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See this is why I don’t date the people I work with. If this were a stranger you wouldn’t have to see her ever again. Also, let’s be clear about something…she did nothing wrong and I doubt she knew it was a date.
Well for starters, her telling you to change your outfit before you go out isn’t normal relationship stuff, it’s creepy control issue stuff.
Secondly, this girl sees you as an accessory, get rid of her so you can find someone sane who appreciates you.
You should’ve just done the anniversary stuff without her lol
Aftercare can be so many different things for so many different people, and I’ve definitely been where you’re at (getting on phones, kinda ignoring eachother after, things like that)
If he’s putting his clothes back on immediately, it could be because he’s self conscious or doesn’t want to be nude after sex, so immediately suggesting cuddling nude could make him completely stray from that idea.
Here’s what my partner and I have come to compromise on as far as aftercare, and it’s genuinely worked for us the past year or so.
We finish, get up, and go to the bathroom together. We both pee after sex cuz we don’t want utis, and we clean up. We’re usually laughing and talking that whole time, and it’s not at all awkward for us. Usually we will take a shower together, sometimes we take them separately, it honestly depends on if I want to wash my hair or not because he says I hog the water when I wash my hair lol. When we’re all clean, we get dressed and we get in bed and put on a tv show we’ll both enjoy watching, and I’ll usually lay on his chest or we’ll just cuddle, and we will usually fall asleep like that.
It makes us feel connected without putting too much pressure on the aftercare itself. We’re paying attention to eachother, the end of sex wasn’t the end of our bonding time, and we’re both happy with it.
Obviously that exact routine doesn’t work for everyone, but going into addressing aftercare with so much expectation on what that will mean for both of you can make it feel forced and then you won’t even really want it anymore. It’s kinda like mentioning you want flowers and then getting flowers, it doesn’t mean as much if you tell him exactly what you want (cuddle hard, play with your hair) because he’s not already doing those things without you asking.
Definitely talk about aftercare, but just start by telling him that you want to feel like you’re still connected after you finish with sex. Eventually you will start to get into a routine you’re both comfortable with without feeling like you’ve put too much pressure on it
I am sorry but it sounds like he likely has another relationship, possibly marriage somewhere else.
Keep him! Lucky you!