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You summarized all the main important points, it would be foolish to let any of these things slide which is why I never will. I will never let a man who pushed me at the brink of suicide ever have the privilege to talk to me again and take advantage of my loving and giving nature. I know someone else out there will appreciate me and what I have to offer. I blocked him as soon as he told me to block the really nice person I was texting. There’s not a chance I would ever block the guy because he was actually there for me when I went to the hospital and was the reason I went ahead to get treated. A person who doesn’t love me has more compassion for me than someone who has been telling me he “loved me“ daily for hundreds of days
There's a free book on-line, called 'why does he do that' by Lundy bancroft. I think you'll recognize a lot of your relationship in it, and it will help you see the patterns better so its harder to be manipulated. It's not a long read, but you'll probably find it changes a lot for you.
You talk about hinting and nudging, but have you actually talked to him about it? If you can’t even have a conversation about marriage together, you’re probably not ready to be married.
I think one of the hardest pills for me to swallow was that when me and my ex broke up I realized I was the problem. I was the toxic and abusive one physically and emotionally. I had to actively tell myself that and swallow that pill and tell myself that I needed to leave him alone because I had done enough damage and you need to do the same. It’s hot when we love someone but you have done a lot of damage to her it’s not negotiable and it’s been enough time where are you going back into her life is going to cause more damage even if you guys somehow got back together and try to make it work there would be significant issues because of the history that you guys have. Good luck
You summarized all the main important points, it would be foolish to let any of these things slide which is why I never will. I will never let a man who pushed me at the brink of suicide ever have the privilege to talk to me again and take advantage of my loving and giving nature. I know someone else out there will appreciate me and what I have to offer. I blocked him as soon as he told me to block the really nice person I was texting. There’s not a chance I would ever block the guy because he was actually there for me when I went to the hospital and was the reason I went ahead to get treated. A person who doesn’t love me has more compassion for me than someone who has been telling me he “loved me“ daily for hundreds of days
Stop stalking your ex girlfriend. You're being crazy and you need therapy before she gets a restraining order on you.
I hope 2023 is a great year for you! Or at least, not as bad as last year
There's a free book on-line, called 'why does he do that' by Lundy bancroft. I think you'll recognize a lot of your relationship in it, and it will help you see the patterns better so its harder to be manipulated. It's not a long read, but you'll probably find it changes a lot for you.
So why stay with someone you can't trust? You can always find someone who doesn't make you feel this way.
Every year for her birthday she got a limo and a shopping spree in downtown L.A.
Is this maybe something that you're misremembering, or is this the creative writing exercise leaking through?
No one would go on a shopping spree, in DTLA, in the early 00's…unless they were shopping for heroin.
I hope it's the former
You talk about hinting and nudging, but have you actually talked to him about it? If you can’t even have a conversation about marriage together, you’re probably not ready to be married.
There's been a ton of cheating fantasy trolls lately.
You walk that stage and you get that diploma. And then go to your brothers wedding.
I think one of the hardest pills for me to swallow was that when me and my ex broke up I realized I was the problem. I was the toxic and abusive one physically and emotionally. I had to actively tell myself that and swallow that pill and tell myself that I needed to leave him alone because I had done enough damage and you need to do the same. It’s hot when we love someone but you have done a lot of damage to her it’s not negotiable and it’s been enough time where are you going back into her life is going to cause more damage even if you guys somehow got back together and try to make it work there would be significant issues because of the history that you guys have. Good luck
U would but you're not. Lol girl good luck with whatever happens. But don't be surprised when it happens again & again. You can only blame yourself
And they take years to develop, and pinpointing exactly who you got it from is extremely difficult
You get help for YOUR problem