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Date: November 6, 2022
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Yeah I can see that your just a shit person to be with. Hopefully your partner (if you even have one) leaves you because of something small and stupid. I don’t think you know how a relationship work.
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You have to find the strength. You can do it.
You have to find it for your children. Don’t give up. I am rooting for you.
The damage has been done. You should’ve stopped it when the flirting began. I found myself in the middle of an emotional affair decades before I ever heard the term. Believe me — it hurt my husband just as much as if I had a full-fledged affair.
I said I was drunk and I feel guilty, but I’ll probably end up telling her
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What reason did he give you for leaving?
Thank you, if I do decide to start up our friendship I’ll keep my bf very much in the loop. I know it’s cliched but there is absolutely no chance of it happening again, I felt so shit about it after and I know she did as well. I hated doing that to him and compromising our relationship over something so meaningless
You have been together for 6 years, never met her, but she's important enough for him to visit just her?
Her breakup is more of a time investment to him than your sister having stage 3 cancer?
His friends know about her but don't know about your sister's cancer?
OP 10/10 find a new man. If he was so resistant to put a ring on ya, after you mentioning the importance of doing so, and his general dismissive attitude to your wants and needs and all the above weren't enough what's the final straw?
When he reveals he's leaving you for her after having an x-year long affair with her? After you have 2 children and even more stable?
If I were you, ild talk to his mom. Tell her about your sister having cancer and how that's affecting you. Tell her his lack of care but he goes of to the other woman cause she broke up with a short term boyfriend etc. Don't even mention if you think he's cheating, just slip the truth into conversation and see what happens. If the mom loves you so much she will put in the work to make sure you're OK at the end of it all with or without her son
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My struggle is that i don’t know what too much is for him cause to me the things i shared weren’t heavy stuff like my salary getting delayed, being fat shamed, etc., i just shared them like an update then i don’t really talk about it in great detail. figured he’s want to know the stuff thats going on with me but I guess i assumed wrong.
Also, a therapist is very expensive and i can’t afford it but that’s still an option.
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Agree. Ffs if they’re a laundromat strangers and OP goes running to the sister & BIL asking if they’re his – for a start it’s humiliating that your partner apparently suspects you of cheating, slanderous to insinuate so, as well as creating a nasty scenario of confused suspicion. …..
There was no one else in the laundry when I was there, so I couldn't have brought them home……
That’s just utter bullshit. LOADS of times I’ve used laundromats & not seen small items left behind from a previous user & found them at home later in my stuff. SomEboDY eLsE does not need to be there when OP was there, what a dumbass thing to claim.
So it still doesn’t even ‘put the situation to rest’ – they still could be from the laundromat even if BIL says they’re not his. I’d be affronted & done with that bf too, who had suspicions of me didn’t trust me and made horrid scene with my family, all while I was innocent.
Go ahead OP, go nuke your relationship.
Updateme!
… Find someone who does want kids
You’re problem is you are 19. You are typical for your age. What isn’t typical is being pregnant and engaged. You should be a carefree teenager going to college but you aren’t. I was also married and pregnant at 19 and then I was a single mother at 23. That made me grow up fast. Once your baby is born your attitude will have to change or your child will suffer. If you can get therapy now, do it. Things will be different once your brain matures at 27 but you can’t wait that long. At least you are aware and that is a start, but you can’t do it alone and your boyfriend can’t help because he isn’t trained. If you can’t afford therapy or if it isn’t available, read self help books, find free meditation classes and do as much as possible to improve yourself. The important thing is don’t ignore it or you will become an insufferable adult. Good luck.
She has no right disrupting everyone on the train with her issues.
If a person is feeling like they should break up, they probably should. Wishing you all the best.
It's to remember your life and experiences!! It's not in case you break up. You are thinking about this all wrong. It's not a competition.
I wonder if OP calls her a girl because she acts fucking immature in a way that no 30yo should. That's also possibly why he thinks they're all “so close” – adult 30yo males would not put up with her crap, so she goes after the easily influenced younger ones.
You need therapy. You were in an abusive relationship and needs to work through this. Leave her alone. It's been a year and she's moved on.
I have a therapist
Thank you!!
OP, you are a catch and your friends are rightly calling out that you are not compatible at a deep values level.
If you are not comfortable raising children in a religious home and I would guess that’s a deal breaker for him, you will not stay together.
Also you don’t seem compatible at an ambition or intellectual stimulation level. I believe finances are the number one reason couples fight and break up so money management should not be a taboo topic.
I suppose you can enjoy the ride in the meantime if you really want to. But why stay with someone when you already see the end date? Tbh you could be out dating, meeting all types of interesting, dynamic and ambitious partners who can actually afford to take you out (please tell me you’re not paying for everything so he can pay off debt) and are probably much more your equal.
I’m guessing he doesn’t fit in with your friends and he’s boring af.
Of course he glows when he sees you, he sits home unemployed all day with his pastor parents. He has nothing else to do but practice his witty and enticing lines to keep you hooked while talking about abstinence with them – and then being good in bed with you. He’s also a hypocrite and not a man of his word. (I’m not religious so not shaming, just using logic.)
I would probably be annoyed as your friend and you would in their shoes too.
OP, you are a catch and your friends are rightly calling out that you are not compatible at a deep values level.
If you are not comfortable raising children in a religious home and I would guess that’s a deal breaker for him, you will not stay together.
Also you don’t seem compatible at an ambition or intellectual stimulation level. I believe finances are the number one reason couples fight and break up so money management should not be a taboo topic.
I suppose you can enjoy the ride in the meantime if you really want to. But why stay with someone when you already see the end date? Tbh you could be out dating, meeting all types of interesting, dynamic and ambitious partners who can actually afford to take you out (please tell me you’re not paying for everything so he can pay off debt) and are probably much more your equal.
I’m guessing he doesn’t fit in with your friends and he’s boring af.
Of course he glows when he sees you, he sits home unemployed all day with his pastor parents. He has nothing else to do but practice his witty and enticing lines to keep you hooked while talking about abstinence with them – and then being good in bed with you. He’s also a hypocrite and not a man of his word. (I’m not religious so not shaming, just using logic.)
I would probably be annoyed as your friend and you would in their shoes too.
OP, you are a catch and your friends are rightly calling out that you are not compatible at a deep values level.
If you are not comfortable raising children in a religious home and I would guess that’s a deal breaker for him, you will not stay together.
Also you don’t seem compatible at an ambition or intellectual stimulation level. I believe finances are the number one reason couples fight and break up so money management should not be a taboo topic.
I suppose you can enjoy the ride in the meantime if you really want to. But why stay with someone when you already see the end date? Tbh you could be out dating, meeting all types of interesting, dynamic and ambitious partners who can actually afford to take you out (please tell me you’re not paying for everything so he can pay off debt) and are probably much more your equal.
I’m guessing he doesn’t fit in with your friends and he’s boring af.
Of course he glows when he sees you, he sits home unemployed all day with his pastor parents. He has nothing else to do but practice his witty and enticing lines to keep you hooked while talking about abstinence with them – and then being good in bed with you. He’s also a hypocrite and not a man of his word. (I’m not religious so not shaming, just using logic.)
I would probably be annoyed as your friend and you would in their shoes too.
This is the one, OP.
You suck.
Hey OP, he sounds like a fuckin asshole who is not worth your time.
Exhausting. This girl is not the problem. Your bf. Is this really worth all the time and effort?? If so, just get off Reddit and continue putting up this whatever this is. ?
Need a bit more context. What are you arguing about? How long does he go radio silent?
Since u didnt say what u were looking for…
We argue frequently.
Not good.
Why did I have to say anything? Why couldn't I have kept my mouth shut and just avoided an argument for once?
Bc u should be able to communicate with ur so.
Are we going to breakup?”
From this, sounds like u should. Imagine finding someone u can communicate with n not fight all the time.