This was my gut reaction. It was off putting and if I can spend my time with people who don’t neg or people who do, I’m going to pick the people who don’t. As more days have passed it feels more innocent what she did, but I don’t want to go through it again
i’m not in my 40s but i can understand where you’re coming from, but honestly it’s never guys in their 40s that we see on here dating 20 year olds, always 27-33ish.
big difference imo is between a 40M/30F and 30M/20F relationship; a 30 year old woman should definitely have enough life experience and be well adjusted enough to date a 40 year old man, but the same cannot be said regarding a 30M/20F relationship.
even looking at this post, they got together when he was 28 and she was 19, fresh out of high school. that’s nasty. i don’t disagree with the sentiment, but i think dating for men in their 40s is a different conversation, unless you think 40 year old men can date women in their 20s, in which case you should seek help.
This isn't about Sami or Mark. This is about someone pushing another person to cut people they disagree with. I think this cuting people is OK when it is for you but pushing other people to do it is completely wrong.
she's not horrified, her value system involves treating sexual acts and words as special and reserved for specific people and circumstances. that's her prerogative. it's a simple boundary that was not respected so how cna you even trust a guy like that
what makes you think that you won't be the new soon-to-be Ex-Wife when he's found his next girlfriend?
Doesn't matter that you want to fix it. He doesn't, so it's over. Sorry.
This was my gut reaction. It was off putting and if I can spend my time with people who don’t neg or people who do, I’m going to pick the people who don’t. As more days have passed it feels more innocent what she did, but I don’t want to go through it again
i’m not in my 40s but i can understand where you’re coming from, but honestly it’s never guys in their 40s that we see on here dating 20 year olds, always 27-33ish.
big difference imo is between a 40M/30F and 30M/20F relationship; a 30 year old woman should definitely have enough life experience and be well adjusted enough to date a 40 year old man, but the same cannot be said regarding a 30M/20F relationship.
even looking at this post, they got together when he was 28 and she was 19, fresh out of high school. that’s nasty. i don’t disagree with the sentiment, but i think dating for men in their 40s is a different conversation, unless you think 40 year old men can date women in their 20s, in which case you should seek help.
This isn't about Sami or Mark. This is about someone pushing another person to cut people they disagree with. I think this cuting people is OK when it is for you but pushing other people to do it is completely wrong.
This guy comes to Reddit to ask if his girlfriend is okay after having sex lol. ASK HER
she's not horrified, her value system involves treating sexual acts and words as special and reserved for specific people and circumstances. that's her prerogative. it's a simple boundary that was not respected so how cna you even trust a guy like that
oooohhhh update us OP