This. If he refuses to wear condoms if you’ve requested them for whatever reason (and all reasons for condoms are valid) and because of that you’re secretly taking birth control to protect yourself, especially at only 21, I’m concerned for the health of your relationship.
If that’s his attitude towards your health, a potential pregnancy you don’t want at the current time, and sexual intimacy, he sounds like he has selfish and controlling behaviours on board. Or is he aware that both methods of birth control are imperfectly effective when
But this really is above Reddit’s pay grade. I sincerely suggest you speak to a counselling therapist individually as soon as possible.
People can’t see that from the outside. All they see, when looking at you and her as a topic, is how much time you lavish on her.
Heck, from the outside you’re giving off an uncomfortable vibe of Nice Guy(tm). Even that much could be negatively affecting perception of you in your social groups.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with telling her, “Look, if you don’t want to hear my advice, I don’t want to hear your problems. I told you my opinion ten times, and you ignoring it ten times to your detriment hasn’t changed it. Telling it to you for the eleventh time isn’t going to make any difference, so stop wasting my time.”
There’s the old saying about “the definition of insanity as doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.” This sure seems to apply to her, but at a certain point, you realize it applies to you too.
So she got mad because she was drunk texting you at 2am and you didn't respond. This isn't normal behavior, move along along with your life without her.
Bruh…this is just awful smh
I guess he masturbates with the death grip. If so tell him to stop for some time and it should get better.
This. If he refuses to wear condoms if you’ve requested them for whatever reason (and all reasons for condoms are valid) and because of that you’re secretly taking birth control to protect yourself, especially at only 21, I’m concerned for the health of your relationship.
If that’s his attitude towards your health, a potential pregnancy you don’t want at the current time, and sexual intimacy, he sounds like he has selfish and controlling behaviours on board. Or is he aware that both methods of birth control are imperfectly effective when
But this really is above Reddit’s pay grade. I sincerely suggest you speak to a counselling therapist individually as soon as possible.
Tell boyfriend to stop “joking” about it. Wanker
People can’t see that from the outside. All they see, when looking at you and her as a topic, is how much time you lavish on her.
Heck, from the outside you’re giving off an uncomfortable vibe of Nice Guy(tm). Even that much could be negatively affecting perception of you in your social groups.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with telling her, “Look, if you don’t want to hear my advice, I don’t want to hear your problems. I told you my opinion ten times, and you ignoring it ten times to your detriment hasn’t changed it. Telling it to you for the eleventh time isn’t going to make any difference, so stop wasting my time.”
There’s the old saying about “the definition of insanity as doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.” This sure seems to apply to her, but at a certain point, you realize it applies to you too.
You need to talk to her and say all of this directly.
So she got mad because she was drunk texting you at 2am and you didn't respond. This isn't normal behavior, move along along with your life without her.
Yeah, they all still seem to like him fine too