippery slope where she starts to control all my spending. What if we break up? Then I’m stuck with a house that I half dislike? And I payed for it. I don’t know man
Buy what you want, but if you are not serious about this girl after 2.5 years, let her go. You are stringing her along. She needs to know that you are not thinking of a future with her.
You definitely don’t “come out as poly.” It’s just a relationship preference. She’s just wording it in a way where you feel you have to comply as if it’s apart of LGBTQIA (which it is not) or else you’re not an “ally.” She’s trying to trap you into it.
The only question that matters now is, do you want a polyamorous relationship? If you’re hesitating at all then it isn’t for you.
He is not only not “the right kind of personality for them.”
He is ALL they would like to be. But can't. To them he looks like “Mr. Perfect”. They don't want to be friends with one person who continually and without the slightest effort will outshine them wherever they go!
He seems smart. They are average.
He does charity and hobbies and counseling and … They barely manage job and hobby/ies.
He has an open mind. They don't seem to have.
Plus: they may feel that he is willing to stoop lower than his own level to make friends.
Which makes him look needy. Although he is just eager to befriend.
And needyness will lead to people either taken advantage of. Or being singled out and pushed back.
I understand how this is weird and painful. I have been through this also.
Dude, you don't get to be that mad. You can be disappointed or frustrated, but anger is out of line, and I'll tell you why.
You're basically mad that your fiancee is afraid to undergo a life risking medical procedure, repeatedly, full of more pain and discomfort than you can imagine, culminating in a taint that looks like it was blasted with steel shrapnel on top of nearly dragging all the organs out of her body (yes this can and has happened).
For you, it's children running around the house and bonding. For her, it's the same, but with a TON of fear about it destroying her body, marriage, and health for years to come.
You put your wants before her needs. You didn't even stop to ask her why she changed her mind. When you exploded, you indirectly told her that her value is tied to having children for you and that her concerns don't matter.
Then, you attacked her by weaponizing her trauma.
I don't know if you're gonna have children, but I can promise that reaction and abuse definitely threw that and even your engagement into limbo.
You better get ready to bust your ass making it up to her, because what you did was horrific.
You both may need a break after the argument. Give him some time.
However, depending on how intense it was, your behavior may have totally turned him off. Some adults tend to throw temper tantrums, say the absolute worst, or break things during anger. Its not one, a person wants to deal with.