I get your POV but at the same time, this whole situationship has felt like it’s about me always caring for him. I don’t want to be a “garbage human being” as you said but I also don’t want to drop everything to help him. I want to make sure that he is safe but in a way that a friend can be, not romantic and completely not coddling and consoling like he wants me to be. Again, I’m not his girlfriend. That’s why I’m trying to find a way to balance, if I’m an asshole I wouldn’t even have answered him and deserted him.
We were in couples counseling during the pandemic our therapist would weekly tell her to get or at least try to find employment she wouldn’t. Was the first time I ever saw a therapist get frustrated but she just won’t do it.
Nobody has suggested that he give up any parental rights. But the 15 year old kid clearly resents the newborn and has escalated his behaviors to violence. He is an obvious danger to the newborn and his stepmom.
I mean he half knew Either way it doesnt matter much to me
I get your POV but at the same time, this whole situationship has felt like it’s about me always caring for him. I don’t want to be a “garbage human being” as you said but I also don’t want to drop everything to help him. I want to make sure that he is safe but in a way that a friend can be, not romantic and completely not coddling and consoling like he wants me to be. Again, I’m not his girlfriend. That’s why I’m trying to find a way to balance, if I’m an asshole I wouldn’t even have answered him and deserted him.
We were in couples counseling during the pandemic our therapist would weekly tell her to get or at least try to find employment she wouldn’t. Was the first time I ever saw a therapist get frustrated but she just won’t do it.
Nobody has suggested that he give up any parental rights. But the 15 year old kid clearly resents the newborn and has escalated his behaviors to violence. He is an obvious danger to the newborn and his stepmom.