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Date: October 6, 2022
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How about the fact that he’s a womanizer ?
Did you read the post at all?
We can practice
Would you rather be the person who leaves someone close to xmas, or be the person who was left?
You’re assuming he’s going to want to stay around. If it was ‘unforgivable’ to you, he might just decide there’s nothing to salvage…or that he’d be miserable if he stayed because you’re always going to be a reminder of it.
Some people prefer to be the victim in their story (“he dumped me at Christmas!!!)”. Some the protagonist (“I realized the calendar date didn’t affect what I knew I needed to do.”)
Hobbies are good for a couple, but usually enjoyed alone. If you hang around while he watches sports you're almost certainly getting in the way (no offence). Do you have any pastimes you can call your own?
I mean, you shouldn't be asking for ideas for hobbies really because if its forced it kinda sucks but one thing me and my partner enjoy is travel and breaks away. We don't have a lot in common but that's fine, we love each other and enjoy each others company.
I'm not a counsellor just a lowly support person but I agree, I'm going to leave the job and try to find something less emotionally taxing. Thank you for your advice I appreciate it
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There's no misunderstanding her. We see what he is doing. He's trying to keep you from seeing it. Do you?
Fr. That shit sounds fucking nasty.
Your friends are right.
Currently they are the couple, you are just someone who has feelings for the your wife, and an ATM.
End the relationship.
They broke all the rules of a polygamous relationship.
And if you leaving cause her to lose the baby, sorry to sound mean and uncaring but that is the consequences of her actions.
I watched some weird crap when I was younger ( 14ish) because I found it on my dads browser history. I peeked a couple more times just because i was so weirded out that my dad was looking at it.
I’m a completely boring vanilla person now almost 30 years later so honestly I don’t think it affected me much if at all. Obviously your gF feels guilty and I used to too but I got over it. Honestly kids do really stupid shit. As a mom now I facepalm at least once a day at the stupid shit my kids and their cousins do. My nephew, one day announced that he stuck his finger up his butt and felt a turd up there. There’s an entire sub dedicated to kids being stupid.
When you went out with your partner, they were only going out to do something that would benefit you so for you to then put restrictions on walking around the mall isnt ideal, rather than saying, yep let's go and then if they want to walk around you say I'll just sit here and wait for you as I'm a little tired.
Sounds like they said yes in the morning because they were half asleep and you didn't really give them other options.
I'd be annoyed with you too in this situation and while they may be being petty, people are allowed to be annoyed when you are selfish and in this whole scenario I just see you being a little selfish.
Talk to your partner like a grown up and explain what's in your head and allow them to explain what's in their head.
Its not the argument of the century or even significant.
You should tell him. It is important for your husband to remember your birthday and to celebrate it. It is upsetting when they forget and hot for us to have to remind them.
Going forward to the following. Explain to him that he needs some help and that this is important to you. Sometimes people need visual and audio cues to remember important things and doing this should help. Does he forgot other things?
Ask to take his phone and put a daily reminder in his phone on the week or two weeks leading up to your birthday with a daily reminder of your upcoming birthday.
Send him links to things you may like for your birthday. Or put a list on the refrigerator front and center as a visual cue to remember your birthday about a month from your birthday.
You do care and you want to be remembered. Good luck and Happy Birthday.
That is NOT your friend.
Seems like you handled it very well to me. He felt insecure and opened up about it, you assured him and initiated a discussion about jealousy and how you’d like yo handle it in this relationship. As long as this happens every single time you simply interact with someone of the opposite sex, I think you’re fine.