You don’t have the right to decide what is worth him cutting contact over. The fact that you thought you knew better and could “fix” the situation is extremely disrespectful to him.
Never, EVER, pull something like this again. You need to learn to respect the boundaries other people have set. Until you do, you will not be capable of being a good partner.
This whole thing is bonkers, she’s acting like a foolish 21 year old that just got her ID to go to bars. First off; she assaulted you Second; she tried to go home with a stranger Third; she’s fucking 30 and still behaves like this, I’m guessing there’s a form of drinking problem there.
You aren’t responsible for her she’s a grown ass adult and she is now seeing the consequences of her actions. If you choose to stay every time there’s a situation with alcohol I wouldn’t be surprised if you’re on edge. Plus if you weren’t there was she planning on cheating?!
I wouldn’t be too quick to dismiss it, seen plenty of “found out my Boyf is married, should I tell his wife” posts on here and everyone saying to do it anonymously. I’d do some digging then confront and see his reaction
Calling her naive is imo patronizing. She's an adult woman who made a choice that, in most monogamous relationships, would be cheating (“getting hot in front of a friend without spouse's knowledge”). She is not a teen or a kid, she is not in a power dynamic that favors the friend. She's an adult who made a choice. She is an adult who knows the norms of the society she lives in, she is not intellectually impaired. IMO she simply is unfaithful.
Ohh I'm pissed I'll definitely probably fuck someone else before returning don't worry
Keep the fluffy sets and get rid of the manchild
He’s lying
You don’t have the right to decide what is worth him cutting contact over. The fact that you thought you knew better and could “fix” the situation is extremely disrespectful to him.
Never, EVER, pull something like this again. You need to learn to respect the boundaries other people have set. Until you do, you will not be capable of being a good partner.
Learn from this.
This whole thing is bonkers, she’s acting like a foolish 21 year old that just got her ID to go to bars. First off; she assaulted you Second; she tried to go home with a stranger Third; she’s fucking 30 and still behaves like this, I’m guessing there’s a form of drinking problem there.
You aren’t responsible for her she’s a grown ass adult and she is now seeing the consequences of her actions. If you choose to stay every time there’s a situation with alcohol I wouldn’t be surprised if you’re on edge. Plus if you weren’t there was she planning on cheating?!
Bro i swear to god there's a sub for everything.
I wouldn’t be too quick to dismiss it, seen plenty of “found out my Boyf is married, should I tell his wife” posts on here and everyone saying to do it anonymously. I’d do some digging then confront and see his reaction
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The bit I found strange. He had sex in his car but then went to a hotel.
Calling her naive is imo patronizing. She's an adult woman who made a choice that, in most monogamous relationships, would be cheating (“getting hot in front of a friend without spouse's knowledge”). She is not a teen or a kid, she is not in a power dynamic that favors the friend. She's an adult who made a choice. She is an adult who knows the norms of the society she lives in, she is not intellectually impaired. IMO she simply is unfaithful.
Sounds like it could be depression? Maybe try to have a conversation with him, see how he’s feeling