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Date: January 16, 2023
No, it’s really not. You didn’t have to cater to what she likes, she doesn’t have to cater to you. You can find things to do together that you both enjoy. It’s really manipulative to build up this resentment that you’ve been watching shows for her when there’s nothing to suggest she demanded it if you.
I think a lot depends on circumstances…I had a very longtime male friend that I drunkenly hooked up with a few times during our freshman year at college…we both went “omg what were we thinking” and went back to being just friends. Not saying the same kind of thing applies to OP and his fiancée, but I do think there are some cases where people can remain genuinely good friends after dating or hooking up.
He was at my wedding and my husband (who knew my friend and had full disclosure of our isolated temporary insanity) had no problem with it. If he had, I’m pretty sure i would have approached it with empathy and respect for his feelings but would also have said it was important to me for him to be there as he was one of my most longstanding and loyal friends. Hopefully we would have worked it out much more civilly than this couple has.
So for now he is choosing to not take it. Leave him be.
“I feel like I’m going crazy trying to figure out why.”
He blocked you because you are a cheater. Sorry if that wasn't clear. Maybe he would have hit it and quit it on one night, but he isn't interested in a relationship with you.
He knowingly and willingly ruined your relationship, all for HER, and lied about it. He was never going to tell you. The only reason he did is because you found out. He would’ve kept doing it.
You know it.
He knows it.
Samantha knows it.
We all know it.
He cheated. Period.
He had his chance with you, but he chose her over you. Don’t make him choose again. You were right to break up with him.
He doesn’t deserve a second chance.
Also presumably he’s still in your life to an extent due to split custody of your daughter. So it’s not like he’s not reminded pretty consistently that you guys are raising her separately and maybe he never wanted that, or he did but has changed his mind as he’s gotten older and now wishes you could all be a family. I don’t understand how this is such a foreign possibility to you. Especially if you were the one who ended the relationship 8 years ago.
There was a post here recently by a woman around age 40 who discovered her same age husband had been secretly, psychotically obsessed for TWENTY YEARS (their entire relationship length) with a girl he dated for 2 months when he was 19. People found his reddit account where he was writing about his obsessive delusions about how “in love” he was with her. It was really scary shit. This stuff is rare but not impossible.
Thank you so much. I really appreciate this advice.